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Topic: So hurt
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/26/09 06:29 PM
I think this other woman should be warned about how deceptive he is

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Fri 06/26/09 06:33 PM
I think this other woman should be warned about how deceptive he is You know as bad as it hurts,she's the one in for a big surprize.I know we can't say any names but Startravler any where near Wichita

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Fri 06/26/09 06:34 PM
Never again will I do long distance.I was in a LD relationship for close to two yrs. We met twice and talked everyday.Sure we had are moments and fights.But a week ago he's still calling me baby, and darlin and misses me.A few days ago I call and we talk for awhile,he tells me he up and moved to another state and get this with a lady he met on here.Player or what.He just made it hard for me to even be on here and do it again,and i feel sorry for the next guy,all my trust just went out the window. I know how you feel. I did that 4 years ago. And he asked me to marry him. 2 years in to the relationship he found someone in his town. There goes 2 years of trust. Look to the future. You are worthy of so much more.

GG2 Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 2120	Fri 06/26/09 06:35 PM
I think this other woman should be warned about how deceptive he is Deceptive? Don't think so. This was a LDR. They never work and those who think they will are seriously fooling themselves. There's this thing called reality, and sooner or later it comes and gives you a hard slap in the face. How could he be decpetive to someone who was 90% a stranger?

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Fri 06/26/09 06:37 PM
I think this other woman should be warned about how deceptive he is You know as bad as it hurts,she's the one in for a big surprize.I know we can't say any names but Startravler any where near Wichita Nope I'm next door to you Mn.I get that way on occasion got an add.?

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Fri 06/26/09 06:40 PM
I think you need some drinks...Yes some cocktails!

GG2 Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 2120	Fri 06/26/09 06:45 PM
No she needs to meet a real man, not a virtual boyfriend.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/26/09 06:50 PM
I can't believe he got away with this with another woman on the same site What makes you say that, Mirror? This IS Mingle, you know? True!

nvkikigirl Joined Thu 03/05/09 Posts: 3942	Fri 06/26/09 06:50 PM
Never again will I do long distance.I was in a LD relationship for close to two yrs. We met twice and talked everyday.Sure we had are moments and fights.But a week ago he's still calling me baby, and darlin and misses me.A few days ago I call and we talk for awhile,he tells me he up and moved to another state and get this with a lady he met on here.Player or what.He just made it hard for me to even be on here and do it again,and i feel sorry for the next guy,all my trust just went out the window. I'm sorry this happened to you...

faithfulways Joined Tue 06/23/09 Posts: 45	Fri 06/26/09 07:06 PM
I am sorry that happen to you. Sometimes the other woman knows about the other woman. It happen to me with my ex- huband.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/26/09 07:08 PM
I'm sorry too. People never cease to amaze do they?

babygirl98270 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 8084	Fri 06/26/09 07:14 PM
Uh-oh.. That makes me very concerned !!!!! What am I doing here?/ I am sorry to hear that.. He doesn't deserve you ..

Tootsweet13 Joined Sun 03/29/09 Posts: 2713	Sat 06/27/09 06:23 AM
I am soooo sorry you are hurting. I've been through that recently myself. It is difficult. And NOT good on a person's self-esteem. You only met twice in two years? That actually sounds more like a friendship than a relationship. But I know how it feels to invest so much time and emotion into online friends/boyfriend/etc. I just got out of a LDR as well, but we saw each other every 3 to 4 weeks. We were together for six months and I am only just now finding out about some lying he did. Knowing about the lying is helping me get over him REALLY quickly. I hope you feel better soon.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 06/27/09 06:29 AM
let me get this right? in 2 years u meet the person twice and thats a relationship these days?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 06/27/09 06:31 AM
I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 06/27/09 06:31 AM
I think this other woman should be warned about how deceptive he is Deceptive? Don't think so. This was a LDR. They never work and those who think they will are seriously fooling themselves. There's this thing called reality, and sooner or later it comes and gives you a hard slap in the face. How could he be decpetive to someone who was 90% a stranger? If he was not telling her what was actually going on, yes, that is deceptive.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 06/27/09 06:35 AM
oh balderdash. stuff and nonsense

pkd1220 Joined Thu 05/24/07 Posts: 8318	Sat 06/27/09 06:45 AM
(((Pam))) I've known you to only be such a kind and caring soul. Your writing in the poems and creative writing forum has shown that. You deserve so much better than what you received. Eventually, everyone gets whats coming to them. You, my friend, are meant to find an amazing man that will connect with you in such a way, that this won't happen. Chin up and keep showing that wonderful smile.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Sat 06/27/09 06:47 AM
wtf? this is NOT normal ppl, it's not even real!

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sat 06/27/09 06:59 AM Edited by justme659 on Sat 06/27/09 07:01 AM
wtf? this is NOT normal ppl, it's not even real! Why is this kind of emotion not real? A lot of us live in areas with stupid dorks as potential dating partners. As for myself, I wont go to places alone. That greatly reduces the chances of meeting someone in the real world. When we finally do meet someone on line and establish a connection with that person, profess love and devotion, that is as real as it gets with the other person. It is the investment we make of our hearts. It can be very real. And it is very normal to want that kind of exceptance and love in our lives. Even if you only see that person every few months or so. We are accepting of this online/LDR as norm as this is how we choose to meet people.