idk there can be some big big differences there

Now see...that last part is the " nice " guy. We aren't about that.

We may have to draw some blood to cleanse you of that particular problem.

The difference between the " good " guy and the " nice " guy is this...

The " nice " guy is there for her with a shoulder to cry on, and all the right things to say, only to watch her repeat the same mistakes next time around. Then he'll complain about it.


The " GOOD " guy is the one who let's her know that he's there for her, but also let's her know that it's her own fault for not looking deeper into the reasoning for the choices she makes. That is what a friend is as opposed to a doormat. He knows the he and she could be good together, but accepts the fact that he just isn't what she wants. But he doesn't complain about it.

haha well your judgement mistake is thinking that i just sit there and say its allright he was a prick..you can ask anyone that is in the other forums with me..im far from that. but i am there for them. cause i am a "good" friend. but that doesnt mean that i dont tell them its there fault in the first place. if being good is something that you do not so often i can tell that making correct judgements is certainly NOT one of those few times you choose so.

I'm just a rough looking, hard working man. I sneer at the women that chase those pretty boys, knowing that quite possibly they'll find out that he's a whiner and has no real personality, but at least they look good together awe

p.s. I'm not a nice guy but can be good if you deserve it

Nice guys whine about being overlooked. Isn't that what you're doing in this thread?

ok back home.. what goes on here?? no whineing!!

<--- NOT a good guy..
<--- NOT a handsome guy...
<--- NOT a muscular guy ....
BUT... <--- ... I'm a great guy, just ask me

This thread is so inspiring me to redo my profile.

"I am not a beauty queen but am not butt ugly either. I am somewhere in between. I am not a biotch...but play one on tv and have the talent of bringing it out when the situation calls for it. I can be "nice" if you deserve it. But, I can be really bad, too. "

How is that for a start? In the meantime, I am going to sit back and take notes. I am not looking for a Brad Pitt or George Clooney...a Patrick Swayze would be nice...hmmm. I am looking for someone that compliments me and makes me feel that special something that no one else does.

Nice guys whine bout everything. Stead of grabbing a handful and diggin in.

Man, I TOTALLY lost control of this thread from my own POV!

OK, so justaguy? Yes, I know you, no you're not getting flamed for it (at least I'm not flaming ya), and YES for SURE time and getting to know each-other can increase attraction BIG time. But see, here's the problem with that in relation to this thread, at least from where I'm sitting --

Many of us here will never get that chance with anyone else here. Distance is a bi**h.

I'll just say I have certainly had my fair share of relationships with men whom my friends have looked at me like for dating, whom I was dating because I WANTED to. I have no idea what "he" will look like. I only know that, to me, he'll be amazing in all the ways that matter -- including the "wow" factor. And if he doesn't instill that in my friends? All the better!

I'm learning a lot

I beleive you will find it.

Membership still open????

i belive im more of the adam sandler, jim carrey, and napolean dynomite mixed in one lmao

I think I qualify without a doubt

Too many Ladies love ya, getting you in will be tough!! LOL!

...or a man who likes to wipe up drool??? (Everyone say eeewwwww!)

Not really. It doesn't really surprise me that you would think so.

I am simply making a statement that there are a whole lot of guys thinking about, but choosing not to do so.

There is a huge difference between ' whining ' about something, and simply stating an idea.

Nobody that I can see doing any ' whining '.

Some people are choosing to see it as such. I'm sure Singme isn't the only one looking at it that way.

Their choice. Their perspective.