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Topic: Why do guys nudge me, make me a fav, .....
one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:05 PM
mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????

no photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:11 PM
I think it happens to all of us. It's one of those things that can never be explained :tongue:.

no photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:13 PM
I'm sorry, I'll never do it again! sad

TheLastNiceGuy's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:15 PM
The problem is that there are so many ladies on the site that if you were to message everyone you would spend all your time messaging.... A nudge or mutual match is a quick thing.

I used to message all the ladies that peaked my interest, however they never seem to respond. so at a point it becomes a "Why Waste my time ?" kind of thing.

If the lady is interested she should message back.

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:15 PM
Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy

shellymc's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:18 PM
i have the same problem so i emailed all of my matches and said if you would like to chat let me know if not than thats cool ,if i got no reply i deleted them and talked to guys that want to talk.good luck i hope everyone finds whatever it is their looking for ..love

lonetar25's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:18 PM
i think some guys dont really know how to make contact, thats why their here, they are letting you know their interested but dont want to send a crapy mail and put you off before they even start, leaving it up to you in a wierd but polite way.
the others are just weirdos
what

SimplyElla's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:19 PM
Happens to me every day.. so now when I get perved I nudge them.. lmfao.. when I can too I delete them.. woot woot.. drinker laugh


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Sat 06/13/09 07:19 PM

The problem is that there are so many ladies on the site that if you were to message everyone you would spend all your time messaging.... A nudge or mutual match is a quick thing.

I used to message all the ladies that peaked my interest, however they never seem to respond. so at a point it becomes a "Why Waste my time ?" kind of thing.

If the lady is interested she should message back.


If you put no effort into sending a first email, why should someone actually respond?

tribefan73's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:23 PM

Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.

Jess642's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:25 PM
Because they are skeeeered???? pitchfork

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:26 PM


Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:28 PM

The problem is that there are so many ladies on the site that if you were to message everyone you would spend all your time messaging.... A nudge or mutual match is a quick thing.

I used to message all the ladies that peaked my interest, however they never seem to respond. so at a point it becomes a "Why Waste my time ?" kind of thing.

If the lady is interested she should message back.


But if you do all of the above and then don't email or respond if she emails then WTF? I usually give up after a week of waiting!

tribefan73's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:29 PM



Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!


Yes they are. So far do good. Someone you might know. :wink: love

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:30 PM


The problem is that there are so many ladies on the site that if you were to message everyone you would spend all your time messaging.... A nudge or mutual match is a quick thing.

I used to message all the ladies that peaked my interest, however they never seem to respond. so at a point it becomes a "Why Waste my time ?" kind of thing.

If the lady is interested she should message back.


But if you do all of the above and then don't email or respond if she emails then WTF? I usually give up after a week of waiting!



I'm sure most of them probably just don't deserve you anyway, One4me2!!

metalwing's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:30 PM
Forget about the mutual match. Come play in the forums and make friends and you will have way more fun.

You might even meet Mr. Right while you having a lot of fun.

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:30 PM




Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!


Yes they are. So far do good. Someone you might know. :wink: love


Really? Hmmmmmmmmm. Drop me a line sometime and keep me posted! :thumbsup: waving

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:31 PM

mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


It's actually a good thing I haven't sent you mail, I always ask for recommendations to add to my serial killer mug shot collection...no one mails me back either.:cry:

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:32 PM



Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!


D&W meet Tribefan.... Tribefan meet D&Wlove :heart: flowerforyou Am I right, Tribefan????

tribefan73's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:32 PM





Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!


Yes they are. So far do good. Someone you might know. :wink: love


Really? Hmmmmmmmmm. Drop me a line sometime and keep me posted! :thumbsup: waving


Will do. Thanks for the encouragement. flowers waving

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