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 I am the sun and you are the stars   You are the wind and I am the leaves I'm seeing double... 
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 I wish this planet was more like Endor,home of the Ewoks
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it's too soon!
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I am the sun and you are the stars You are the wind and I am the leaves I'm seeing double...  Ever since I had that exploding toilet accident I been seeing double too. Triple even. With lavender prairy dogs!
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I wish this planet was more like Endor,home of the Ewoks What happened to it?
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it's the tidy bowl. lavenders them up every time.
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it's the tidy bowl. lavenders them up every time.  no kidding
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I wish this planet was more like Endor,home of the Ewoks What happened to it? this dog cost 200.00 
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I wish this planet was more like Endor,home of the Ewoks What happened to it? this dog cost 200.00
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
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Tue 06/02/09 01:05 AM
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How about maybe you can agree with this analogy? Me and you are not a laser beam and a flashlight. How about me and you are dancers in a night club with different moves and totally 20 ft. apart, but not keeping our eyes away from each other while others are in the way of our view?
Ok you want to go there again? I was really asking sincerely to see your point of view.. Obviously you're not capable of a decent conversation if someone doesn't agree with you but has their own way of thinking.. I was not saying EVERYONE you dated... I would hope one wouldn't feel those feeelings for every person they dated... You're a laser of nothing except talking in circles thinking you're smarter than you are.. Even proven wrong you keep going like one of those annoying wind up toys... Who's asking anyone to go on about being a victim of past failures? Why must failures have a victim? I've not been a victim of anything.. I take responsibility for my actions and I guard my feelings closely so that I do not hurt others... I prefer to take my time to get to know someone and see what's there.. I may really really like them, but I don't ever want to confuse lust and infatuation for love THAT is why I do not jump to use those words.. It is odd that you would go on about for the sake of others by protecting them from your feelings as it is nothing but bad feelings. Taking your time proves the point. The more time you put in on trying to determine if you can actually have genuniune feeling is totally without merit a stupid and sad thing to do. It seems to me you think lust is parastitic to the word infatuation when in fact love is something in a total different realm of these urges. I don't know how one can be so confused of them being grouped up into one thing coupled with love being under them. I see all three of them clearly seperate. |
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How about maybe you can agree with this analogy? Me and you are not a laser beam and a flashlight. How about me and you are dancers in a night club with different moves and totally 20 ft. apart, but not keeping our eyes away from each other while others are in the way of our view? Ok you want to go there again? I was really asking sincerely to see your point of view.. Obviously you're not capable of a decent conversation if someone doesn't agree with you but has their own way of thinking.. I was not saying EVERYONE you dated... I would hope one wouldn't feel those feeelings for every person they dated... You're a laser of nothing except talking in circles thinking you're smarter than you are.. Even proven wrong you keep going like one of those annoying wind up toys... Who's asking anyone to go on about being a victim of past failures? Why must failures have a victim? I've not been a victim of anything.. I take responsibility for my actions and I guard my feelings closely so that I do not hurt others... I prefer to take my time to get to know someone and see what's there.. I may really really like them, but I don't ever want to confuse lust and infatuation for love THAT is why I do not jump to use those words.. It is odd that you would go on about for the sake of others by protecting them from your feelings as it is nothing but bad feelings. Taking your time proves the point. The more time you put in on trying to determine if you can actually have genuniune feeling is totally without merit a stupid and sad thing to do. It seems to me you think lust is parastitic to the word infatuation when in fact love is something in a total different realm of these urges. I don't know how one can be so confused of them being grouped up into one thing coupled with love being under them. I see all three of them clearly seperate. BINGO!!!! I have been saying ALL FRICKEN night that they are different and I want to always make sure I take the time to be sure... There is NOTHING wrong with that.. Do NOT call it stupid and say b/c I don't do things your way... I have not called your way stuipid, it is your way and you're entitled to it.. WHY must you convince people to do what you do? Why can you not accept people for their views and feelings? People do not fit in a neat little box of THUG'S views.. People all do things different ways... I think we should be thankful for that otherwise we'd all be going in circles... I am me, you are you... We're saying the same things except perhaps you don't experience lust or infatuation, maybe you've only felt love or maybe you've just had the lust or the infatuation and walked away... Perhaps you've never confused the two... I have years ago and won't again, I like being in control of what I do and how I do it.. that is ME.. You be you and I'll be me... I'm not going to discuss this anymore.. I stand by what I've said and believe in what I've said and will respect your beliefs as you've stated... |
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Out of my mind........Back in five minutes. |
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Where you going?
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I used to have a handle on life, but it broke. |
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 I don’t suffer from insanity; I enjoy every minute of it. |
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Where you going?  Your bed
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Where you going? Your bed 
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Where you going? Your bed  Im already there
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
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Tue 06/02/09 01:29 AM
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I agree. I never said I didn't respect you as a person on the matter of what we were discussing about. The beliefs, well that is something else entirely. And I thank you for you feedback, and maybe, if you are willing, we can still have fun discussing other things as much as I assume we both enjoy discussing with others about whatevaa.
WHY must you convince people to do what you do? Why can you not accept people for their views and feelings? People do not fit in a neat little box of THUG'S views.. People all do things different ways... I think we should be thankful for that otherwise we'd all be going in circles... Why hate the genius in me? |
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Well that is great. Resort to "to each its own" argument. It isn't easy than you think it is. To me if you're afflicted by immense feelings for someone, and took the time of 3 months to say it out loud to the person you have feelings for, then it is possible it is too late, or maybe possible that the feelings will not be strong as it once was. I win again. Three months is not a long time. If you like to rush into telling people you love them, that's fine. That doesn't mean others have to do the same as you, just because you as so. You win nothing. Stop trying to argue with everyone. |
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