being "alone" and being "lonely", as I quote from here, to me are about the same. This is a rare Saturday at 11 PM when I am not out somewhere in this fabulous city. I am sure next weekend i will be out for fun.

Ordinary: two people who love each other, enjoy being together, grow together and find joy in sharing their lives.

Extraordinary: usually involves passions of such a high degree and fluctuation that there is so much more drama that things usually don't last long term.

I'll the ferris wheel (ordinary) over the roller coaster (extraordinary).

I do agree with this

I would want to take the risk, and find, the extraordinary one.

Risk it all the way just because I'm alone does not mean I'm lonely at all.

I will not settle for any relationship would rather be alone then miserable with someone I really don't want to be with.

I’d rather risk being alone forever. However, I think that a truly extraordinary relationship will come from two ordinary friends who realize they wouldn’t want to live without the other and take it to the next level.

yes I believe this 2 be true

I will take the italian bologna sandwich on rye please.

Easy on the mayo and drama please, thank you.

I'm alone at present anyway, so the risk of being alone for the foreseeable future isn't all that far-fetched. Or surprising, for that matter.

i would rather run the risk of finding something extrodinary, than to be with someone out of fear of being alone. it wouldn't be fair to me or the other person.

what's your favorite mayo? and what kind of chips would you like?

extraordinary is all in the way YOU feel about the person...there is a huge difference between falling in love and being in love..everybody feels great when you are falling in love but it is tougher to be in love, to be able to put up with the every day riggers of a relationship ie. you in the shower , her on the toilet...that is ordinary...boring...but you feel a ease enough to be able to do it without feeling uncomfortable...if people stop thinking that falling in love is the feeling of love...then we would all be happy and in great relationships...but we keep looking for something that doesnt exist...that is an every day example of why I would rather go for ordinary........just my two cents

I believe in water conservation shower together

I want to love and be loved. I want the goose pimple feeling when I think of him and want the melting sensation I feel when he looks at me from across the room. I want the trust, security, and commitment of a long term relationship. I want the bells and whistles effect that love has when you know this is the real thing and it is going to last. I want the ordinary in that I go to sleep in his arms every night and wake up there in the morning - and am pleasantly surprise to realize it is not a dream.

If I do the whole love thing again, it will be for real all the way from both parties. No mind controlling/submissive you do all of the compromising "I am your superior" kind of thing like the last one.

I deserve so much more and I am not willing to settle. So I will risk being alone. It is a much healthier feeling for me.

On the other hand, I don't know what I would give for a hearfelt hug right about now. It has been a rough couple of days and even though I handled it by myself, it would have been nice to have had a nice strong shoulder to lean on. Sigh.

I believe in water conservation shower together

of course!! but after the pee...you dont want to be peeing in the shower lol

I don't get all hung up on it like some. Apples and oranges. If I'm alone I'm fine. If I'm with someone I'm fine. I'm not going to go all out codependent on noone. I'm not settling for the sake of settling though. I enjoy life too much. Its worth living.

I believe in water conservation shower together

of course!! but after the pee lol
I'm guessing you're not a fan of matching his and her toilets

of course!! but after the pee lol
I'm guessing you're not a fan of matching his and her toilets

I made sure to go back and edit it to say the whole thing lol

Take a chance. I would rather be single than settle for anything less then the best.