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Your not in a relationship your fu%k bodies that play house. A relationship is a commitment to the person you love. My humble opinion. U want your cake and eat it too.   ::
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First off, I do have to ask... have you ever waited for something in your life? I mean I understand when you do want something, you want it, but when it comes to being intimate with your woman, doesn't the wait make it better? I don't know, I honestly don't, I was always taught that patience and honesty is a virtue. Good things are worth waiting for. And finally being in a relationship is being in a relationship, which means NOT doing anything with anyone else. No matter how bad you want the sweet lovin. No matter how good she looks. No matter how much she throws herself at you.
I dunno, if I am wrong, please let me know, I honestly don't mean to sound rude, but half of what I say ends up making me sound like a jerk so take it as ya want. |
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Hi Ras.
 I'm headed to bed but I hadda say hey.
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for me..I don't think that's a 'relationship'.....sounds more like yous are both still looking........
for me...guess its' that old fashioned...ony guy-one girl thing....  |
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To each his own
If it works for you and those involved great But My nephew and his wife did that Ya know what? His wife ran away with another women!! |
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How do Ýou feel about open relationship? My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 6 months now and we have an "open" relationship. By that I mean that we both have permission from the other to date and be intimate with other people. I have met some people that are outraged by such a thing and other think its great. We both use protection and only "play" safe. What do you think?  
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How do Ýou feel about open relationship? My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 6 months now and we have an "open" relationship. By that I mean that we both have permission from the other to date and be intimate with other people. I have met some people that are outraged by such a thing and other think its great. We both use protection and only "play" safe. What do you think? And someone to share the bills, help clean and cook............ Whilst he gets his oats elsewhere. |
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If both people are happy with the circumstances of the relationship, then it shouldn't matter what other people think.
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If that works for u, good for u. However, there's no way in Hades I would stand for it. If I'm with someone than I'm committed to him an he d@mn well better be committed to me.
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If both people are happy with the circumstances of the relationship, then it shouldn't matter what other people think.
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If both people are happy with the circumstances of the relationship, then it shouldn't matter what other people think. That we did !!
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We are both very sexual people and sometimes our work schedules don't allow us to be intimate with each other for days at a time. So we have other to fill the down time. Geez, a whole few days without sex. The horror!  I consider myself an extremely sexual person. I'd have sex 24/7 if I was in a committed monogamous relationship. But I went more than four years without sex because I wasn't. Does it suck? Abso-fricken-lutely!!!! Big time might I add. Conversations can be casual, sex in my opinion can't. It kinda seems to me like you're both no more than glorified orgasm receptacles if you just dump it in whoever just because the person you supposively love isn't around. JMO  To each their own.
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Edited by
sillyatheart3
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Wed 07/29/09 10:57 AM
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? What is going to happen when all of a sudden someone else ends up taking all her time, and you are on the out side looking in.
Who new My husband would find someone better then me and yet he did. Sometimes what you think you want is not always the same for the other person. did you ever consider the reason you both are having out side relationships is because "just a thought" you both do not.. satisfy each other, the sex is not the best you need someone else to fulfill those needs that she or you can not.. Maybe it is her idea after all because her needs are not getting met the way you think they are. I hear this a lot out of women on these dating site. The emotional and supported is not there so they seek it some where else. Sex is a word and love making is a emotion. YOU both are not 'IN LOVE with EACH OTHER'. for if you were you would never want to be in anyone else arms and you surly would never want her to be with another person, Male or female! Love is what is missing... SEX is a body function but your missing the intimacy...... That is what was missing in my relationship and I lost in the end! |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Wed 07/29/09 10:59 AM
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How do Ýou feel about open relationship? My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 6 months now and we have an "open" relationship. By that I mean that we both have permission from the other to date and be intimate with other people. I have met some people that are outraged by such a thing and other think its great. We both use protection and only "play" safe. What do you think?  I think  about open relationships
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I'm the jealous type. Not to the point where a woman cant have male friends or even comment on how hot another man is.
Beyond that, I dont share and I dont stray. I'm also paranoid about std's. Condoms are not 100% protection. I'm the type who, if I could have it this way, would have my next sexual partner as my permament partner. |
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My take is this...
If she doesn't want me enough to be with me, and only me, then I don't want to be with her at all. If she feels the need to get laid by someone else, while we are in a relationship, then that's exactly what she can do. Without the ' relationship '. |
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? What is going to happen when all of a sudden someone else ends up taking all her time, and you are on the out side looking in. Who new My husband would find someone better then me and yet he did. Sometimes what you think you want is not always the same for the other person. did you ever consider the reason you both are having out side relationships is because "just a thought" you both do not.. satisfy each other, the sex is not the best you need someone else to fulfill those needs that she or you can not.. Maybe it is her idea after all because her needs are not getting met the way you think they are. I hear this a lot out of women on these dating site. The emotional and supported is not there so they seek it some where else. Sex is a word and love making is a emotion. YOU both are not 'IN LOVE with EACH OTHER'. for if you were you would never want to be in anyone else arms and you surly would never want her to be with another person, Male or female! Love is what is missing... SEX is a body function but your missing the intimacy...... That is what was missing in my relationship and I lost in the end! Very well stated, if you truly love someone you never want to be apart from them, and you will wait for them. There is a saying that could apply here, and it goes this way: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs" That is what true love is all about. |
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I'm the jealous type. Not to the point where a woman cant have male friends or even comment on how hot another man is. Beyond that, I dont share and I dont stray. I'm also paranoid about std's. Condoms are not 100% protection. I'm the type who, if I could have it this way, would have my next sexual partner as my permament partner. Quite admirable. |
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I'm also paranoid about std's. Condoms are not 100% protection. I'm the type who, if I could have it this way, would have my next sexual partner as my permament partner. Beyond STD's, there's also the risk of a pregnancy. If that happens then you got a whole other situation on your hands. |
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I'm the jealous type. Not to the point where a woman cant have male friends or even comment on how hot another man is. Beyond that, I dont share and I dont stray. I'm also paranoid about std's. Condoms are not 100% protection. I'm the type who, if I could have it this way, would have my next sexual partner as my permament partner. Quite admirable. Thanks It has taken time for me to get like this. Time and love lost. I use to be the type who if we were watching the Flintstones, Id say: You want to fu** Barney Rubble, dont you!?!
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