Topic: why do guys shy away from bigger girls and why is weight a i
marshallgurl22's photo
Thu 08/06/09 09:45 AM

Idk that i necessarily agree that confidence is a major factor in big girls getting dates. im a big girl. i happen to be very confident and im treated like the plague. lol no joke.



I agree with you on that because i have been passed over a few times because of my weight at one point

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Thu 08/06/09 09:45 AM
interesting to me that you are confused by the same behavior you exhibit......"i mean come on who wants to be a size 2"





yea im trying to figure this out why is it so bad for a girl to be full figured and have meat on thier bones i mean come on who wants to be a size 2 and does it have to do with race are some races more acceptable with weight or not and why is it that people think oh she is fat so she must not care about herself or what she looks like

TxsSun's photo
Thu 08/06/09 09:47 AM
There are tons of men that like BBW....Just hang in there and ignore those mean ones.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 08/06/09 09:47 AM
Some like em thick some like em skinny some like em tall some like em round

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/06/09 09:50 AM
Most women don't like heavy guys, it's just preference!

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Thu 08/06/09 09:58 AM

Most women don't like heavy guys, it's just preference!


Exactly, everybody's got their own likes and dislikes. You can't hang someone for that -- well, not yet, anyway.


TxsSun's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:00 AM

Most women don't like heavy guys, it's just preference!



I think "some" might be more appropriate. "Most" is the majority and I disagree with that.

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Thu 08/06/09 10:06 AM
id **** u

Mystique42's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:07 AM
Whether you are thin, thick, or what have you.... I think you need to find someone who will read the entire book and not just look at the cover. Looks only get you so far in life so focus on your abilities and gifts and find someone who will support you in being the BEST you can be regardless of your so called outer cover. People grow old and life just happens to whither that cover, unless you can afford a plastic surgeon. Focus on finding the one who accepts you for who you are! The one who stands beside you through the thick and thin of times. Best wishes to you!

TxsSun's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:07 AM

id **** u



With a name like that, I am sure you would laugh

Blackbull222's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:10 AM
Bah, women need curves.

marshallgurl22's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:12 AM
lol thats ok

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:14 AM
You wouldn't BELIEVE the number of times I've been told "you're pretty for a fat girl" or "you'd be a knockout if you lost 80lbs"

And do you know what I think when I hear that? Why don't you go **** a tree. Cause I don't need backhanded compliments or comments about my weight. I'm ok with me most days and if some guy that comes along isn't than what good is he to me? I'm a good person I think, and that isn't based on how jiggly my butt is or what size pants I wear.

But that's just me.bigsmile

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:15 AM


Most women don't like heavy guys, it's just preference!



I think "some" might be more appropriate. "Most" is the majority and I disagree with that.



How unfortunate, however i judge by what i have observed over the years!

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:16 AM


Most women don't like heavy guys, it's just preference!


Exactly, everybody's got their own likes and dislikes. You can't hang someone for that -- well, not yet, anyway.





:thumbsup:

papersmile's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:19 AM
......"i mean come on who wants to be a size 2"


*raises hand*

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Thu 08/06/09 10:37 AM

ok this is just a topic that i find interesting and i never said that people could not have a preference everyone does i dont mind that at all SO AGAIN THIS IS A TOIPIC I FIND INTERESTING AND EVERYONE HAS PREFERENCES AND THATS OK I NEVER SAID THAT ITS WRONG TO WANT A CERTAIN THING PEOPLE ARE MISSING THE POINT OF THIS THREAD


I really don't understand, you say we are missing the point of the thread???
If preference is not an acceptable answer, then please tell us the exact point of the thread!

Because otherwise it would become a fat girl bashing thread.
there is no need for that.

There is both good and bad qualities in everyone, regardless of size, color, height, religion and so on.what what

krupa's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:39 AM
I just want a chick who is physically perfect. Is that too much to ask?

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Thu 08/06/09 10:45 AM

I just want a chick who is physically perfect. Is that too much to ask?


Perfection, like beauty.. Is in the eye of the beholder.
Myself.. I just want one that isn't thousands in debt!
I wish I could say what I think here, but the thread is in the wrong category..
But if Sharron Stone was 400 pounds.. I don't think the beaver shot in the movie would have had the same effect on melaugh

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 08/06/09 10:46 AM

I just want a chick who is physically perfect. Is that too much to ask?





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