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Topic: Hidden Costs
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/29/09 07:28 PM
"My love don't cost a thing." Is that true for you, or are there hidden costs?

shellymc Joined Tue 04/28/09 Posts: 265	Wed 04/29/09 07:30 PM
love doesn't cost anything money wise ..but you do have to spend time building the relationship and the trust ,,you have to invest your heart and your time so it depends on how you look at it ,,to me its worth it ...

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24722	Wed 04/29/09 07:30 PM
so you pay

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 04/29/09 07:30 PM
"There's No Such Thing as Free Lunch"

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 04/29/09 07:31 PM
women aren't free

Havaman Joined Sun 08/03/08 Posts: 426	Wed 04/29/09 07:32 PM
Well...Im not cheap...But...I can be had.

loves2laugh22003 Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 55	Wed 04/29/09 07:33 PM
I disagree..there is such a thing as a free lunch, but someone usually pays for it, lol.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 04/29/09 07:33 PM
It cost me my sanity. Now Im coo coo!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/29/09 07:38 PM
love doesn't cost anything money wise ..but you do have to spend time building the relationship and the trust ,,you have to invest your heart and your time so it depends on how you look at it ,,to me its worth it ...

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Wed 04/29/09 07:39 PM
As long as you can put up with me, it doesn't cost a dime

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/29/09 07:39 PM
so you pay

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Wed 04/29/09 07:42 PM
All I ask is that he doesn't try to change me. If a realationship is going to cost me who I am, it isn't worth it. Incidentally, it's also not worth it if he will lose who he is. No one should lose his or her own self, who they are, in a relationship.

La_Boricua_Blanca Joined Fri 08/08/08 Posts: 9	Wed 04/29/09 07:49 PM
my love is free... i dont need and/or want his money but i hate when a quy expects ME to pay for HIM... thats lamee =/ whether its a movie ticket.. dinner... rent... if my love is free, yours should be too

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 04/29/09 07:52 PM
Love don't cost a thing!! I call Bullsh!t on that one!!

Savitar Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 1011	Wed 04/29/09 08:12 PM
I am with pats fan on this one , One way or another Love cost , may not be in money , and it might be a price your willing to pay , but everything in life has a cost

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 04/29/09 08:35 PM
im with pats......it aian't cheap being in a realtionship

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/29/09 09:46 PM
All I ask is that he doesn't try to change me. If a realationship is going to cost me who I am, it isn't worth it. Incidentally, it's also not worth it if he will lose who he is. No one should lose his or her own self, who they are, in a relationship.

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Wed 04/29/09 10:28 PM
"There's No Such Thing as Free Lunch" bingo bango. totage knows what he's talkin about :p

Kindred2Wicked Joined Mon 03/02/09 Posts: 1331	Thu 04/30/09 04:43 AM
"My love don't cost a thing." Is that true for you, or are there hidden costs? No hidden costs, just expectations of loyalty and returned respect. I could give a rip about his money, I have my own. If he asks me out I expect him to pay, if I ask him out I'm happy to pay.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Thu 04/30/09 04:51 AM
I think most love requires a big investment of time, energy, self, and sometimes money. With the notable exception of money, you get out what you are willing to put in.