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this question is for anyone that has never been married,recently divorced,or want to marry in future...would you grt a prenuptual agreement in todays world and why??( and if you did what would you want in it?)
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Absolutely! To marry at my age without a prenup would be really dumb! Doesn't mean you don't love the other person it just means you area realist.
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Sure...why not.
I recently heard a quote that went something like: "I have a life and bought everything that's in it. It's not about the bling you bring." Sums it up nicely for both partners, I think. 
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Yeppers. I had a 14 month mistake Glad I had a prenutual.
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it depends on who has more money
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this question is for anyone that has never been married,recently divorced,or want to marry in future...would you grt a prenuptual agreement in todays world and why??( and if you did what would you want in it?) |
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monster truck
let's see it 
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just do not get married
and make sure you are not in a common law state and if ya are then get a nonutual drawn up if you care for someone why do you need the paper and the paper will not keep them if they wanna go and if they wanna go why would you want them to stay but hey what do i know |
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I will just not marry again. Done it twice, once for honor & once for love. Still love Gwen & wouldn't feel right marrying again.
Been this way for 12 years, people who KNOW me, understand. Might consider living together, but that is years down the road. |
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Don't care, walked away from everything before.
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Edited by
cityblues21
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Sat 06/06/09 07:46 AM
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Yes, I would sign one if they wanted...because I really don't give a darn about "stuff" or "money". As for me drawing one up... well they can have anything that is mine... but then again that's not much anyways... and I like it like that...
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I am sorry, but I think we ALL are concerned about OUR STUFF.
STUFF is security. MAN needs his security, in some form, just to survive. That is what a prenup. is really about....SECURITY. |
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I worked my ass off hard 80-100 hour weeks for 18 years for what I have. Might be just material possessions and mean nothing.....but they are mine. And no slick divorce lawyers gonna tell me otherwise. There will be none of that "This is the f*cking you get for the f*cking you got" bullsh!t that I've been listening to for 20 years. Love is grand. Divorce is 140 grand. Love is grand. Divorce is half or better of EVERYTHING you earned and worked for.
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America- give me liberty or give me death. Women- give me prenups or give me security. Websters dictionary lists alimony as....too fat, ugly, and lazy to get a job.
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People do get security from other sources besides material possesions. I realize people work hard for what they have... and they have a right to protect what they think is important. I work also and know how hard it is to get ahead. I am just stating what is or isn't important to me.
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a little bitter still long hair. LOL
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I dunno
I like to think that with papersmile I would never need one. it's kinda like planning for failure but if she wanted it, it wouldn't bother me i guess |
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Edited by
adj4u
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Sat 06/06/09 08:05 AM
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a little bitter still long hair. LOL i would say realistic if that makes him look bitter then what does that say about the system (if they move in charge them rent and get a rental agreement) [just a thought] |
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I wouldnt make anyone sign one, but I would sign it if someone wanted me to. I think there should be like terms though, if you cheat and leave the prenups void. If someone is abusive its void, etc..
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Eileen and I have never even talked about it. We talk about growing old together and making out on the couch (to the horror of the grand kids) well into our 90's.
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