I have a dislike of people speaking to others
with their sunglasses still on, as I feel that
the heard words cant be as well trust if one
cannot read the others "whole face" clearly...

It nice to see into ones eyes when talking...

I run into this occasionally -- and rarely does anyone ever see me without dark glasses, because my eyes are very sensitive to bright light and I get excruciating headaches -- but if people choose to see that as "hiding," well, so be it -- that's a choice they make....

Read "The body language of sex, power and agression" or better yet, Trance formations, Frogs to Princes or anything by Bandler & Grinder, or even Milton H. Erikson. The eyes matter, but not overly in determining the truth in what peple say face to face. More important is posture, position, breathing, the arms and hands....on an on.

Pepole percieve themselves to be more opaque or operating under cover when wearing dark glasses, but it matters little to an educated observer/"interviewer".

Thats all. Just read that.

There's glass between us.

This I understand this reason, yet some still have them on
indoors too, some especailly choosing to put them on
when having their photographs taken indoors, is it a prop
to help accentuate their looks or to hide part of who they are.

YES
true,
but then
I can
see your
eyes!

Hummmmmmmmmmm don't most normally take their sunglasses off when inside? Or do you tend to only talk to others outside?

Never thought about that bothering me due to if I'm outside I do have my sunglasses on and don't take them off till I go inside.

Besides that most the time if one listens to the one they are talking to and observes their actions. They can learn a lot by those things alone. Now when I'm inside talking to someone it is the lack of eye contact that gets on my nerves. Those that totally avoid eye contact with you while your talking to them are the ones you should be worried about.

Not everyone wearing shades is trying to hide something...even at night. Personally, I use Transitions lenses but they suck driving. UV filter already in auto glass. lol

I've personally found that people who just HAVE to wear sunglasses when they're talking to you are either-

- drunk off their gourd and are using the shades to hide their blood-shot eyes

- trying to hide the incredibly botched plastic surgery they just had

- trying desperately to be "totally cool, dude"

- or *if the person in question's a chick* she's much too snooty to be bothered by talking to you.

then take them off !

SOME can talk to the other from a different room
and have no concern about having that eye contact

TO have eye contact is a serious need when discussing
in depth concerns, if there is a trust, it works, even
over the telephone, then again, they could very well
be rolling their eyes.

You first!

Mine are prescription...so, I can look cool and actually see...as opposed to looking sincere but, blind as a bat.

<<<Looks far cooler with shades than without them.

Hummmmmmmm and would that not as well pertain to those that wear sunglasses as well?

For it is the fact that you can not see their eyes that bothers you.

As far as eye contact with the person you are talking to I'm referring to those time you are face to face with another person and in a conversation with them. Any other time I do not expect to have eye contact with them if they are in fact doing something as we are talking or in another room.

I think I have the same glasses.

We are two really, really cool people.

Yeah I don't care too much for people that walk around indoors with their shades still on. Got no problem with people talking to me outdoors with 'em on. And sometimes I'll wear them inside a store or something if I'm feeling to messed up to wanna make eye contact.

Agreed.

And.... yes it would.

It is a dislike, not so much of a bother, then again I dislike people who chew gum constantly while they are talking.

I knew you were talking of face to face, eye contact in conversation, I just went a little beyond that to when one does chat without constant eye contact.