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I'm just sitting here thinking how awful it would be to have guys appear out of no where and compliment me and hit me up.. gee, must really suck.  LOL!!! get outta my head. |
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Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people? I'm at school doing my work and some guys just come up to me and start laying down lines, when I am at my busiest! I could take it as a compliment but at the same time it's just very annoying. It's especially awful when they get super aggressive, I thought school was supposed to be a safe environment? passes AQ a can of mace.... I was just about to suggest that. |
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its too bad you couldn't take it as a compliment. but hey... that just plain sucks!! gettin hit on.. what the heck was he thinkin.. tryin to talk to a pretty girl! crazy men.  
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Imagine this extremely attractive man....you notice his smile, his easy relaxed manner around people who know him... he's all lit up...seems very ATTRACTIVE... you see him about campus, and you really notice him... a moment in time occurs, there he is! Alone! All the negative thoughts have rolled around your head, "he won't want to know me, he is too cool, he is way out of my league"...and still...you are drawn to him. So you suck up the courage, walk over, mind racing, heart pounding, and out of your mouth pops out a lame one liner.... And he looks at you like a dog turd he stepped in.... Hmmmm..... other side of the fence is rather uncomfortable, yeah? Someone thought that you were pretty special, enough to notice.....it costs nothing to acknowledge kindly. Oh but the look on their face when you look at them like they are a dog turd is SO much more satisfying. Being kind just isn't any fun at all. |
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Oh but the look on their face when you look at them like they are a dog turd is SO much more satisfying. Being kind just isn't any fun at all. If that tongue of yours pushes any further into your cheek, it's gonna poke a hole in it!!!!!! This is hilarious!!!!!! Someone pass me a mirror?  
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The Universe is cruel...vewy, vewy cruel...
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Oh this is easy.... it is exactly like fishing....the more often you throw some bait out there...the more often you will get a bite. Just deal with it honey. Plenty of people get hit on. More often than not it is by someone who you got no attraction to and zero in common. But, at least you are attractive enough to get hit on. Could be worse....you could be posting that no one shows any interest in you. Well, very true i spose, and besides, any of the really bad ones can just be reported on. i've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. Oh....guys who won't take no for an answer....(I know the type....plenty of women that way too) This may seem crude...but if you really want to get them off your back....just tell them "Look...if your d**k is less than 10 inches I WILL PUBLICLY HUMILIATE YOU"....then go back to your business....95% of guys will tuck tail and slink away muttering something about you being a lesbian ..... if that don't work...just look up and say...."Give me your credit cards"....they will back the hell off. |
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Oh but the look on their face when you look at them like they are a dog turd is SO much more satisfying. Being kind just isn't any fun at all. If that tongue of yours pushes any further into your cheek, it's gonna poke a hole in it!!!!!! This is hilarious!!!!!! Someone pass me a mirror? * takes a bow *  
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The Universe is cruel...vewy, vewy cruel... But not as cruel as college boys it seems. |
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* takes a bow * 
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The Universe is cruel...vewy, vewy cruel... **SIGH** |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Sun 08/02/09 04:40 PM
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The Universe is cruel...vewy, vewy cruel... **SIGH** I think she might have meant the University is cruel. LOL |
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Oh this is easy.... it is exactly like fishing....the more often you throw some bait out there...the more often you will get a bite. Just deal with it honey. Plenty of people get hit on. More often than not it is by someone who you got no attraction to and zero in common. But, at least you are attractive enough to get hit on. Could be worse....you could be posting that no one shows any interest in you. Well, very true i spose, and besides, any of the really bad ones can just be reported on. i've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. What was your point exactly???? 
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves but rather that they really don't understand what the OP is talking about. I do. The type of harrassment she is speaking of isn't the respectful, flattering approach of a man who merely is trying to express being attracted her.
There is a type of aggressive harrasment made toward young females which is done purely for victimization purposes. Harrasment that more mature women and men are not subjected to. I've experienced it myself many times. Sometimes even a group of men approach me boistrously and when I try to politely say hi and keep walking in fear of my safety they insist on following me and demanding that I stop to talk to them. In some cases they may become hostile if they feel you are not responding in the way they want you to. This isn't funny or flattering to the OP I suspect. |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Sun 08/02/09 04:56 PM
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves Meh. I am just an insensitive p**ck. " Super aggressive " could have been taken in a couple of different ways. I, it would seem, took it the wrong way, but I made my apologies ion the thread she started where she was a bit more specific in what she was referring to. |
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The Universe is cruel...vewy, vewy cruel... **SIGH** I think she might have meant the University is cruel. LOL
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves Meh. I am just an insensitive p**ck. and yet i still heart you LOL |
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Perhaps you kids are over analyizing.....
I am pretty sure she is talking about guys who can't take a hint or won't take no for an answer.... |
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves but rather that they really don't understand what the OP is talking about. I do. The type of harrassment she is speaking of isn't the respectful, flattering approach of a man who merely is trying to express being attracted her. There is a type of aggressive harrasment made toward young females which is done purely for victimization purposes. Harrasment that more mature women and men are not subjected to. I've experienced it myself many times. Sometimes even a group of men approach me boistrously and when I try to politely say hi and keep walking in fear of my safety they insist on following me and demanding that I stop to talk to them. In some cases they may become hostile if they feel you are not responding in the way they want you to. This isn't funny or flattering to the OP I suspect. "Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people?" Although in retrospect I should have been more specific and askded: "Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people in an aggressive and confrontational matter?" Just had a bad day at school last week and got severely irked. |
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves Meh. I am just an insensitive p**ck. and yet i still heart you LOL 
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