Topic: Why do guys nudge me, make me a fav, .....
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Sat 06/13/09 08:18 PM

mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


I do not even understand the Mutual Match what

I never look at that, I read my emails and go from there.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:22 PM
Not sure I get mutual match either. They send me emails telling me someone wants to meet me on mutual match, but they won't tell you who! I've got three on my list but none have sent me any emails and I've emailed one in town who hasn't responded to that either! arrrrggghhh! LOL

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Sat 06/13/09 08:38 PM
that nudge thing makes me so upset! it gives the scared little boys a chance to get out of sending you a real message. Or perhaps they have nothing on their boring little minds that they want to nudge you lol.


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Sat 06/13/09 08:41 PM
If they can't hold an online conversation, just imagine being in person with them. awkward 10 minute pause.............................................................................................................................................................................................................uh.....................................................................LOL

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Sat 06/13/09 08:45 PM
haha and what about the ones that you have great online convo but on the phone it's dead.

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Sat 06/13/09 08:55 PM

haha and what about the ones that you have great online convo but on the phone it's dead.


I've had one of those. We emailed back and forth for weeks then I got her number and called her and it was the worst phone conversation I've ever had. I'm not great at talking on the phone, but that was ridiculous. We never spoke again.

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Sat 06/13/09 10:43 PM
Edited by plain_jane1 on Sat 06/13/09 11:29 PM
Just passing through the thread. waving

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Sat 06/13/09 10:53 PM

I'm sorry, I'll never do it again! sad


YOu crack me up! :laughing:

To answer your question:
I think they want your attention and if you don't respond then they lost their interest... just my thought..

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Sat 06/13/09 10:54 PM

Not sure I get mutual match either. They send me emails telling me someone wants to meet me on mutual match, but they won't tell you who! I've got three on my list but none have sent me any emails and I've emailed one in town who hasn't responded to that either! arrrrggghhh! LOL


Ive gotten several Mutual Matches from women that seemed appealing. So I'd send them a message and come to find out they hadnt ever hit yes to a mutual match. I think its Mingles way of "coercing" people into talking to one another.

While that idea isnt bad....I very rarely trust Mutual Matches anymore. If I see a woman that is intriguing, Ill send them a message.

TM

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Sat 06/13/09 11:02 PM

mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


Because they're just lookin' to mess with your mind.

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Sat 06/13/09 11:05 PM


mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


Because they're just lookin' to mess with your mind.


Well, that's why I kick your butt all the time....just to bug ya!!:tongue:

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Sat 06/13/09 11:29 PM



mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


Because they're just lookin' to mess with your mind.


Well, that's why I kick your butt all the time....just to bug ya!!:tongue:


You're just not doing a very good job at it! laugh

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Sat 06/13/09 11:43 PM
What??? Just because I forgot the step stool and only kicked you in the ankles that time......grumble grumble

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Sat 06/13/09 11:43 PM

mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????
...be greatful for anything.

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Sat 06/13/09 11:48 PM





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Sun 06/14/09 12:13 AM

mutual match me, then never email me????? Are they waiting for me to make the first move? And what if I do and still don't get an email? What's up with that????


kick 'em to da curb, and move on! frustrated

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Sun 06/14/09 05:30 AM
You can classify me as a loser if you want by this comment, but I never know what to say at first, that doesn't sound cheesy or makes you look like a total moron.

And then, a comment that would get a laugh from one, might make another hostile.

I know, I over think things, but that's been an issue my entire life! lol


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Sun 06/14/09 07:12 AM

You can classify me as a loser if you want by this comment, but I never know what to say at first, that doesn't sound cheesy or makes you look like a total moron.

And then, a comment that would get a laugh from one, might make another hostile.

I know, I over think things, but that's been an issue my entire life! lol




Try reading their profile and commenting on something there. That usually works.

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Sun 06/14/09 07:23 AM
oh stop showing off tongue2

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Sun 06/14/09 07:26 AM
Is NUDGING like getting to second base?

Just askin'

Bry noway