Topic: "Why Men Love Bit**es"
Jtevans's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:56 PM

So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.

However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone):thumbsup: :tongue:



that brings up the question "why do women love a$$holes?"

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:56 PM

***** (bic̸h)

noun

the female of the dog, wolf, fox, etc.
Archaic a lewd or promiscuous woman
Slang a woman regarded as malicious, bad-tempered, or aggressive: a term of contempt
Slang anything especially unpleasant or difficult
☆ Slang a complaint



Now THAT is what I think of when I think of one. Not someone who stands up to say, an abuser for instance.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:58 PM
Kicks and crys when she doesn't get her way - Especially unpleasant and difficult.

Big difference between childish and strength. What you put down Chrissy, is strength in my eye's.

dlawson12's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:58 PM

Define Bit!@. A woman who is strong and takes up for herself? A woman who is unafraid to go after what she wants? A woman who will not allow herself to be devalued, disrespected or degraded? A woman who defends herself and all she loves with her words and her actions. A woman who will gaze into your eyes when you call her a Bit!@ and then wink at you.


Ok, I'm a Bit!@.:wink:



A strong woman isn't a B!t.. I define it as someone who is rude for no reason other than the fact being that way makes her feel better about herself or satisfies some other selfish or dark need.

So Id say your not :smile:

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:58 PM
I guess my point was anyone could consider the behavior I mentioned as lewd, aggressive, malicious and they would consider me a bit!@.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:59 PM

So I'm re-reading a best seller book "Why Men Love Bit**es"(if anyone has read the book please let me know your opinion on it). The book makes plenty of sense. Bottom line: stand up for yourself,respect yourself, don't take mistreatment from anyone, (while being nice) don't be a doormat.

However, based on it's title alone, I'd like to know (preferably from men althugh women are welcome to share) why men love bit**es (I'm just using the title of the book and I'm not trying to offend anyone):thumbsup: :tongue:
flowerforyou Well, women are only human, and I have noticed that some chicks can be sweet and nice to everyone but be a "b" to their man, or can be a "b" to everyone else but be nice and sweet to their man.flowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Thu 05/07/09 02:59 PM
I guess the definition of what a ***** is is the first matter that needs to be addressed.

The term seems to be used in alot of different contexts.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:00 PM
No, I respectfully disagree Chrissy. I've never seen you act lewd and promiscuous. flowerforyou Standing up for a friend or loved one, what you want, issues you believe in, etc..does not have to denote the behaviour of a b****

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:02 PM

No, I respectfully disagree Chrissy. I've never seen you act lewd and promiscuous. flowerforyou Standing up for a friend or loved one, what you want, issues you believe in, etc..does not have to denote the behaviour of a b****


Agreed Auburn and you can disagree with me anytime.flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:03 PM
There actually WAS suppose to be a compliment in there although it seems to have gotten lost in translation! :laughing:

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:04 PM
No honey, I got it. I have been called the "B" word on more than one occassion. There are many men who don't agree with Websters.laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:05 PM
Don't care for them.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:06 PM
Thanks!!


Well, I can say this. It would break my heart if any S.O. ever called me a b****

Havaman's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:08 PM
Men dont like Bit%7es.....any more than women like Bastar&$
The book should be renamed... "Why Boys Like Little girl Bitc%$"

Its that the immaturity... brings out the game playing...simple enough!

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:14 PM
Course, then you get into the fact that the reverse is true. Women who make an effort NOT to behave like a b**** get called things like mealy mouthed or a doormat. And oddly enough, usually by other women.

no photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:16 PM
the only way I can tell if a woman isn't a bit%h is if she has a hand full of









lolipops and is willing to share them with me.rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl slaphead

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:17 PM
Hey! I started that thread up there for you because you're always looking for lollipops!!! laugh

metalwing's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:22 PM
!!!!!!!!!!!! Welcome to Mingle !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dragoness's photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:25 PM
i still think definition needs to be addressed for each poster because it can mean so many things

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no photo
Thu 05/07/09 03:26 PM

Hey! I started that thread up there for you because you're always looking for lollipops!!! laugh
oh no. thats not what I am doing... Not looking.... I know where lolipop is....... and ty for the thread....rofl rofl rofl