Before I start, I totaly don't want to offend any young people by saying you all sleep around- I don't believe in genrlising people like that.

It's just so many of my peers sleep around and seem to have no thoughts on waiting to get to know a guy first. Am i odd for not wanting to do the same??

I've always tried to get to know guys but it seems i only ever attract the guys after one thing- they tire of my 'old fashioned' 'boring' ways then leave for girls who will sleep with them after five minutes!

I've been single for a year now! And i'm getting tired of always being called miserable and boring too. :(

Any thoughts?

XLJX

Be yourself..Isnt too many like ya any more...Unless your lying..good luck

Girl, we both have the same problem. Hang in there. I refuse to lower my standards in any way. Resonable standards might I add. I know what I want and I will find it.

Way to go, Girl! You keep waiting on the right guy! I applaud your behavior and thoughts!

Keep in mind that the ones who call you "miserable and boring" are actually saying "I'm insulting you because you're not doing what I want you to do."

It isn't up to them to decide.

Don't give up control of your life just to appeal to the superficial and shallow types who aren't even going to be there for you a month or two down the road anyway.

If you know what you want, stick to it. It's your decision, nobody else's.

Nothing wrong with old fashioned ways

Its times like this when I hope some genius comes up with a word for a male slut.

I'm a guy that's a virgin, but for woman I actually want to get to know, I could wait...not for months, but I could wait longer than 5 minutes lol. If I feel there's nothing in common or she's older than me or something, I wouldn't wait.

your sentance was a little jumbled, what were you trying to say?

I don't think he knows, because of the contradictory nature of his statement.

A month is all I ever ask. The guys I find can't even manage that. That's how I know what their intentions are.

the respect U have for yourself will carry over to any guy worth knowing!!!

I could manage a month if there was a connection. The girl I like, want to go out with, made me wait 2 months, then dumped me after a month and changed her mind about the sex, now we're kind of off and on and I'm still talking to her despite the no sex. But if there wasn't that connection, I wouldn't wait.

It's usually a phase youngsters go through, don't worry you're not missing much.

Define youngsters as males age 14 to 55?

screw the daylights out of us, and we will leave when we get board. With a good strong rubber, whats the risk. or just grow up.

most guys our age are whores, and just want to get some. the few that are in it to pursue a relationship with someone however do exist, albeit it they are rare

I'm doing the same thing.. by choice. I'll admit I've been through that phase in my life but now I am getting serious about relationships..and I guess I am just not finding the right guys who are willing to wait on the whole sex thing.

All I can say is, I'm in there with you =) And when the right guy comes along, he will be everyone you ever wanted and more

<3

With an attitude like that, it's obvious WHO needs to grow up here.

damn you girls are hard to find but belive me when i say when your man finds you, youll both be glad. i think young people start relationships with loads of sex and year i have done it, but i have realised that we need to match up our minds or theres realy no relationship at all, you need to have a simaler mind set. and sex is realy not how your day is spent unless you cant hold a conversation!