no...I agree with you...it could raise some red flags, but it's not a fact and I won't assume it is a fact without all of the info.

I agree.

I think people are just flipping nosey and have very active imaginations, once something gets in their mind, doesn't matter if there is proof or no proof.

When in doubt, get out - ez

yeppers Fran

it could be a buddy is sending him dirty jokes that the guy thinks might offend the girlfriend

I agree As Well.

Bam!!

could also be the winning lottery numbers and they are not willing to share

could also be baby pictures - there are some baby pictures I wouldnt wanna share

lol I stole all of my baby pics from my mom so she can't use them against me

Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it.



True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs


Tell tale signs of what? That there's something he doesn't want you to know about? Like perhaps a surprise for you? Or maybe just something that's none of your business? Too many people are far too quick to jump to conclusions based on weak-ass "evidence" such as this. Simple communication will often solve these problems, without having to resort to snooping and invasion of someone else's personal stuff and space. Just because you're in a relationship does not necessarily mean you can or should have access to every area of their brain and life every moment of every day. Seriously, if people have such lack of trust, they have NO business being in a relationship of any kind. That kind of lack of trust speaks volumes about insecurity and immaturity.


You are Not a Minority here!
I, too, believe in Communication, as well as Privacy. I Second your thoughts about TRUST as well...
Just because you are in a Relationship, does not give you "instant access" to your Mate's stuff... That would include his friends, his money, his business, his E-Mail OR his Phone! He had these things before you met him, and if you think they are now all "Joint-Property" you are sadly mistaken, and Probably on your way to being Single again...

I don't think I'd want a g/f who I could share a dirty joke with.

well...it could be an assumption on the man's part. I can out perv most guys so it doesn't bother me and most guys know that about me from the beginning

Well put.

heading to my corner now

Well there's a typo for you, that should have been "couldn't share a dirty joke with"

yayyyyyyyyyy I can get outta da corner now and dive right into da gutta

Fran....you STAY in the cutter. they have a corner for you IN the gutter lol


sad thing is Davey...I understood what you meant

but


but



thought we all floated in the gutta


no corners

we all know what else floats....and not talking about hope

No no, It's a typo honest!!!