I just wanna be haPPY and have someone to enjoy the lord with. Pray for me.lol I know theres someone out there BUT WHERE IS HE!!I'm gonna be patient though. Bare with me !lol

Girl, as pretty as you are I don't see how you would have any trouble attracting a man. My prayers are with you.

Ephiany, I say the same prayer almost every night, but from what I have learned. I need to focus more on being more like God and when God's time is right, he will give me the woman of my dreams.

I'm sure you'll find someone. Yes, you should wait on God's timing but that also involves using good judgement and paying attention to your surroundings! LOL You never know who's out there (could be the one right in front of you). I'm pretty sure I passed on some good ones but that would be my fault. I spent alot of my life just being 'busy' and being into 'ME' only. But I've mellowed out a bit and (even though I'm older), I let go of the pressure of dating and hoping to finding Mr. Right. It'll happen....eventually.

i think it might be hard to find a good christian man for yourself maybe because alot of the men of this world to day who claim to be of our Father are caught up in themselves and in this world the devil is strong these days so as men of God we have to be stronger seperating ourselves from whatever distractions that can pull us away from Him aware and alert so that when our Father places us in front of a beautiful christian woman who is placing our Father first and not her desires then as christian men we respect and admire those wishes and place our Savior as the fondation 2 souls will grow as one what do think?

Ive been wondering that same thing myself. Ill pray for you! I really hope you find the one.

Since you are REALLY attractive a lot of folks ignore you. They immediately dislike you because you (in their imagination) have received more than your share of attention. They are jealous and angry. They want you to suffer like they do.
Now all you have to do is quit being attractive. You might try this:
From what I hear NY is a close 3rd to Washington DC and VEGAS in regards to criminal activity. Finding a GODLY man may be very difficult even after you make the adjustment suggested above.

GOD bless.

keep praying every day and night - fervently :)
and nothin is impossible for Him to work out on, just bear that thought in us all time (at least try)

:)

I completely understand what you mean by this. I am in the same situation. I pray God sends you your mate and mine as well.

Sounds like there is no hope, if many can not find a true Christian man. Too many "Christian men" use the term Christian loosely as a title only. Where are they??

Often times hurtin people hurt others. N unfortunately even in church there r some men whom thought that they found the one n became hurt so then they close themselves off/begin to protect themselves. I am grateful for ma two sisters whom God has declared a season of wait for! They have taught me how to actively look for ma wife n knw her in the spirit n not jus n the flesh. So sometimes jus to have a man that prayers is a big request.I am a man of wisdom n power n influence in the realms of many things.

I suggest not so much looking,but apply yourself with groups that are helping others,Food pantries,blood drives,Toys for Tots,soup kitchens,Coats for Kids,..the list go's on where you could find a christian man, thats kind and caring...one looks for what one is...
Good Luck on your search,and i'll pray for all.

Believe me it's just as hard to find a Christian girl, a girl who love's the Lord and want's to serve Him with their life is rare and precious.

Well, other than looking online, I suggest church and organized church events. Some churches have a good singles ministry. Others you may have to just get to know some people, and then if someone is interesting to you ask him if he's taken. Honestly, I know as a Christian guy it's a little ackward to talk about stuff like this in those kind of places... so make friends and go do stuff with them! I haven't found anyone doing that yet... but I know 6 couples who have. It may or may not work, just like looking online, or asking out the first stranger you meet at a supermarket. At least you will have an idea of who the person is if you are friends! Speaking of which, chat it up some here on the forums. There's gobs of fun people on here!
Finally, good on you taking your time to make sure you find the right person!

for the OP,.. maybe this will seem corny or maybe it will speak to your heart, but just yesterday I was listening to Joel Osteen and he gave what I thought was pretty good advice

Basically, he said let go and let God. Dont stop striving for your dreams or goals but make up your mind that you dont NEED those things to be happy. For example, in my case, I have to say 'I sure would LOVE to meet that special God fearing musical guy who cherished me and our family,,,but I dont NEED to meet a guy to be happy, I am happy where I am and I leave the rest to God to fulfill on his schedule,, not mine'