Topic: what if marriage is not for u?
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Wed 05/13/09 08:37 AM
Jtevevans...listen man....she is the one who threw the first stone..after that all is fair in love and war.I respect her and have told her.You sticking up for her is quite noble and i honor a guy like that.

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Wed 05/13/09 08:37 AM
Not a problem(: enjoy milk & cookies!waving

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Wed 05/13/09 08:38 AM

Not a problem(: enjoy milk & cookies!waving


No cookies for me, i'm on a diet!noway

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Wed 05/13/09 08:38 AM
i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right?



do you see where i'm going with this?

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Wed 05/13/09 08:38 AM
Wow this is a really good thread and I think about this question often. I have a 2 & 1/2 year old son who I love and adore. His father is in his life but we are not together. After things ended with his dad I realized marriage wasnt as important to me as I thought it was. Whats the big deal a piece of paper? Sure if someone came along that I wanted to marry and that was in the cards then I would, but Its not a must now for my life to feel complete.

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Wed 05/13/09 08:38 AM


Jteveans..read her profile.Now I did nopt want to go there with her...but she is attacking my values..what else am i to do.And Beauty you called me selfish...isn't your husband selfish for creating a beautiful family....and then leaving???Of course he i9s..i am not that kind of guy!




yes but up until now she didn't mention anything about the bible in this thread,so why bring that into the argument?.do you know how many people i could find things i dislike about them by reading their profiles and bring that into disagreements with them?.the only reason i don't is because it has nothing to with the discussion....
he needed ammunition haha

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Wed 05/13/09 08:38 AM
even though he just wants to see her naked in the mud... erhm. which also brings up the question...defending one for the benefit of yourself? to earn brownie points? wouldn't that be slightly "SELFISH"?

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Wed 05/13/09 08:39 AM
Everyone....Mingle is a place to have fun and conversation. Personal attacks do not fall into that catagorydrinker happy


Lets have fun:banana: :banana:

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Wed 05/13/09 08:40 AM
wow... well i for one wouldnt mind a fairytale life: husband, children, picket fence and heck even a dog or two. i mean even if its unrealistic its nice to dream... i really dontw ant to scare myself with teh intensities that are being described right now :) i mean im 20 maybe later on i'll get a wake up call, but for now, i wanna dream

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Wed 05/13/09 08:40 AM
the (man) doth protest too much

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Wed 05/13/09 08:42 AM
I'm getting off here also. I'm on vacation. Oh and by the way, if religion was not brought up...I would of never discussed it. Discuss it and I will defend my Lord! Ya'll have a blessed day! flowers by JTbigsmile

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Wed 05/13/09 08:42 AM
i cant even keep up hehe

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Wed 05/13/09 08:42 AM

i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right?



do you see where i'm going with this?


that's assuming, making an ASSouttaUandME. However, its what you say & how you say it, obviously the intent behind her msg was accusing him of being selfish, making a judgement based on what Sal said. It was also her point of view on what he said, not what he said, follow?

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Wed 05/13/09 08:43 AM

wow... well i for one wouldnt mind a fairytale life: husband, children, picket fence and heck even a dog or two. i mean even if its unrealistic its nice to dream... i really dontw ant to scare myself with teh intensities that are being described right now :) i mean im 20 maybe later on i'll get a wake up call, but for now, i wanna dream


AHHHH, to be 20 again? If i had it all to do over i wouldn't have! I'm not saying that i don't love & adore my sons, but my life would be very different.

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Wed 05/13/09 08:44 AM

I'm getting off here also. I'm on vacation. Oh and by the way, if religion was not brought up...I would of never discussed it. Discuss it and I will defend my Lord! Ya'll have a blessed day! flowers by JTbigsmile


bye beautybigsmile flowers

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Wed 05/13/09 08:44 AM
Not personal attacks persay, just facts that show what kind of person you are by what you say.

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Wed 05/13/09 08:44 AM
It should be a step towards actualization if you ask me.

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Wed 05/13/09 08:46 AM

It should be a step towards actualization if you ask me.


different journeys, different paths to walkdrinker

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Wed 05/13/09 08:48 AM


i guess if i read some of yalls and it said you like drinking,i could say "well i see you're an alcoholic" ,right?



do you see where i'm going with this?


that's assuming, making an ASSouttaUandME. However, its what you say & how you say it, obviously the intent behind her msg was accusing him of being selfish, making a judgement based on what Sal said. It was also her point of view on what he said, not what he said, follow?



ok what the hell did you just say?


you lost me....spock

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Wed 05/13/09 08:57 AM
Never again!