I am like many here, I won't settle, I love bells and whistles.
They get them with me! It's a fair trade!

Do to habit I have no fear of being alone.

What many define as ordinary is what I cherish in life. I don't want an intense flame that burns itself out quickly.

If I have to deal with a lot of drama then I rather be alone. I am not afraid to be alone anyway. I think I rather wait for that special person.

'cept when it comes to beer

I like a woman that nags and beats me up sometimes

That is not how I define ordinary... Although there need to be sparks and great sex and he must, must be a great kisser... Ordinary to me means settling just to have someone, someone I'm attracted to only so so, have nothing in common with, totally different sense of humors, someone who doesn't view work/career as important as I do, etc. I'm sure I could go on and on.. I refuse to be with someone just to not be alone.. I cherish my time alone and will always need my independence... If I met someone that I meshed with oh 95% then I'd try it, otherwise not so much...

you know what? i LIKE being alone. it's my personal choice.

so...he'd have to be pretty extraordinary for me to give that up.

To have love halfway is harder than not having it at all.

I'm an 'All or Nothing' kinda person myself.

I really don't mind being alone. There's a big difference between being "alone" and being "lonely". I enjoy my own company and entertain myself quite well, so being alone doesn't scare me.

However, I believe there is that ONE special person out there just for me (so, hands off of him, ladies!). And when I find him, he'll definitely be extraordinary. I've settled for less in the past; I won't do it again.

Those are the rules? Well, I will take an ordinary relationship and then break the rules and make it extraordinary! Rules are made to be broken right?

The ordinary. I'm not picky, but as we all know has to be some attraction. For me to look for the far fetch of what my mind thinks it wants. Is a lost couse. it's not to say it's not out there, but i'm not going to hold my breath.

To me , what you consider to be ordinary , I would consider a recipe for disaster. Oridnary to me , is two people who live each other , go to work, Raise their kids etc, . In that case , its up to those individuals to make what would be ordinary , into the extrodinary . Sad part is , most dont bother , and it really doesnt take much effort.

I won't settle, but will never be alone. I have wonderul children to make sure of that

I need extraordinary. I wrote a song called, "Love's Losers" as a response to so-called friends of mine criticizing me for getting out of what I felt were ordinary relationships (which I knew weren't going to work......)

i'm working on the extraordinary one. it's definitely a lonely search.
no rest areas along the way for me. i'm getting tired of holding it.


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I will

I've only met one person who was truly compatible with me, and I don't expect to meet another.

Prior to that, I managed to entangle myself with a number of unsuitable partners, and I would certainly prefer being alone to dealing with another one of those situations.