Topic: a question for you men
AGoodGuy1026's photo
Wed 05/06/09 09:51 PM
brokenheart frustrated mad embarassed

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 05/06/09 09:52 PM
No, I just leave and when I run into her and her 3 kids from 3 different daddies 10 years later and she says she wants to date me and hands me her phone number- I crumple it up and throw it on the ground and reply "Uh, ok, bye".

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 05/06/09 09:58 PM

How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"?
....I slip and stick it in the wrong hole.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Wed 05/06/09 10:12 PM
geez you guys are harsh scared

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 05/06/09 10:29 PM

How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"?


Time to go.

Buh bye now.

unreal1's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:30 PM
hi

well let me put it to you how would you feel

hartbrocken maybe

jhjhl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:33 PM

How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"?
i probably would dump you if i really loved you. if i didnt love you, i would stick around for a while if the sex is good or for whatever reason it may be but i mean its hard for a man to put himself out there saying the **** monkey love you thing & get that response back... lol

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:34 PM
actually no, i wouldn't take it or myself THAT seriously... ohwell

i'd probably laugh it off, maybe say it enough times until i annoy the hell out of him and beat his spirit into submission pitchfork

7z3r05's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:34 PM

How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"?


that happened to me. i said it WAY too early. kinda startled her, i guess. BUT we dated or 4 years, so i had something right.

7z3r05's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:36 PM

actually no, i wouldn't take it or myself THAT seriously... ohwell

i'd probably laugh it off, maybe say it enough times until i annoy the hell out of him and beat his spirit into submission pitchfork


although this is also possible.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:37 PM
but seriously though...

if you love the girl, why is it so easy to dump her and move on just because of that?

maybe she just isn't ready for that kind of thing...

is instant gratification more important than being patient with the woman you allegedly love?

if so then you didn't love the woman, and she probably picked up on that and decided to ignore it until she felt you actually meant it.


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Thu 05/07/09 11:38 PM

How do you men feel when you tell a woman you love her for the first time, and she just responds "ok, bye"?
I really men would quit telling they love us when all we can say is ok bye!!noway laugh laugh Jessssssssssus men!!! Make sure we love you back before you utter such crazy nonsense!!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:42 PM
i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... ohwell

i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up...

and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" laugh

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Thu 05/07/09 11:44 PM

i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... ohwell

i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up...

and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" laugh
His "bye I love you" was it a long drawn out bye I love you or just a quick bye I love you. Because seriously......I think my son has been taught so long to say that to me when he says bye that its just a natural reaction.

jhjhl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:44 PM

but seriously though...

if you love the girl, why is it so easy to dump her and move on just because of that?

maybe she just isn't ready for that kind of thing...

is instant gratification more important than being patient with the woman you allegedly love?

if so then you didn't love the woman, and she probably picked up on that and decided to ignore it until she felt you actually meant it.


well ok bye is not really the nicest of the answers for i love you... something nicer might cut it for couple months or years but ok bye? seriously? its not worth staying with someone that doesn't give a **** and will probably leave you when she falls in love with the next cue guy. i mean its just not worth it from a guys point of view. beside it would be creepy for you to have a guy that you said "ok bye" to sticking aound for more "ok bye"

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Thu 05/07/09 11:46 PM
Personally I dont think the bye I love you's count!!!noway

I like my I love you's to be looooooooong and drawn out!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

jhjhl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:46 PM

i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... ohwell

i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up...

and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" laugh
you need to talk to your bf about this honey... it is not right and you know that. i mean yeah you might not love him but unless you want to keep him;you need to talk to him about this

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Thu 05/07/09 11:47 PM
Call me picky......

and what guy says that as his first I love you????


Geeeeeeeeeeeeez that guy needs to read the rule book. The first I love you has to be looooooooooong and drawn out while you are looking into each others eyes!!!slaphead rofl rofl rofl surprised

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Thu 05/07/09 11:48 PM
I swear I have to teach men EVERYTHING!!!explode noway laugh laugh laugh frustrated

jhjhl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:48 PM

i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... ohwell

i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up...

and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" laugh
i mean you would not be asking this question if he did this to you. you would be calling him all sort of ass names right now lol.... that is kinda funny though lol. its like watching a movie. poor guy lol