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YES..Black White ,right and wrong...we all go home.I see you are a Bible thumper..i understand all this now.Again Beauty..where is the father of your child! seriously dude,what makes her a "bible thumper"?i haven't seen her mention anything about the bible in this thread 
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Sal, bravo to you. Very few men will admit that they are not willing to take responsibility of raising kids. I understood what you were saying even if others do not...
I found out that I wasn't parent material when my son was growing up. That can and does break your heart later in life . Especially when you realize what you did. I found out when he turned 8 . The point in his life he needed a father figure even more. I award you the lollipop of the day..... |
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Jteveans..read her profile.Now I did nopt want to go there with her...but she is attacking my values..what else am i to do.And Beauty you called me selfish...isn't your husband selfish for creating a beautiful family....and then leaving???Of course he i9s..i am not that kind of guy!
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Beauty...how can that be selfish.It would be selfish if i had a family and thought what I had just written in this thread.A little late for a man to decide how he feels about kids and marriage..when he gets her pregnant.I am just curious Beauty...what part exactly of what I wrote is selfish...this should be intresting? "Not because I don't like them...but because i understand what a responsibilty they are." Don't you have other responsibilies in life? Just sounds to me like they would tie you down from doing other things that YOU enjoy. I could be wrong...... Love isn't everything. I despise when people believe that it's true. Tell it to the world around us. When you die will you feel? You die alone & with the love of others? Emotion isn't concrete. Some people know that they can not yet succumb to the emotional & financial responsibility of a child, not when one is barely "making it" on their own. Its not being selfish, its being realistic. When I die I will experience "His Love" and my pain will turn to beauty when I'm finally in the arms of my Savior and see all my loved ones that have gone before me. |
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Doesn't the Bible say it is a sin to leave your marriage and family? |
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Thanks durtyduck.My father left me before i was born..and I have never met him.My point here is not to be right...just that people need to understand..we all have our own opinions on this..and they must be respected.Being called selfish for my honesty was not respectful!Kudoos to you Duck for understanding a human feeling!
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Beauty...how can that be selfish.It would be selfish if i had a family and thought what I had just written in this thread.A little late for a man to decide how he feels about kids and marriage..when he gets her pregnant.I am just curious Beauty...what part exactly of what I wrote is selfish...this should be intresting? "Not because I don't like them...but because i understand what a responsibilty they are." Don't you have other responsibilies in life? Just sounds to me like they would tie you down from doing other things that YOU enjoy. I could be wrong...... Love isn't everything. I despise when people believe that it's true. Tell it to the world around us. When you die will you feel? You die alone & with the love of others? Emotion isn't concrete. Some people know that they can not yet succumb to the emotional & financial responsibility of a child, not when one is barely "making it" on their own. Its not being selfish, its being realistic. When I die I will experience "His Love" and my pain will turn to beauty when I'm finally in the arms of my Savior and see all my loved ones that have gone before me. Religion is a personal choice |
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YES..Black White ,right and wrong...we all go home.I see you are a Bible thumper..i understand all this now.Again Beauty..where is the father of your child! seriously dude,what makes her a "bible thumper"?i haven't seen her mention anything about the bible in this thread
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YES..Black White ,right and wrong...we all go home.I see you are a Bible thumper..i understand all this now.Again Beauty..where is the father of your child! seriously dude,what makes her a "bible thumper"?i haven't seen her mention anything about the bible in this thread
Look at her page bro. lol what she says, what is displayed on her page, who she seems to be, all these thoughts contradict themselves, leading to hypocrisy. Set aside the mud puddle and take a look into the murky lake of what the society of bible thumpers has created. What they see as the "NORM" lol Sal coined the phrase! |
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Thanks durtyduck.My father left me before i was born..and I have never met him.My point here is not to be right...just that people need to understand..we all have our own opinions on this..and they must be respected.Being called selfish for my honesty was not respectful!Kudoos to you Duck for understanding a human feeling! I second that motion! |
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Of course I did read your profile.i wanted to see who was accusing me.Didn'y Jesus say not to judge others untill you judge yourself.Listen I bet you are a wonderful woman and raise your child beautifully,,,,all I am saying..is you are accusing a man who has never commited adultry..yet you married a man who did.
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Jteveans..read her profile.Now I did nopt want to go there with her...but she is attacking my values..what else am i to do.And Beauty you called me selfish...isn't your husband selfish for creating a beautiful family....and then leaving???Of course he i9s..i am not that kind of guy! |
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Beauty...how can that be selfish.It would be selfish if i had a family and thought what I had just written in this thread.A little late for a man to decide how he feels about kids and marriage..when he gets her pregnant.I am just curious Beauty...what part exactly of what I wrote is selfish...this should be intresting? "Not because I don't like them...but because i understand what a responsibilty they are." Don't you have other responsibilies in life? Just sounds to me like they would tie you down from doing other things that YOU enjoy. I could be wrong...... Love isn't everything. I despise when people believe that it's true. Tell it to the world around us. When you die will you feel? You die alone & with the love of others? Emotion isn't concrete. Some people know that they can not yet succumb to the emotional & financial responsibility of a child, not when one is barely "making it" on their own. Its not being selfish, its being realistic. When I die I will experience "His Love" and my pain will turn to beauty when I'm finally in the arms of my Savior and see all my loved ones that have gone before me. Religion is a personal choice |
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Beauty...how can that be selfish.It would be selfish if i had a family and thought what I had just written in this thread.A little late for a man to decide how he feels about kids and marriage..when he gets her pregnant.I am just curious Beauty...what part exactly of what I wrote is selfish...this should be intresting? "Not because I don't like them...but because i understand what a responsibilty they are." Don't you have other responsibilies in life? Just sounds to me like they would tie you down from doing other things that YOU enjoy. I could be wrong...... Love isn't everything. I despise when people believe that it's true. Tell it to the world around us. When you die will you feel? You die alone & with the love of others? Emotion isn't concrete. Some people know that they can not yet succumb to the emotional & financial responsibility of a child, not when one is barely "making it" on their own. Its not being selfish, its being realistic. When I die I will experience "His Love" and my pain will turn to beauty when I'm finally in the arms of my Savior and see all my loved ones that have gone before me. & you know this for a fact? Oh, forgive me, you must have faith? In what? What am I being saved from? Nothing. Everything must come to an end whether good or bad & I'm ready more then ever now. If you lived alone your entire life & contributed nothing, you recieve nothing. Why be expectant? Love is not always there for those who die alone, did you ever think about that? |
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Jteveans..read her profile.Now I did nopt want to go there with her...but she is attacking my values..what else am i to do.And Beauty you called me selfish...isn't your husband selfish for creating a beautiful family....and then leaving???Of course he i9s..i am not that kind of guy! yes but up until now she didn't mention anything about the bible in this thread,so why bring that into the argument?.do you know how many people i could find things i dislike about them by reading their profiles and bring that into disagreements with them?.the only reason i don't is because it has nothing to with the discussion.... |
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Beauty...how can that be selfish.It would be selfish if i had a family and thought what I had just written in this thread.A little late for a man to decide how he feels about kids and marriage..when he gets her pregnant.I am just curious Beauty...what part exactly of what I wrote is selfish...this should be intresting? "Not because I don't like them...but because i understand what a responsibilty they are." Don't you have other responsibilies in life? Just sounds to me like they would tie you down from doing other things that YOU enjoy. I could be wrong...... Love isn't everything. I despise when people believe that it's true. Tell it to the world around us. When you die will you feel? You die alone & with the love of others? Emotion isn't concrete. Some people know that they can not yet succumb to the emotional & financial responsibility of a child, not when one is barely "making it" on their own. Its not being selfish, its being realistic. When I die I will experience "His Love" and my pain will turn to beauty when I'm finally in the arms of my Savior and see all my loved ones that have gone before me. Religion is a personal choice Express away! Freedom of religion & speech! But don't expect all to think as you do. 
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Ok people i need a breather...it's milk and cookies for me now.Beauty..I seriously wish you well and by no means meant to harm you.Just please....don't judge another before you know him.
Veve..thank you for the beautiful friendship and understanding...how very cool! DurtyDuck..thanks for your honesty. And to the one whstarted this thread...how dare you get my day started like this. |
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I will express my belief that choosing a religion is hypocritical. Why chose, it's obvious that only time will tell, all of these beliefs meshed as one show us a story interpreted differently by each & every man.
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YES..Black White ,right and wrong...we all go home.I see you are a Bible thumper..i understand all this now.Again Beauty..where is the father of your child! seriously dude,what makes her a "bible thumper"?i haven't seen her mention anything about the bible in this thread
Look at her page bro. lol what she says, what is displayed on her page, who she seems to be, all these thoughts contradict themselves, leading to hypocrisy. Set aside the mud puddle and take a look into the murky lake of what the society of bible thumpers has created. What they see as the "NORM" lol Sal coined the phrase! |
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i liked being married. i like being single. would i marry again???? yes
in Kansas??? Mornin Beauty 
Viva Las Vegas 
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