Topic: "Why Men Love Bit**es" | |
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So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat. However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone) that brings up the question "why do women love a$$holes?" |
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***** (bic̸h) noun the female of the dog, wolf, fox, etc. Archaic a lewd or promiscuous woman Slang a woman regarded as malicious, bad-tempered, or aggressive: a term of contempt Slang anything especially unpleasant or difficult ☆ Slang a complaint Now THAT is what I think of when I think of one. Not someone who stands up to say, an abuser for instance. |
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Kicks and crys when she doesn't get her way - Especially unpleasant and difficult.
Big difference between childish and strength. What you put down Chrissy, is strength in my eye's. |
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Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you. Ok, I'm a Bit!@. A strong woman isn't a B!t.. I define it as someone who is rude for no reason other than the fact being that way makes her feel better about herself or satisfies some other selfish or dark need. So Id say your not |
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I guess my point was anyone could consider the behavior I mentioned as lewd, aggressive, malicious and they would consider me a bit!@.
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So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat. However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone) |
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I guess the definition of what a ***** is is the first matter that needs to be addressed.
The term seems to be used in alot of different contexts. |
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No, I respectfully disagree Chrissy. I've never seen you act lewd and promiscuous. Standing up for a friend or loved one, what you want, issues you believe in, etc..does not have to denote the behaviour of a b****
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No, I respectfully disagree Chrissy. I've never seen you act lewd and promiscuous. Standing up for a friend or loved one, what you want, issues you believe in, etc..does not have to denote the behaviour of a b**** Agreed Auburn and you can disagree with me anytime. |
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There actually WAS suppose to be a compliment in there although it seems to have gotten lost in translation!
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No honey, I got it. I have been called the "B" word on more than one occassion. There are many men who don't agree with Websters.
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Don't care for them.
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Thanks!!
Well, I can say this. It would break my heart if any S.O. ever called me a b**** |
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Men dont like Bit%7es.....any more than women like Bastar&$
The book should be renamed... "Why Boys Like Little girl Bitc%$" Its that the immaturity... brings out the game playing...simple enough! |
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Course, then you get into the fact that the reverse is true. Women who make an effort NOT to behave like a b**** get called things like mealy mouthed or a doormat. And oddly enough, usually by other women.
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the only way I can tell if a woman isn't a bit%h is if she has a hand full of
lolipops and is willing to share them with me. |
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Hey! I started that thread up there for you because you're always looking for lollipops!!!
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!!!!!!!!!!!! Welcome to Mingle !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i still think definition needs to be addressed for each poster because it can mean so many things
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Hey! I started that thread up there for you because you're always looking for lollipops!!! |
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