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Edited by
directandwrite
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Sat 06/20/09 12:44 PM
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It seems to me as if there needs to be a happy medium in between. There should be a certain amount of respect into your partner's life and business. If they want you to know about things, they will tell you. However, if they have nothing to hide, there should be no big deal sharing many things. Even so, that shouldn't mean one should have to know everything in order for their partner to not be cheating.
Yes, of course you don't want to jump to conclusions about the idea that your mate could be cheating, but you also don't want to be naive either. Both of those things can make you a fool, just on opposite perspectives. |
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It seems to me as if there needs to be a happy medium in between. There should be a certain amount of respect into your partner's life and business. If they want you to know about things, they will tell you. However, if they have nothing to hide, there should be no big deal sharing many things. Even so, that shouldn't mean one should have to know everything in order for their partner to not be cheating. Yes, of course you don't want to jump to conclusions about the idea that your mate could be cheating, but you also don't want to be naive either. Both of those things can make you a fool, just on opposite perspectives. you are correct. a good way to handle it is a good balance. but if someone is getting red flags...then maybe that isn't a healthy relationship for that person and needs to move on. I see too many people almost get obessed with things. it's better to walk away IMO |
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It seems to me as if there needs to be a happy medium in between. There should be a certain amount of respect into your partner's life and business. If they want you to know about things, they will tell you. However, if they have nothing to hide, there should be no big deal sharing many things. Even so, that shouldn't mean one should have to know everything in order for their partner to not be cheating. Yes, of course you don't want to jump to conclusions about the idea that your mate could be cheating, but you also don't want to be naive either. Both of those things can make you a fool, just on opposite perspectives. you are correct. a good way to handle it is a good balance. but if someone is getting red flags...then maybe that isn't a healthy relationship for that person and needs to move on. I see too many people almost get obessed with things. it's better to walk away IMO I agree with you. Red flags and generally your intuition will tell you something. Not that you can't be wrong, but if something feels askew, it should be well thought about... |
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I agree...I have gone both ways with the red flags in my life...either ignore them or go overboard. that is why I prefer some form of proof or if my gut is telling me something is wrong, then I can either do something or ignore it....but many times jumping the gun has come back to bite me....so has ignoring things
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i dont worry about my phone since i almost never use it, hate texting. i still wouldnt give out my email info though since its mine and privacy and such.
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i dont worry about my phone since i almost never use it, hate texting. i still wouldnt give out my email info though since its mine and privacy and such. Well Rare, you are Rare aren't you? lol Therefore you probably wouldn't fit into any kind of traditional "man mold" lolol |
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indeed DAW.
 besides, i'd rather not be bad fuzzy and hazardous to you health  jokes aside though, i dont think i would
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