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Topic: WHAT-HAS-THIS-SITE-DONE-FOR-YOU?
alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:49 PM
bigsmile

I am so incredibly happy right now. Ok, so a lot of things in my life are stressing me right now and I’m feeling forced to make decisions I am not ready to make, but I have something now that means so much more to me thanks to this site. :thumbsup:

No, it’s not a man. laugh I guess I should say it’s not a woman either for those of you with an open mind.

It really doesn’t matter to anyone but me what it is. All that matters is that something that is a major part of me, that my mother has repeatedly made me feel inadequate about, is being appreciated and complimented by others on here and I am so happy and grateful. flowerforyou

Ok… so posts are supposed to get people thinking and communicating about how they feel. So, my question to all is…

what Other than the obvious “I met someone…” (it IS a “dating” site), what else has this site done for you? spock

think E.g.:
- Helped you open up more to others
- Validated your opinions on something
- Helped you be a better debater
- Opened your mind to other ways of thinking or feeling
- etc…

A HUGE thank you to those who have made me feel this way! :banana:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:50 PM
I have made some of the most wonderful friends ever... I wouldn't have met them if I didn't find this site (JSH) I am thankful every day...

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Sun 07/19/09 08:51 PM
This place hasn't done much. Except for make me cut down on the number of posts I make.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:51 PM
devil More victimspitchfork

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:54 PM
christ i dunno. it hasnt gotten me a date... but its fun to post stupid ****. so my answers are as follows:

1) posting retarded ****

and

c) robot sex

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:56 PM
That's a very good question.

I thought I had made some friends here, and in a couple of cases, I have. Very good friends.

But, on the other hand, when I was forced to go away for a month or so ( not because of a suspension..I moved and couldn't get internet service right away ) 90% of the people who I thought were friends...

Well...let's just say that no one thought to try to find out if I was even alive.

I guess, the best I can say is that this site gives me a place to vent, make smart *** posts, answer a few people's questions ( although even that is dying a slow painful death at this point ) and keep myself from going out of my mind ( what's left of it ) from sheer boredom.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:58 PM

That's a very good question.

I thought I had made some friends here, and in a couple of cases, I have. Very good friends.

But, on the other hand, when I was forced to go away for a month or so ( not because of a suspension..I moved and couldn't get internet service right away ) 90% of the people who I thought were friends...

Well...let's just say that no one thought to try to find out if I was even alive.

I guess, the best I can say is that this site gives me a place to vent, make smart *** posts, answer a few people's questions ( although even that is dying a slow painful death at this point ) and keep myself from going out of my mind ( what's left of it ) from sheer boredom.


I would have if 1) you had told me you were moving and 2) I had your contact info... tongue2

lonetar25's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:58 PM
this site broke my refresh button tears

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 07/19/09 08:59 PM
Realized serious degradation of the English language

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Sun 07/19/09 09:00 PM

bigsmile

I am so incredibly happy right now. Ok, so a lot of things in my life are stressing me right now and I’m feeling forced to make decisions I am not ready to make, but I have something now that means so much more to me thanks to this site. :thumbsup:

No, it’s not a man. laugh I guess I should say it’s not a woman either for those of you with an open mind.

It really doesn’t matter to anyone but me what it is. All that matters is that something that is a major part of me, that my mother has repeatedly made me feel inadequate about, is being appreciated and complimented by others on here and I am so happy and grateful. flowerforyou

Ok… so posts are supposed to get people thinking and communicating about how they feel. So, my question to all is…

what Other than the obvious “I met someone…” (it IS a “dating” site), what else has this site done for you? spock

think E.g.:
- Helped you open up more to others
- Validated your opinions on something
- Helped you be a better debater
- Opened your mind to other ways of thinking or feeling
- etc…

A HUGE thank you to those who have made me feel this way! :banana:



Very welcome, Now when do we get to see the playboy layout????:wink: drool flowers

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:00 PM

christ i dunno. it hasnt gotten me a date... but its fun to post stupid ****. so my answers are as follows:

1) posting retarded ****

and

c) robot sex


Hey! I remember you! What happened to the photo where you were looking up?

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:00 PM
oh, and it has taught me that i dont look good with facial hair

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:01 PM


christ i dunno. it hasnt gotten me a date... but its fun to post stupid ****. so my answers are as follows:

1) posting retarded ****

and

c) robot sex


Hey! I remember you! What happened to the photo where you were looking up?



put some new ones up. duh?

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Sun 07/19/09 09:02 PM



I do not know yet because I am too new, I do not believe anything negative will come of it, I just hope for the positive.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:02 PM


That's a very good question.

I thought I had made some friends here, and in a couple of cases, I have. Very good friends.

But, on the other hand, when I was forced to go away for a month or so ( not because of a suspension..I moved and couldn't get internet service right away ) 90% of the people who I thought were friends...

Well...let's just say that no one thought to try to find out if I was even alive.

I guess, the best I can say is that this site gives me a place to vent, make smart *** posts, answer a few people's questions ( although even that is dying a slow painful death at this point ) and keep myself from going out of my mind ( what's left of it ) from sheer boredom.


I would have if 1) you had told me you were moving and 2) I had your contact info... tongue2


The site email quit working????? :tongue:

No worries. You weren't one of those I was referring to anyway...lol

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:02 PM

Realized serious degradation of the English language



Go out in public and you'll hear that. It's not just on this site. noway

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:02 PM

This place hasn't done much. Except for make me cut down on the number of posts I make.


Why? spock

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:04 PM

devil More victimspitchfork


Seem to recall a "scary" movie about looking into a mirror... scared

HalfAngel's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:04 PM
Edited by HalfAngel on Sun 07/19/09 09:05 PM
showed me I am not the only one in the world looking for someone.
showed me that there are some real head cases out there
showed me that there are some genuine people ot there
it is like going to a bar and you just take your chances but this is better, easier to weed them out.
this site has been a place where I have gotten the bigger picture
so it is all GOOD
but no date yet

SunnyMcleod's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:04 PM
I've met a lot of great people here. People I know I can talk to about things and they won't think I'm crazy or odd or snotty.

I've learned a lot about myself from talking things out with people on here. Mirror's always getting me thinking away.

I've always written, more than I'd let on, but never ever let anyone read my stuff. I was always terrified about the reaction. Good or bad it made me anxious. But people here have been so wonderful about my stuff that I find myself encouraged more in all aspects of my life. Which is wonderful.

I really don't care if I meet the man of my dreams on here. Besides, he changes daily :laughing:

flowers

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