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shouldnt this go along with men are pigs, dogs, goats, or whatever other kinda men are pond scum threads that are out there??????    Nope it applies to the women too. |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Thu 06/18/09 09:57 AM
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why do people do this is beyond me. it's so much easier to move on. i guess it's a comfort zone for them.....or they like the excitement of cheating, and it turns them on more. i've known that type too. seems like everyone pays but them......
"one up" people. they always have to have an edge on others. they, like bullies, are so much fun to corner... to see the sheer terror in their eyes. (licks lips at the thought) i've actually had two that pissed their pants..... |
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if you wanna pay my phone bill then you can touch it...
until then no go... 
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs that's not necessarily a sign of cheating. it could be or it could be that the guy has had a nosey girlfriend before |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs Tell tale signs of what? That there's something he doesn't want you to know about? Like perhaps a surprise for you? Or maybe just something that's none of your business? Too many people are far too quick to jump to conclusions based on weak-ass "evidence" such as this. Simple communication will often solve these problems, without having to resort to snooping and invasion of someone else's personal stuff and space. Just because you're in a relationship does not necessarily mean you can or should have access to every area of their brain and life every moment of every day. Seriously, if people have such lack of trust, they have NO business being in a relationship of any kind. That kind of lack of trust speaks volumes about insecurity and immaturity. |
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my x use to pick up my phones and snap them talk about insecure
  
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 If you need these things to know he isn't cheating then you don't have a relationship worth having anyway so who cares. |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs That is a different matter and with that I would agree you may have reasons to be suspicious. |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs Tell tale signs of what? That there's something he doesn't want you to know about? Like perhaps a surprise for you? Or maybe just something that's none of your business? Too many people are far too quick to jump to conclusions based on weak-ass "evidence" such as this. Simple communication will often solve these problems, without having to resort to snooping and invasion of someone else's personal stuff and space. Just because you're in a relationship does not necessarily mean you can or should have access to every area of their brain and life every moment of every day. Seriously, if people have such lack of trust, they have NO business being in a relationship of any kind. That kind of lack of trust speaks volumes about insecurity and immaturity. Ok...let me reword that a bit....if he does it, after never doing it before. If its a new act. If he has never hid anything before. Then when you ask about it, and try to talk he changes the subject. |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs that's not necessarily a sign of cheating. it could be or it could be that the guy has had a nosey girlfriend before She said it was a "sign", doesn't necessarily mean he (or she) is cheating. Just raises the question IMO. Personally I'd ignore it unless there were other signs or it happened for a long period of time. there are perfectly legitimate reasons for short term secrets. |
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs Tell tale signs of what? That there's something he doesn't want you to know about? Like perhaps a surprise for you? Or maybe just something that's none of your business? Too many people are far too quick to jump to conclusions based on weak-ass "evidence" such as this. Simple communication will often solve these problems, without having to resort to snooping and invasion of someone else's personal stuff and space. Just because you're in a relationship does not necessarily mean you can or should have access to every area of their brain and life every moment of every day. Seriously, if people have such lack of trust, they have NO business being in a relationship of any kind. That kind of lack of trust speaks volumes about insecurity and immaturity. Ok...let me reword that a bit....if he does it, after never doing it before. If its a new act. If he has never hid anything before. Then when you ask about it, and try to talk he changes the subject. It would put a question in my head, but not be enough to convince me of anything by itself. |
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davey...I agree that it may be a sign. but I wouldn't assume that is the reason, but I would keep my eyes open.
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if you can't take the heat get out the kitchen
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Huh, has no one heard "privacy?" I don't want access to my boyfriend's e-mail, cell or anything else, nor would I have any respect for him if he insisted on access to mine. It's a matter of trust. If you don't have that, you have nothing. Besides, what if you insist, they give you access, you find nothing? Then you've blown their trust in YOU. Think about it. True...but you dont always have to ask...If you get close to the phone and he hides it, or drops the window while hes checking email...tale tale signs Tell tale signs of what? That there's something he doesn't want you to know about? Like perhaps a surprise for you? Or maybe just something that's none of your business? Too many people are far too quick to jump to conclusions based on weak-ass "evidence" such as this. Simple communication will often solve these problems, without having to resort to snooping and invasion of someone else's personal stuff and space. Just because you're in a relationship does not necessarily mean you can or should have access to every area of their brain and life every moment of every day. Seriously, if people have such lack of trust, they have NO business being in a relationship of any kind. That kind of lack of trust speaks volumes about insecurity and immaturity. 9/10 people who hide who is calling or click x on the webpage if you walk in a room or get mysterious late night calls are you guessed it: CHEATING! You dont have to ask to notice things like that. Its easy as f*ck to bust a cheater without all that stuff, that just tells you. There are a very small percentage of guys who do stuff like suprise you or what not. Sometimes they arent hiding something that bad but they are embarressed about it and I recommend talking about everything anyway, before and after the suspicions and stuff. |
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Well, I'm obviously in the minority here, someone who doesn't automatically assume that someone is cheating or is going to cheat. I wish you all well. But, remember, accusing someone of cheating is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Rules for Men #29
If she wants to constantly see your cell phone or sneaks peeks to it, she is untrusting. If she demands access to your email accounts, she's untrusting. If she accusses you of cheating without reason, she's cheating herself. |
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Rules for Men #29 If she wants to constantly see your cell phone or sneaks peeks to it, she is untrusting. If she demands access to your email accounts, she's untrusting. If she accusses you of cheating without reason, she's cheating herself. aian't that the damn truth 
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davey...I agree that it may be a sign. but I wouldn't assume that is the reason, but I would keep my eyes open. An appropriate attitude IMO. |
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