Topic: what if marriage is not for u? | |
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Jtevevans...listen man....she is the one who threw the first stone..after that all is fair in love and war.I respect her and have told her.You sticking up for her is quite noble and i honor a guy like that.
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Not a problem(: enjoy milk & cookies!
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Not a problem(: enjoy milk & cookies! No cookies for me, i'm on a diet! |
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i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right?
do you see where i'm going with this? |
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Wow this is a really good thread and I think about this question often. I have a 2 & 1/2 year old son who I love and adore. His father is in his life but we are not together. After things ended with his dad I realized marriage wasnt as important to me as I thought it was. Whats the big deal a piece of paper? Sure if someone came along that I wanted to marry and that was in the cards then I would, but Its not a must now for my life to feel complete.
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Jteveans..read her profile.Now I did nopt want to go there with her...but she is attacking my values..what else am i to do.And Beauty you called me selfish...isn't your husband selfish for creating a beautiful family....and then leaving???Of course he i9s..i am not that kind of guy! yes but up until now she didn't mention anything about the bible in this thread,so why bring that into the argument?.do you know how many people i could find things i dislike about them by reading their profiles and bring that into disagreements with them?.the only reason i don't is because it has nothing to with the discussion.... |
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even though he just wants to see her naked in the mud... erhm. which also brings up the question...defending one for the benefit of yourself? to earn brownie points? wouldn't that be slightly "SELFISH"?
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Everyone....Mingle is a place to have fun and conversation. Personal attacks do not fall into that catagory
Lets have fun |
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wow... well i for one wouldnt mind a fairytale life: husband, children, picket fence and heck even a dog or two. i mean even if its unrealistic its nice to dream... i really dontw ant to scare myself with teh intensities that are being described right now :) i mean im 20 maybe later on i'll get a wake up call, but for now, i wanna dream
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the (man) doth protest too much
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I'm getting off here also. I'm on vacation. Oh and by the way, if religion was not brought up...I would of never discussed it. Discuss it and I will defend my Lord! Ya'll have a blessed day! by JT
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i cant even keep up hehe
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i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right? do you see where i'm going with this? that's assuming, making an ASSouttaUandME. However, its what you say & how you say it, obviously the intent behind her msg was accusing him of being selfish, making a judgement based on what Sal said. It was also her point of view on what he said, not what he said, follow? |
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wow... well i for one wouldnt mind a fairytale life: husband, children, picket fence and heck even a dog or two. i mean even if its unrealistic its nice to dream... i really dontw ant to scare myself with teh intensities that are being described right now :) i mean im 20 maybe later on i'll get a wake up call, but for now, i wanna dream AHHHH, to be 20 again? If i had it all to do over i wouldn't have! I'm not saying that i don't love & adore my sons, but my life would be very different. |
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I'm getting off here also. I'm on vacation. Oh and by the way, if religion was not brought up...I would of never discussed it. Discuss it and I will defend my Lord! Ya'll have a blessed day! by JT bye beauty |
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Not personal attacks persay, just facts that show what kind of person you are by what you say.
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It should be a step towards actualization if you ask me.
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It should be a step towards actualization if you ask me. different journeys, different paths to walk |
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i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right? do you see where i'm going with this? that's assuming, making an ASSouttaUandME. However, its what you say & how you say it, obviously the intent behind her msg was accusing him of being selfish, making a judgement based on what Sal said. It was also her point of view on what he said, not what he said, follow? ok what the hell did you just say? you lost me.... |
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Never again!
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