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Topic: How soon is too soon?
misstina2's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:12 PM
:heart: Is it okay to tell someone you love them after just a few weeks of dating?:heart:How soon is too soon?:heart:

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Mon 06/01/09 09:14 PM
i'd say a few weeks is indeed too soon. maybe minimum be 1-2 months

suncandy25's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:14 PM
Who knows......I'd just like to find someone I could tolerate.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:15 PM
deja vu

trgirl's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:15 PM
it could take a while for me to really say it, probly a fear, but i think after several months

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Mon 06/01/09 09:15 PM
Edited by Thoughtfulthug on Mon 06/01/09 09:16 PM
Have you ever prematurely ejaculate during sex? laugh ... what I don't know. How many weeks are you talking about? Why that question? Have you said you love somebody and say it to him and the person later said he didn't love you back, then later conclude that maybe it was the wrong timing?

suncandy25's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:16 PM
wine anyone?

trgirl's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:16 PM
tina where has mirror been?

suncandy25's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:17 PM
Who's Tina?

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Mon 06/01/09 09:19 PM
(((tina))) personally I think that if you feel it quickly then it's probably just emotions and/or lust... That is usually the beginning of a relationship, even when it starts with friendship... BUT there are those where it's love at first sight.. My grandparents had it and others have as well, so it's not impossible.. I think you go with what makes you feel right and if you end up wrong you learn from it..

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Mon 06/01/09 09:19 PM
umm misstina2

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Mon 06/01/09 09:22 PM

:heart: Is it okay to tell someone you love them after just a few weeks of dating?:heart:How soon is too soon?:heart:


At least three months. Any sooner and you'll only risk making yourself look like an idiot when she flakes out and leaves you hangin'.

misstina2's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:22 PM

tina where has mirror been?
I've got him tied up

Thoughtfulthug's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:23 PM


:heart: Is it okay to tell someone you love them after just a few weeks of dating?:heart:How soon is too soon?:heart:


At least three months. Any sooner and you'll only risk making yourself look like an idiot when she flakes out and leaves you hangin'.
Why 3 months? Sound like you have to schedule your admission of feelings for someone. That sound superficial.

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Mon 06/01/09 09:25 PM
A few weeks is too soon. Unless you were childhood friends that developed into a deeper relationship...okay...maybe. But I've seen it many times. I try to advice young adults (younger than me) not to be too quick to say "I love you". It's like a magic word that will reveal everything about a person. It's like taking a bite into a forbidden fruit. For me, I'd give it a year unless I know in my heart that I'm really in love with someone. And if I say it, it's because I have no doubt in my mind.

galendgirl's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:28 PM

:heart: Is it okay to tell someone you love them after just a few weeks of dating?:heart:How soon is too soon?:heart:


So if you say it too soon or under crazy circumstances...can it be or become real? Or is it just lust and/or fantasy?

suncandy25's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:33 PM

umm misstina2


Whoops!!!!
My bad, I saw the picture and didn't look at the name.

timothybogue's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:35 PM
you will take a chance either way you look at it. Too soon may be awkward, especially if he doesn't feel the same passion as you; however, do you know when love will give you another chance to feel that way again?

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Mon 06/01/09 09:35 PM
too soon is......

as soon as its

said...............

misstina2's photo
Mon 06/01/09 09:36 PM


umm misstina2


Whoops!!!!
My bad, I saw the picture and didn't look at the name.
Mirror ----->

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