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| Topic: have men given up real commitment? | |
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ya better to live another 60 years with a closed off heart!!!
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no not better
but to me right now,taking a chance again just aint worth it. |
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ya it all sucks doesnt it.....
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yes it does,
being hurt aint the way it was meant,but this world is so far out from whats right,it may never be right again |
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take a chance......you have years to be bitter.......
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If I was young again.........
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm  I would have done things alot differently.
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but every chance I have taken its never worked out.not a one time its sad for any one to get this way,and no one wants to be this way.but its gets where this is all they know |
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Give What???
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but every chance I have taken its never worked out.not a one time its sad for any one to get this way,and no one wants to be this way.but its gets where this is all they know |
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Today,is another world,i think
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but every chance I have taken its never worked out.not a one time its sad for any one to get this way,and no one wants to be this way.but its gets where this is all they know which is why I cant be in any relationship right now. I cant even love my self,let alone love any one else |
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I'm gonna go back to the first page for a second:
Pain. I can't speak for all but maybe some. Emotional pain is something we don't know how to deal with well. So the best remedy for that is to shut it out and not put ourselves in the situation to have to maybe deal with it. guys can't handle emotional pain... but by protecting urself of pain u r missing the care and the love... Not so much. By protecting ourselves, we're doing exactly that -- protecting ourselves. When it's all a guy has been shown repeatedly time and time again, he tends to see the pattern. Call it a wall, call it whatever you like, but there's obviously a reason (or several) why that wall was built in the first place. Women ain't the only ones who get hurt, y'know. Attention is just never paid to the guys who do. |
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Did you just quote yourself? lol. Guys aren't afraid of commitment. They're are afraid that the girl won't keep it herself. Almost every guy has been burned when they did the right thing and that's why you think they're afraid. Yes, but almost everyone women has been burned as well. When are we all going to learn, that everyone is an individual, and have the potential to hurt us or make us happy, the same way we have the potential to hurt someone else or make them happy. It takes two to make a relationship work. When both aren't working at it, it dies. |
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? 
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? That's a little too all-inclusive for me. I don't think it's absolutely true that all men HAVE given up on commitment. I know some who are in very stable, long-term relationships and are doing fine with that. I would personally love to be in a committed relationship, but I can't find anyone who doesn't want to turn me into a cardboard cutout -- and that just ain't a-gonna work. For me, it has nothing to do with "fear." It's about the lack of a suitable partner. |
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? That's a little too all-inclusive for me. I don't think it's absolutely true that all men HAVE given up on commitment. I know some who are in very stable, long-term relationships and are doing fine with that. I would personally love to be in a committed relationship, but I can't find anyone who doesn't want to turn me into a cardboard cutout -- and that just ain't a-gonna work. For me, it has nothing to do with "fear." It's about the lack of a suitable partner. More tha a suitable partner, I'd say, it is more that you make it too hard to make  it  suitable!
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? That's funny, as I've dated my share of women who had the same problem going on in their almond-sized brains. So it just goes to show that being non-committal is a unisex thing and not something limited to only one of the genders.
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? Women have too. Let's not generalize the question here 
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? Its not men. Its everybody
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why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? Its not men. Its everybody mmmm, i dont think so, I have not given up yet!!!! 
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