Topic: Why do guys nudge me, make me a fav, .....
directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:33 PM
Edited by directandwrite on Sat 06/13/09 07:38 PM
Sorry one4me2....I've got me a different sweetie!!!! laugh laugh laugh

But let me suffice to say that I am not too bad of a matchmaker!


My sweetie basically has the same pic as I do for my main! ;o) I took the sunset picture and he created the rest!!!

tribefan73's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:33 PM

Forget about the mutual match. Come play in the forums and make friends and you will have way more fun.

You might even meet Mr. Right while you having a lot of fun.



Agreed, indeed. :thumbsup: That's how I started chatting with this someone.

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Sat 06/13/09 07:35 PM




Typical Males..... For any of you guys out there reading this, please DON'T be what a woman knows as a "typical male"!!! Be a unique one that she never wants to let go or get rid of! flowerforyou happy


D&W, how are doing lady? flowerforyou

Hear, hear for your comment. In order for one to attract attention, one must standout from the crowd. I am currently trying very hard to do just that, with someone from this site right now. D&W, you speak wisdom that others should read & heed.


Hey Tribefan! Thank you for seconding my comment! Congratulations on the wonderful lady! happy I hope things are going well for you!


D&W meet Tribefan.... Tribefan meet D&Wlove :heart: flowerforyou Am I right, Tribefan????


Sorry! Right state, wrong person.

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Sat 06/13/09 07:40 PM
Because all men are pigs.

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:43 PM
P.S. If anyone else needs a matchmaker.... ;o) LMAO laugh laugh happy

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:46 PM
Jimmy* you don't look like a pig.... rofl

tribefan73's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:46 PM

P.S. If anyone else needs a matchmaker.... ;o) LMAO laugh laugh happy


I highly recommend D&W. Her advice is top-notch.

:wink: laugh rofl laugh :wink:

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:48 PM
I've gotten to the point in an online "relationship" that they actually ask me for my number and never call! Kind of the same thing as what I posted previously. I even had a guy actually call to apologize for NOT calling and telling me he will call me later and guess what???? LOL NO CALL!!!!frustrated

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:49 PM
Start talking and spilling the secrets D&W!!!!

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:52 PM


P.S. If anyone else needs a matchmaker.... ;o) LMAO laugh laugh happy


I highly recommend D&W. Her advice is top-notch.

:wink: laugh rofl laugh :wink:



Thank you Tribefan! :thumbsup: waving

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Sat 06/13/09 07:53 PM
Edited by JimmyTheGent on Sat 06/13/09 07:54 PM

Jimmy* you don't look like a pig.... rofl


Why thanks, one4. Mighty nice of ya to say so.
Oink.

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 07:55 PM

Start talking and spilling the secrets D&W!!!!


No real "secrets" or "words of wisdom" so to speak, it's just a matter of making a connection with someone. Not that every guy I have made a connection with online has been a great one. But my current sweetie is awesome!

Mostly it's about timing and compatibility. However, there tend to be a lot of jerks you have to weed through to get to the diamonds in the rough! But ultimately, it's all about who God sends into your life, for one reason or another, always! flowerforyou flowers

If you want, you can email me and I might be able to answer any specific questions you might have.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:00 PM
Hey at least some of you are getting mutual matches, I'm starting to think mine is broken.frustrated what

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:04 PM
No. Just been around awhile. Had a 3 year relationship from online, then a 2 year, then a 3 month and now maybe a 2 week? Still working on the latest one.(fingers and toes crossed!!!! - he's a great guy - just the long distance thing.... AGAIN) Gets tiring trying to find someone, you know. I really want to share my life with someone special. I know what I want but I'm getting to the point that I can't stand anymore jerks trying to get in my pants by telling me they want a LTR and want to "find someone to be their soulmate". OMG, I've turned into one of those bitter old maids! LOL HELP ME!!!!!

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:05 PM

Hey at least some of you are getting mutual matches, I'm starting to think mine is broken.frustrated what


*Expand your search for a little farther!*

But actually mutual match is AWFUL!!! I mean it tells you local people that you might be interested in...but it's a pretty poor judge of compatibility.

Still gotta say thanks to the Mingle Admins. for mutual match though. It is something differet and unique. Kudos for that! flowerforyou

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:06 PM

Hey at least some of you are getting mutual matches, I'm starting to think mine is broken.frustrated what


Maybe its the suit of armor shielding you from impending matches! LOL

directandwrite's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:12 PM

No. Just been around awhile. Had a 3 year relationship from online, then a 2 year, then a 3 month and now maybe a 2 week? Still working on the latest one.(fingers and toes crossed!!!! - he's a great guy - just the long distance thing.... AGAIN) Gets tiring trying to find someone, you know. I really want to share my life with someone special. I know what I want but I'm getting to the point that I can't stand anymore jerks trying to get in my pants by telling me they want a LTR and want to "find someone to be their soulmate". OMG, I've turned into one of those bitter old maids! LOL HELP ME!!!!!



Don't be discouraged by the long distance thing. Where there is a will, there is a way and that is what I am doing! flowers flowerforyou

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Sat 06/13/09 08:13 PM


Hey at least some of you are getting mutual matches, I'm starting to think mine is broken.frustrated what


Maybe its the suit of armor shielding you from impending matches! LOL


That may be but why in the world would my mail and IM seem broken also!!!huh :laughing:

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:15 PM
Not sure about the mail, but your IM may be turned off. Check your settings.

one4me2's photo
Sat 06/13/09 08:17 PM
Tracker, I just IMed you - did it work?