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Topic: So hurt
Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Sat 06/27/09 04:16 PM
Never again will I do long distance.I was in a LD relationship for close to two yrs. We met twice and talked everyday.Sure we had are moments and fights.But a week ago he's still calling me baby, and darlin and misses me.A few days ago I call and we talk for awhile,he tells me he up and moved to another state and get this with a lady he met on here.Player or what.He just made it hard for me to even be on here and do it again,and i feel sorry for the next guy,all my trust just went out the window. Sorry to hear. I had my share of long distance R. a while ago, never again.

GG2 Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 2120	Sat 06/27/09 04:49 PM
Is that why you're here? For the fantasy world aspect? Ummmmm, no. To quote fife... "i can't speak for anyone else but i am exclusively here for chat and fun." Sometimes I like participating in vanilla activities, is that so bad?

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sat 06/27/09 06:31 PM
Thanks for all your views and support.It's been hard but getting through it.

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Sat 06/27/09 06:35 PM
That is so terrible! Sorry to hear that this guys is no good! Maybe it was a blessing in disguise you found out before it went further. But keep your faith, not all guys are like him.. he was just one of the rotten apple among the good ones!

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sat 06/27/09 06:39 PM
That is so terrible! Sorry to hear that this guys is no good! Maybe it was a blessing in disguise you found out before it went further. But keep your faith, not all guys are like him.. he was just one of the rotten apple among the good ones! thank you,I'm trying.I really feel for the one he moved in with

cableguy8900 Joined Wed 10/15/08 Posts: 138	Sat 06/27/09 06:58 PM
Never again will I do long distance.I was in a LD relationship for close to two yrs. We met twice and talked everyday.Sure we had are moments and fights.But a week ago he's still calling me baby, and darlin and misses me.A few days ago I call and we talk for awhile,he tells me he up and moved to another state and get this with a lady he met on here.Player or what.He just made it hard for me to even be on here and do it again,and i feel sorry for the next guy,all my trust just went out the window. im sorry to hear that .... i know its rough but try to count your blessings 1) no divorce 2) no division of property 3) no kids 4) no stds 5) no more long distance phone bills 6) your available now!!!! 7) at least you know 8) your available now!!!! 9) you can do whatever you want!!!! 10) YOU DIDN'T MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE!!!!! good luck darling and whatever it is it'll pass xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 06/28/09 08:45 AM
Is that why you're here? For the fantasy world aspect? Ummmmm, no. To quote fife... "i can't speak for anyone else but i am exclusively here for chat and fun." Sometimes I like participating in vanilla activities, is that so bad? I was just asking, since you said it was a fantasy world.

GG2 Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 2120	Sun 06/28/09 05:00 PM
Is that why you're here? For the fantasy world aspect? Ummmmm, no. To quote fife... "i can't speak for anyone else but i am exclusively here for chat and fun." Sometimes I like participating in vanilla activities, is that so bad? I was just asking, since you said it was a fantasy world. When you start relying on the web to have a "relationship" with someone that you've never met, yea, then it DOES become fantasy. Having never met the other person, you can paint an image of them however you want them to be. That's what's wrong with so many people on date sites, for some reason they're deathly afraid to take that next step towards actually meeting the person. What's the point if you don't? Gonna just sit there and get yerself off while you chat with someone? How dreadfully boring!! I need flesh!!