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"who is funny, sweet, caring and faithful and has a love for animals and family life." Well, there is the crux of your problem right there, young lady. Guys who love family life are either boring as hell and not funny, and that's why they figure being married and raising a family is such a hoot and more fun than a barrel of monkey. The other type of guy who perhaps is funny, he will not be sweet, as his goal with establishing a family is to have a close-knit group who cannot escape his brutal abuse of them. A guy who is funny, sweet, caring, yet likes a family life, will never stay faithful. That type of guy uses his marriage as a springboard to have affairs with a never-ending stream of married women, one after another. The fact he has a family will make the other men's wives think he's caring; he is free of STD; and that he won't talk. Well, two out of three ain't bad. Really, Sweety, Sassy, Simple, there simply isn't one swset chance you (or anyone else, no matter who they are) of catching a guy like you want with the attributes you attribute to him. He, simply, does not exist. I would like to suggest, that in order to keep yourself from a big heart-ache or two, and to help you eventually lose your God-given innocence, that you somehow alter the criteria you look for in a possible mate. Try fifty-ish, balding men with pot-bellies; or young men who go out drinking every Friday with their buddies from high school and come home drunk and want to make love to you but can't and are scaring the bejeesus out of your children during the proceedings. Thats totally untrue, wow people with tough lives just assume the whole world is that way. I have been hit and knocked down many times, but I don't jump up and say, my dream girl doesn't exist. I know she does exist, its just a matter of if she wants to exist with me.. There is the difference in your argument.. lol Good post though...  |
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 11:31 PM
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Can't you meet a nice Christian guy in church? As logical as that might seem.... My guess would be that the " Christian " guys in churches are just as bad, if not worse, than guys that aren't religious. No, what it means is, just because someone is not compatible does not mean that are BAD as you put it, just because a relationship doesn't work out, does not mean the other party was bad or mean or evil, it just means, they weren't the one. Christians arent perfect people and never claim to be, if they do, then they had better question whether they really are. Christians are people just like anyone else, they make mistakes and do things wrong, the difference is, we recognized our sin and try to learn off it and correct ourselves instead of repeating it over and over. Please don't turn this into a christian bashing thread. Well..I'm not gonna bother to go there since this is the wrong forum section for it. LOL, If you didn't want to go there, then BACKSPACE would have taken care of that. I wasn't getting defensive, just taking my side on the debate. Sorry if you took it wrong, I guess it does look kind of harsh, it wasn't intended. Guess i could have left out the bashing part. True. Backspace could have been used...but then again...you got my point. As I said, it wasn't intended the way you took it. Lets move on...
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