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Topic: Would you get a prenup??????
iamsouthside's photo
Fri 06/05/09 09:58 PM
this question is for anyone that has never been married,recently divorced,or want to marry in future...would you grt a prenuptual agreement in todays world and why??( and if you did what would you want in it?)

InOklahoma's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:05 AM
Absolutely! To marry at my age without a prenup would be really dumb! Doesn't mean you don't love the other person it just means you area realist.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:09 AM
Sure...why not.

I recently heard a quote that went something like: "I have a life and bought everything that's in it. It's not about the bling you bring."

Sums it up nicely for both partners, I think.flowerforyou

agbbieannie's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:10 AM
Yeppers. I had a 14 month mistake Glad I had a prenutual.

flowerforyou

papersmile's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:11 AM
it depends on who has more money bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:15 AM

this question is for anyone that has never been married,recently divorced,or want to marry in future...would you grt a prenuptual agreement in todays world and why??( and if you did what would you want in it?)
...yes. Because its all mine. Recording studio, guitar collection, motorcycle collection, art collection, monster truck, financial investments, retirement accounts, sanity, peace of mind.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:16 AM
monster truck bigsmile

let's see it



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adj4u's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:17 AM
just do not get married

and make sure you are not in a common law state

and if ya are then get a nonutual drawn up flowerforyou

if you care for someone why do you need the paper

and the paper will not keep them if they wanna go

and if they wanna go why would you want them to stay

but hey

what do i know

oldsage's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:20 AM
I will just not marry again. Done it twice, once for honor & once for love. Still love Gwen & wouldn't feel right marrying again.
Been this way for 12 years, people who KNOW me, understand.
Might consider living together, but that is years down the road.

Lilypetal's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:27 AM
Don't care, walked away from everything before.

cityblues21's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:45 AM
Edited by cityblues21 on Sat 06/06/09 07:46 AM
Yes, I would sign one if they wanted...because I really don't give a darn about "stuff" or "money". As for me drawing one up... well they can have anything that is mine... but then again that's not much anyways... and I like it like that... :smile:

oldsage's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:49 AM
I am sorry, but I think we ALL are concerned about OUR STUFF.
STUFF is security.

MAN needs his security, in some form, just to survive.

That is what a prenup. is really about....SECURITY.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:52 AM
I worked my ass off hard 80-100 hour weeks for 18 years for what I have. Might be just material possessions and mean nothing.....but they are mine. And no slick divorce lawyers gonna tell me otherwise. There will be none of that "This is the f*cking you get for the f*cking you got" bullsh!t that I've been listening to for 20 years. Love is grand. Divorce is 140 grand. Love is grand. Divorce is half or better of EVERYTHING you earned and worked for.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:56 AM
America- give me liberty or give me death. Women- give me prenups or give me security. Websters dictionary lists alimony as....too fat, ugly, and lazy to get a job.

cityblues21's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:57 AM
People do get security from other sources besides material possesions. I realize people work hard for what they have... and they have a right to protect what they think is important. I work also and know how hard it is to get ahead. I am just stating what is or isn't important to me.

agbbieannie's photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:58 AM
a little bitter still long hair. LOLflowerforyou

no photo
Sat 06/06/09 07:59 AM
I dunno

I like to think that with papersmile I would never need one. it's kinda like planning for failure

but if she wanted it, it wouldn't bother me i guess

adj4u's photo
Sat 06/06/09 08:04 AM
Edited by adj4u on Sat 06/06/09 08:05 AM

a little bitter still long hair. LOLflowerforyou


i would say realistic

if that makes him look bitter

then what does that say about the system

(if they move in charge them rent and get a rental agreement)

[just a thought]

Sugarlipsx3's photo
Sat 06/06/09 08:05 AM
I wouldnt make anyone sign one, but I would sign it if someone wanted me to. I think there should be like terms though, if you cheat and leave the prenups void. If someone is abusive its void, etc..

TheCaptain's photo
Sat 06/06/09 08:05 AM
Eileen and I have never even talked about it. We talk about growing old together and making out on the couch (to the horror of the grand kids) well into our 90's.

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