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whenever, wherever, however and as often as she likes
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These post seem to pop up from time to time , and they make me wonder. Is something wrong with me ? Sex just isnt that high on my list of priorities . Maybe its because I just find that sex isnt all that hard to find . Finding someone special to have it with on the other hand ,NOW thats a challenge .What ever happened to putting your best foot forward and getting to know someone before you want to play monkey and the banana . But Sav, I wanna play 
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These post seem to pop up from time to time , and they make me wonder. Is something wrong with me ? Sex just isnt that high on my list of priorities . Maybe its because I just find that sex isnt all that hard to find . Finding someone special to have it with on the other hand ,NOW thats a challenge .What ever happened to putting your best foot forward and getting to know someone before you want to play monkey and the banana . But Sav, I wanna play only if we can have pudding afterwards |
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These post seem to pop up from time to time , and they make me wonder. Is something wrong with me ? Sex just isnt that high on my list of priorities . Maybe its because I just find that sex isnt all that hard to find . Finding someone special to have it with on the other hand ,NOW thats a challenge .What ever happened to putting your best foot forward and getting to know someone before you want to play monkey and the banana . But Sav, I wanna play only if we can have pudding afterwards If it is vanilla 
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For a time I was conserned that my libido was an issue to worry about as I just was not interested in sex with someone I didnt know enough. Then I realized I had transitiond from the hormon driven teenager who gets excited if the wind blows the right way to a man who actualy cares for a connection on an emotional level that in conjunction with the phisical and visual stimuli creates a wave of lust and excitement that puts sex on a level much different than that of years past. ...
or I am a nutjob .... *shrug* Im at least content |
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DOG SCHOOL IS IN! Dog Rule 10!: Go for every opportunity to bury your bone! Dog Rule 11!: If she is sniffing (dating) then she wants it. (GRAND ASSUMPTION BUT MEN ARE VERY GOOD AT THAT) Trust me, men as a normal rule of thumb are looking for any free meal they can come by. Even I am sort of guilty harboring that desire but if I said I didn't I would be LYING hard to you. Not all of us are out for instant gratification but then again more men are. But I also live by Dog Rule #2: "as long as it does not smell bad why turn down a free meal?" Remember... A wet penis has no conscious! A dry one has no standards! It is all part of the human condition so all you can do is tell him to back his horney self off of you and take a cold shower or rub it off in the comfort of his own bed. The you move on to the next episode... Some of us are not bad unless we really want to be!!!  I never bring up sex on the first three dates myself. After that ABAO!!! (All Bets Are Off...) If a woman has a problem with that then she will not be dating me after that, now will she? Keep your guard up!  I thinks that's about as honest, but polite at the same time, as I've ever heard it said.  Well done! |
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i only have sex on the last date  Thats hilarious!!!! tee hee! thanks!!!! 
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Edited by
durtydduck
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Fri 05/08/09 05:29 PM
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Here we go again another bash the guys Not once did I see any reference to woman doing that exact same thing. And believe me as you get older it gets to be more frequent then you think Women are just as aggressive I have found out on a personal note. Several times I have had to say nice thought but I really don't know you.. so give me and the guys a break. I am sure there are a lot of dunderheads out there that think with their penis... and here is your lolipop
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All men are not the same but if you are attracted to a certain type of guy that appeals for certain reasons, you should not be surprised by similar results.
There is nothing wrong with "wanting" sex on the first date. The trick is someone who is polite and understanding enough to act and treat you as you expect to be treated. If the topic comes up, express your opinion on the subject. If that doesn't work, he ain't the right guy and move on. If it is appropriate, make your wishes known up front. But be careful. If you make a big deal of no sex on the first date with someone who didn't have that in mind anyway, you may offend and lose your shot at the prize you were looking for. |
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Maybe you should try going out of your comfort zone and date someone totally different from your norm.
You may be pleasantly surprised at the result. 
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Edited by
EquusDancer
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Sat 05/09/09 11:23 AM
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Have we truely reached a point in society , were people need to wear signs or post things on the internet , saying "No I will not blow you cause you took me out for a cheap italian dinner ". If that is the case I weep for us all Sadly, I don't go out unless I have the cash to cover any possible expenses. It's wonderful, and appreciated when a guy offers dinner and a movie, without the feeling that I "owe" him for the cost of dinner and a movie, but I won't let myself be put in the position. If he tries it, I just hand him my half of the cost back, and walk away. :-( |
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I don't understand this concept either. It's like all guys want is sex or nothing at all from you. It's quite pathetic really.
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love you long time
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REMEMBER: Men think about SEX every 32 seconds! Women every 67 seconds! That means we think about it More than twice as much!
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Blah blah blah
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I don't understand this concept either. It's like all guys want is sex or nothing at all from you. It's quite pathetic really. Shall I also comment, there are women the same way? Why do people always make things gender specific rather than a generalization? |
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What is it with guys wanting to have sex with you the first date? I understand that not all guys are like this but apparently that is all I seem to be meeting! I would really just like a nice night out with someone who doesn't care that we are not going to have sex the first date and who doesn't think about bringing up the subject. Thoughts? Well, there are men out there who are not going to consider sex on the first date, there are men who are going to test you to see if you will have sex on the first date and they will judge you accordingly, lastly there are men who are only looking for sex and there is no other purpose to dating then sex. You pick who you think you are dating. I recommend if they are the last listed, not dating them, it is a waste of time unless you are only after sex. |
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Keep looking! They're out there. Yep. There are a few of us out here. We're mostly the slightly older dudes who aren't particularly " hot " or are just standing over there by ourselves. ;-) |
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If, and I repeat, If sex is the goal then why wouldn't one to acheive one's goal, immediately. If intimacy is the goal, why not achieve that as soon as possible. If being correct is the goal, caution and moving slowly may be in order.
Personally, I don't give a flip about not ever making another mistake but I do care about immediate and everlasting gratification, intense intimacy and I'll worry about the next dated later. |
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