I agree that the words in our profiles should be honest,spoken with
heart, and to the point as to the kind of person we see ourselves as,
and the kind of person we are looking to meet. But posting no pic up
front on thr profile, or posting only a "Glamour Shots" photo from who
knows when...is not being true to the statements some are
making....Don't get me wrong, I have met some very honest,straight
forward women here that are themselves 100%, and everyone of them were
oh so beautiful in so many ways besides their pics. But their pics were
also up to date. There is just too much mis-representation or the lack
there of by some. Be up front! Be who you really are! Smile for the
camera and date the pic! You will be surprised at the responses you'll
get......We are all beautiful in our own way. Let that someone find you
the right way......

I agree...same for the guys, too.

welcome ss.. to just say hi

Hi and welcome to the site enjoy the forums.

You'll not find too many that are straight up and honest on any site
from my experiance, that goes for men and women alike. I'm not sure why
some even bother, i guess they get a kick out of playing with some ones
emotions. I know i'll probably get slammed for this post but everybody
knows it's the truth so have at it

all my pictures have been taken within the last three months

Stevewvm is right on too. There are a lot of guys that are just playing
the game so to speak. I'm just out here bouncing through the haystack
looking for a needle I guess. Problem is there's a lot of thorns hidden
in there......thanks for the welcome ladies!

Hi and welcome. :)

hello and welcome

Hello and Welcome

hello back to "ya'll" and thanks for the hospitality!

Welcome to JSH!

Steve is right. But as far as posting pictures, SS you have to talk to
people, anyway. If you don't have time for people who don't post a pic,
so skip them. I don't think its dishonest to choose not to post a pic.
Thats just having some discretion about who you share that with.

You're right, but I've run into so many that post pics from 10+ years
ago, it's ridiculous. They spew the honesty line and then
that.....uderstandable that some don't want to post, but it's a better
situation to see the person, the real person when initiating contact.
And yes, the talking is a priority! Guess I expect too much from this
cyber land and "my fellow (wo)man".
Proud to say my pics are all less than 6 months old, some less than a
month, and some just a few days.
TY for the welcome

>> Guess I expect too much from this cyber land and "my fellow (wo)man"

Yeah, its so easy for people to be fake when there is no accountability!
I hear you. I sooooo hear you.

Welcome to JSH...