Topic: WHAT-HAS-THIS-SITE-DONE-FOR-YOU?
7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:05 PM
^her new pic is very pitchfork

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:05 PM

That's a very good question.

I thought I had made some friends here, and in a couple of cases, I have. Very good friends.

But, on the other hand, when I was forced to go away for a month or so ( not because of a suspension..I moved and couldn't get internet service right away ) 90% of the people who I thought were friends...

Well...let's just say that no one thought to try to find out if I was even alive.

I guess, the best I can say is that this site gives me a place to vent, make smart *** posts, answer a few people's questions ( although even that is dying a slow painful death at this point ) and keep myself from going out of my mind ( what's left of it ) from sheer boredom.


Did they have your phone number and new mailing address? slaphead You can't really blame them if they only had contact with you online and you didn't have online service for a while. I'm sure they were thrilled when you returned. :thumbsup:

chickayoshi's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:06 PM
:heart: This site, by far, is the only site that entertains me. And I'm talking about the members in the forums. There are days where I can give advise. And days where I can act goofy. And days where I need advice myself. I like the diversity...it makes this site great...not same ol' same ol'. Yeah we have our rounds of boredom, but someone is bound to break the ice with a good topic. :heart:

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:06 PM
This site has made me enjoy the coolest phone sex

Oh wait ... that was another site spock

My bad slaphead


Seriously i have met some cool people on here

And some i met in person too :smile:

freeonthree's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:07 PM
This site has helped me realize how lucky I am to be single...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSEz8A0EnXs

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:07 PM
Edited by 7z3r05 on Sun 07/19/09 09:08 PM
^^http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSEz8A0EnXs^^

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:08 PM


bigsmile

I am so incredibly happy right now. Ok, so a lot of things in my life are stressing me right now and I’m feeling forced to make decisions I am not ready to make, but I have something now that means so much more to me thanks to this site. :thumbsup:

No, it’s not a man. laugh I guess I should say it’s not a woman either for those of you with an open mind.

It really doesn’t matter to anyone but me what it is. All that matters is that something that is a major part of me, that my mother has repeatedly made me feel inadequate about, is being appreciated and complimented by others on here and I am so happy and grateful. flowerforyou

Ok… so posts are supposed to get people thinking and communicating about how they feel. So, my question to all is…

what Other than the obvious “I met someone…” (it IS a “dating” site), what else has this site done for you? spock

think E.g.:
- Helped you open up more to others
- Validated your opinions on something
- Helped you be a better debater
- Opened your mind to other ways of thinking or feeling
- etc…

A HUGE thank you to those who have made me feel this way! :banana:



Very welcome, Now when do we get to see the playboy layout????:wink: drool flowers


When the price is right and women in their 40's are considered sexy. laugh
Want to be my agent and get me a great deal? bigsmile

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:09 PM

oh, and it has taught me that i dont look good with facial hair


oh-kay... but you do with flowers there instead? huh

SunnyMcleod's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:09 PM

^her new pic is very pitchfork

Talking 'bout me?surprised I'm a nice girl remember:angel:

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:10 PM


oh, and it has taught me that i dont look good with facial hair


oh-kay... but you do with flowers there instead? huh



i wanted to appear as though i were sneaking around in a bed of flowers. hence the conspicuous sideways glance.

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:10 PM



christ i dunno. it hasnt gotten me a date... but its fun to post stupid ****. so my answers are as follows:

1) posting retarded ****

and

c) robot sex

Hey! I remember you! What happened to the photo where you were looking up?

put some new ones up. duh?


I liked the one where it appeared you were looking up at me so adoringly. :cry:

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:11 PM

I do not know yet because I am too new, I do not believe anything negative will come of it, I just hope for the positive.


Absolutely right frame of mind! :thumbsup:

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:11 PM


^her new pic is very pitchfork

Talking 'bout me?surprised I'm a nice girl remember:angel:


oh, i know! a guy cant give a compliment anymore? should i have said it like an old person?? 'you are a very pretty young lady!'

freeonthree's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:11 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Sun 07/19/09 09:12 PM


OK, how did you do that ? Lets see...
"http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSEz8A0EnXs"
How did you make that link ?

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:13 PM

showed me I am not the only one in the world looking for someone.
showed me that there are some real head cases out there
showed me that there are some genuine people ot there
it is like going to a bar and you just take your chances but this is better, easier to weed them out.
this site has been a place where I have gotten the bigger picture
so it is all GOOD
but no date yet


But look at all you have gained and learned. You have become a more experienced and better you and are just preparing yourself for the right one. :thumbsup:

SunnyMcleod's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:13 PM



^her new pic is very pitchfork

Talking 'bout me?surprised I'm a nice girl remember:angel:


oh, i know! a guy cant give a compliment anymore? should i have said it like an old person?? 'you are a very pretty young lady!'

I'm sorry I forgot this guy ---> laugh (sarcasm is hard to portray online)

Thanks hun bigsmile I really appreciate it.

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:14 PM

I've met a lot of great people here. People I know I can talk to about things and they won't think I'm crazy or odd or snotty.

I've learned a lot about myself from talking things out with people on here. Mirror's always getting me thinking away.

I've always written, more than I'd let on, but never ever let anyone read my stuff. I was always terrified about the reaction. Good or bad it made me anxious. But people here have been so wonderful about my stuff that I find myself encouraged more in all aspects of my life. Which is wonderful.

I really don't care if I meet the man of my dreams on here. Besides, he changes daily :laughing:

flowers


You've said all I didn't say. :wink:

alternativa's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:15 PM

^her new pic is very pitchfork


Yes, I think Sunny is very nice to view as well. pitchfork

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:15 PM


devil More victimspitchfork


Seem to recall a "scary" movie about looking into a mirror... scared

pitchfork

7z3r05's photo
Sun 07/19/09 09:16 PM




christ i dunno. it hasnt gotten me a date... but its fun to post stupid ****. so my answers are as follows:

1) posting retarded ****

and

c) robot sex

Hey! I remember you! What happened to the photo where you were looking up?

put some new ones up. duh?


I liked the one where it appeared you were looking up at me so adoringly. :cry:



i cant find it!!!! i looked through a bunch of crap... just pretend i am beneath you looking up...

...

uh, that came out rig- erm... that came out wrong.