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Topic: "Why Men Love Bit**es"
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Thu 05/07/09 03:54 PM

I guess the definition of what a ***** is is the first matter that needs to be addressed.

The term seems to be used in alot of different contexts.


I agree everyone has there own opinion of what a ***** is....


All I know is I got 99 problems but b1tch aint one!noway

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Fri 05/08/09 05:41 AM


Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you.


Ok, I'm a Bit!@.:wink:



That's not how I define it...I actually respect those characteristics. I was thinking more along the lines of someone who kicks and crys on the ground when they don't get their way...


For the sake of this discussion, the book defines "b**ch" as follows:

"A b**ch is not a woman who speaks in a harsh tone of voice. It is not a woman who is abrasive or rude. She is polite but cler. She communitcates directly with a man, in much the same way men communicae with one another. In this way, it is easier for a man to deal with her than with a woman who appears too emotional, because the emotional sensative type of woman confuses him. The b*ch knows what she likes and has an easier time expressing it directly. "

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Fri 05/08/09 05:50 AM



Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you.


Ok, I'm a Bit!@.:wink:



That's not how I define it...I actually respect those characteristics. I was thinking more along the lines of someone who kicks and crys on the ground when they don't get their way...


For the sake of this discussion, the book defines "b**ch" as follows:

"A b**ch is not a woman who speaks in a harsh tone of voice. It is not a woman who is abrasive or rude. She is polite but cler. She communitcates directly with a man, in much the same way men communicae with one another. In this way, it is easier for a man to deal with her than with a woman who appears too emotional, because the emotional sensative type of woman confuses him. The b*ch knows what she likes and has an easier time expressing it directly. "

I prefer biatch myself...

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Fri 05/08/09 06:06 AM

Men dont like Bit%7es.....any more than women like Bastar&$
The book should be renamed... "Why Boys Like Little girl Bitc%$"

Its that the immaturity... brings out the game playing...simple enough!


I'm guessing no one has even heard of the book spock .

Book quote:
"This isn't about playing a game. It's about understanding human nature and behaving accordingly. A man will always want what he can't have. When a man meets a woman she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challange for him to win her affections."

Men (and women alike), don't act like you don't like a challange. If a woman hands herself on a silver platter, you are not-without a shadow of a doubt- going to respect her or want to be with her. No one values a freebie the same way one would value something they desired (but couldn't have immidiatelty) and had to work extra hard for. (ie some one giving you a car VS working for months at a job just to save up enough money to give a down payment for the same car.

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Fri 05/08/09 06:12 AM



Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you.


Ok, I'm a Bit!@.:wink:



That's not how I define it...I actually respect those characteristics. I was thinking more along the lines of someone who kicks and crys on the ground when they don't get their way...


For the sake of this discussion, the book defines "b**ch" as follows:

"A b**ch is not a woman who speaks in a harsh tone of voice. It is not a woman who is abrasive or rude. She is polite but cler. She communitcates directly with a man, in much the same way men communicae with one another. In this way, it is easier for a man to deal with her than with a woman who appears too emotional, because the emotional sensative type of woman confuses him. The b*ch knows what she likes and has an easier time expressing it directly. "


clear* I'm sorry about my typos. They're bad, I know slaphead

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Fri 05/08/09 06:13 AM


Men dont like Bit%7es.....any more than women like Bastar&$
The book should be renamed... "Why Boys Like Little girl Bitc%$"

Its that the immaturity... brings out the game playing...simple enough!


I'm guessing no one has even heard of the book spock .

Book quote:
"This isn't about playing a game. It's about understanding human nature and behaving accordingly. A man will always want what he can't have. When a man meets a woman she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challange for him to win her affections."

Men (and women alike), don't act like you don't like a challange. If a woman hands herself on a silver platter, you are not-without a shadow of a doubt- going to respect her or want to be with her. No one values a freebie the same way one would value something they desired (but couldn't have immidiatelty) and had to work extra hard for. (ie some one giving you a car VS working for months at a job just to save up enough money to give a down payment for the same car.

no, I've not heard of the book. It sounds interesting though. I DID real "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and this sounds similar

"Men are from Mars" did a good job of analyzing the thought processes of men and women and how those thought processes come into conflict

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Fri 05/08/09 06:21 AM
Edited by Monier on Fri 05/08/09 06:23 AM
I like b!7chy attitudes sometimes but I'll take a bossy woman any day of the week. There is a special kind of feeling knowing that if you screw up, your ol'lady can and will kick your butt. I like women who demand respect.

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Sat 05/09/09 07:33 PM
I consider a bit*h to be a female a**hole, so I verbally torment them and their small minds.

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Sat 05/09/09 08:49 PM

So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.

However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone):thumbsup: :tongue:


I tell ya what. The fastest way to lose my attention is to be a self proclaimed " ***** ".

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Sat 05/09/09 10:21 PM
Put out and shut up and everything will be fine.

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Sun 05/10/09 10:01 AM



Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you.


Ok, I'm a Bit!@.:wink:



That's not how I define it...I actually respect those characteristics. I was thinking more along the lines of someone who kicks and crys on the ground when they don't get their way...


For the sake of this discussion, the book defines "b**ch" as follows:

"A b**ch is not a woman who speaks in a harsh tone of voice. It is not a woman who is abrasive or rude. She is polite but cler. She communitcates directly with a man, in much the same way men communicae with one another. In this way, it is easier for a man to deal with her than with a woman who appears too emotional, because the emotional sensative type of woman confuses him. The b*ch knows what she likes and has an easier time expressing it directly. "


I would say the author is out of touch with modern colloquial language. I would find a woman who matches that description to be strong self reliant woman and would not refer to her as bltch. I would find such a woman attractive. I have never really liked the overly emotional, helpless and unintelligent women.
I would define a bltch as a woman who is verbally abrasive, emotionally abusive, and is only concerned about herself.

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Sun 05/10/09 04:56 PM
Edited by mistarr on Sun 05/10/09 04:59 PM
The book is good through the first 4 chapters. My ex had a beef with it though, because she still couldn't control me, or the guys she got with afterwards. In my opinion the biggest problem with the book is that it suggests you act a certain way to attract guys, but in the end what happens when you revert back to your true self?

I'm sure you've heard the saying after a breakup, "he isn't the same person I fell in love with." This is where it becomes for the guy "she isn't the person she portrayed herself to be."

The book tells truth through the first half of the book, but in the second half it falls apart and is garbage. While I read it, I had good laughs at all the **** I fell for myself before. It also doesn't tell you half the **** in the book won't work on men, but it will on boys.

Eventually the tricks expire and you're screwed.

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Thu 05/14/09 06:24 AM

Put out and shut up and everything will be fine.


huh Amazing...

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Thu 05/14/09 08:47 AM

So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.

However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone):thumbsup: :tongue:


Men love bit**es... chicks dig @$$holes... it's the same malarkey. People are stupid and aren't even capable of choosing the "right" person for them. Big friggin' deal.

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Fri 05/15/09 08:44 AM
Edited by QuirkyGiGi on Fri 05/15/09 08:47 AM

Bottom line: stand up for yourself, respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.



Men love bit**es... chicks dig @$$holes... it's the same malarkey. People are stupid and aren't even capable of choosing the "right" person for them. Big friggin' deal.


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People don't seem to be reading the above quoted bottom line... The term "Bi*ch" is used as a catch phrase, a hook, to get people to read the book and not in a negative connotation frustrated. So far any one that has seen this book has laughed and agreed.

I guess my thread should be rephrased: Why do men love strong women? What attracts a man to a woman that knows what she wants, how she wants it, when she wants it and the way she wants it? spock

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Fri 05/15/09 02:22 PM


Bottom line: stand up for yourself, respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.



Men love bit**es... chicks dig @$$holes... it's the same malarkey. People are stupid and aren't even capable of choosing the "right" person for them. Big friggin' deal.


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People don't seem to be reading the above quoted bottom line... The term "Bi*ch" is used as a catch phrase, a hook, to get people to read the book and not in a negative connotation frustrated. So far any one that has seen this book has laughed and agreed.

I guess my thread should be rephrased: Why do men love strong women? What attracts a man to a woman that knows what she wants, how she wants it, when she wants it and the way she wants it? spock


If she knows what, how, when, and the way, why isn't she getting any?

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Fri 05/15/09 02:46 PM
for some crazy ass reason i love *****es because they have a confidence in themselves and they are a challenge, they dont rule me or tell me what im gonna do but its fun you dont know whats next... usually sex is great to when there is some ferocity

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Fri 05/15/09 05:16 PM
I honestly wish I knew....if you find out, let me know cuz I must be doing something wrong...frown

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