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Topic: Dumb question..
Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 05:49 PM
I hate men even before the breakup... Ah, I kid, I kid. My friend got dumped on the day of her wedding, so we all went to the reception and partied out a$$es off. Every time she started feeling depressed, we took to the dance floor and just had fun acting crazy. I think it worked.

mb37858 Joined Sun 06/21/09 Posts: 4	Mon 07/27/09 07:36 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive..

cabot Joined Fri 06/12/09 Posts: 640	Mon 07/27/09 07:37 PM
It is normal to feel bitter to the opposite sex after a rough break up? Normal? I hope so, I have been bitter for 4 years...is that too long?

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Mon 07/27/09 07:40 PM
I need ugly friends lol BUT sometimes it works to your advantage to have hott friends! It worked for me this last week! At the county fair, she got hit on by a fire fighter, the rest of the week, if we had to pay for beer at all, we both got the fire fighters discount of $1 a can instead of $3 hehe!

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Mon 07/27/09 07:41 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. Wow, thats mean! Have you never had your heart broken?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 07:43 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. Wow, thats mean! Have you never had your heart broken? He's a brand new poster to mingle, so I'm thinking ummmmm, YEAH, LOL

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 07:43 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. your time will come

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 07:44 PM
I need ugly friends lol I had ugly friends and they still got more dates than me.

trunner69 Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 762	Mon 07/27/09 07:45 PM
It is normal to feel bitter to the opposite sex after a rough break up? Yes....and after a while it will get better..Time heals broken hearts and heals wounds Cher up and have fun

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Mon 07/27/09 07:51 PM
I need ugly friends lol I had ugly friends and they still got more dates than me. LOL that is true too! BTW, I love the shirt in ur pic!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 07:53 PM
I need ugly friends lol I had ugly friends and they still got more dates than me. LOL that is true too! BTW, I love the shirt in ur pic! thanks

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Mon 07/27/09 09:48 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. First post and that's it?

Want2B5ft Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 1267	Mon 07/27/09 09:51 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. not lookin to make friends here, huh?

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Mon 07/27/09 09:52 PM
Get over it you're way toooo sensitive.. First post and that's it? maybe he got scared and ran away!

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 07/27/09 10:25 PM
I need ugly friends lol I have one of those. When I am feeling particularly low about myself...I just go to the bar with my friend Bucky. That ALWAYS helps me feel better about myself. lol

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Tue 07/28/09 07:06 AM
Thank guys, I know time will help it heal. And yeah to that a-hole.. he will soon feel the wrath of a redhead..

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 07/28/09 07:10 AM
Bitterness is part of the process Don't let it consume you

AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Tue 07/28/09 07:12 AM
A drunken night out with some of your best friends...just go out and enjoy yourself! did it... she got all the guys buying her drinks, I got nothing... an she started to ignore me more after the drinks. She did say sorry bout it. she was too drunk. I feel your pain, and relate... bleh, it was just one evening -- and given the tone of your posts, you may have been putting out the "don't come near me" vibe... Try to think of yourself... bitterness and hate does you no good... forgive, for YOURSELF (forgiveness is about you, not about them)... you don't want to become preoccupied with them, the bitterness... the anger... it all happens, but try to let it go... We all go through this process at a different pace...

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 07/28/09 07:20 AM
Xanex works. You feel nothing.

Sigiere Joined Fri 05/29/09 Posts: 150	Tue 07/28/09 07:24 AM
I think so yeah. A particularly bitter breakup will cause enough anguish emotionally to cause a person to project that experience on all the opposite sex until the new wound has healed sufficiently enough for the person to realize that not all people are going to be just like or similiar to the one that is at the center of their pain. It's a life experience. If will make you stronger and more cautious in the furture.