caam how the heck ya been bro

doing great!!!!!!!!! just enjoying the ride

how's life been there

good to hear.


alls been good here,just taking life day by day

if your gonna ask this question.


why not ask what irritates men

What irritates me? Is that some women act submissive or too motherly. I like a friendship, not a mommy substitute or a humble servant.

YOU KNOW YOUR RIGHT. I DO SOMETHING BABY MY MEN TO MUCH. AND CARRY THERE FOOD TO THEM AND RUB THERE BACKS IF THEY ARE HURTING AND SAY BECARFULE ALL THE TIME TO THEM. IAM JUST OVERLY MOTHERLY TO THEM. ITS ALL TRUE,,WOMEN DO DO THAT

YES I HATE WHEN THEY SAY THEY WILL BE THERE ON TIME OR CALL AT A CERTAIN TIME AND THEN ---NOTHING

Well, I'm like that too. I baby. I likely got it from my Mother. But it gives me pleasure to do things like that. Draw him a bath after a day in the yard, or get him some more tea if I'm getting up anyway. I think the difference between now and when my Mother was a young wife, was that then, it was probably more expected of you.

Dirty socks on the living room furniture!!

it bugs some women that i don't like to tuck in my shirt. who decided cramming a shirt into pants, resulting in a crotch-crowding situation, is formal anyway? it's a weird concept.

I'll tell you what bugs me...its guys who laze around doin jack all day...and expect the misses to pick up his **** after him...

me

WORD! Or if y'all automatically start talking sex. Hello? I don''t even KNOW you. Can we at least have a few decent conversatons first? And PLEASE ask my NAME? And have the decency to read enough of my profile to know a LITTLE about me? Try making SOME effort.

I've had guys not even know I have KIDS! And I put that FIRST THING on my profile!

ETA:



I disagree. This is communication. It's good for guys and girls to tell each-other what works and what doesn't.



Girls do that because we want you to show that you care enough about us to THINK about how we may feel. If you ask and we just TELL you, where's the effort? Where's the worth? How do we know you even care?

A disturbiung number of men in here are talking about sex. YES, we care how the sex is, but it is far from the most important thing, and not at ALL the first thing. Far more important than that is respect and caring.



That's natural, a lot of the time. Women want to take care of our men. We don't want to be EXPECTED to, but we want to. I know, I know. Just the facts.



WORD! Honestly, why can't you guys pick up after yourselves? My roommate does that to me and we're not even DATING! WTF?

Just, honestly... here's what we want in a nutshell:

Respect: Don't call us "Baby" or "Sweetie" unless we've given the cue that that is OK. Learn our names and things that matter to us. Talk to us about YOUR interests and OURS, not just sex. And guess what? SOMETIMES we don't WANT to look sexy. It's not exactly comfortable to be stuffed into a thong and garters all the time. Sometimes you just have to accept us in sweats and a big ratty T-shirt. Deal with it. We do that for you.

Maturity: CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF, and have a conversation with us at least every other day that doesn't involve farting, spitting, puking, or Jackass the TV show.

Hygene: Wash yourself, don't smell like a dirty gym sock, and make your hair something we WANT to run our fingers through.

Don't get me wrong. It's great to watch Adult Swim, play tackle football, and even have farting contests sometimes. Just not ALL the time. Moderation is good.

At a former job, I had a coworker call my office for something and call me 'lil mama'. Um, I not anyone mother. Don't be calling me that.

I couldn't believe it. I got pretty pissed.

until the end ther all i got out of this is we suck in bed.

i mean ya who doesnt want to get off while with a partner but realy, orgazims r one of ur main concerns.

wat realy gets to me is wen they cheat, not much more beats that in my book.

wat kind of guy doesnt like bein taken care of.

granted i dont want a maid, and iv done pretty good with out a mom this long. who the hell wants to sleep with ther mom any ways, way wrong.

this is the never ending battle between men and women. who the hell said men always have to be so considerate, and clean, and mature, and intelligent. Sometimes we like to be dirty, have a few items thrown round the room, wreslte with a buddy, smell like arm pits, act like we're in high school again, and talk like officer doofy. Everytime conversations like this come up its always a one sided ordeal with women always saying guys should be this way cuz its wat women want. Wat bout wat the hell guys want. sometime i like to see a girl in jeans or shorts with a t-shirt or wife beater on. i like someone who will chill with me and help clean with me later, someone who will watch the game with me or go play softball with me. why is it guys are the only ones being told to act a certain way for women. sometimes women should act a certain way for guys too. Of couse like snarky said, its not cool for guys to act like this all the time, but it also isnt cool for a women act the way they do all the time either. I have alot more to say but rote too much as it is. i always try to keep it short but never can. I just keep on going and going and going and going and going... SOMEONE HELP I CANT STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!............ah thats better..........D'OH!!!")

stop

now my turn. lol I like going fishing with my boyfriend or helping him work on his campers or help in the garden or go camping with him. Then cook him a home cooked meal and rub his sore back at night. I love it all! Id give anything to be with him right now. But he had a motorcycle accident 2 months ago. So yes we women take for granted what when we have a man or women in are lifes. And yes we complain about them too. But thats why you men love us so much!