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Topic: have men given up real commitment?
writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 01/13/09 06:52 PM
Just because you have bad taste in men doesn't mean that all men have commitment issues. And women are just as bad. why is it that you always hear about men cheating but never the women. It takes two to tango. Soooooo true

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 01/13/09 06:52 PM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? I certainly have given it up

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 01/13/09 06:55 PM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? we men? whoa sugar. we men havent given up commitment. we arent just gonna throw commitment at some girl that comes to us begging for it. its a two way street babe. i suggest you keep the personal problems in your diary instead of taking them here.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Tue 01/13/09 06:55 PM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? I'm a strong believer in being committed to that someone special and to my friendships. These days, however, and after a couple decades of failed attempts at commitment and family, I've shifted my priorities quite a bit to acheive my goals with or without that special woman. Here here. Me too.But now that I did that.I still want to find someone.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 01/13/09 06:59 PM
Another generalization about men

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 01/13/09 07:02 PM
Another generalization about men aint it wonderful pats? ill tell ya, this neeeevvveeeerrr gets old...

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Tue 01/13/09 07:11 PM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? I don't know about other men because I can't speak for others. However for my self.. once I find the right women whenever that does happen that is, I would not be afraid of commitment.

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Tue 01/13/09 07:14 PM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? The same can be said of a lot of the so-called "ladies" out there as well. So it's not a one-sided issue in the least. I've found that the whole fear-of-commitment thing stems from a decidedly-absurd amount of over-thinking on the part of the commitment-feared. They over-think about what would theoretically happen in the future as well as whether or not it'd actually be worth it to stay in the relationship.

canaryrx8 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 361	Tue 01/13/09 07:18 PM
Not scared at all, if anything, I find in my experience it's always the women who don't want commitment, my last relationship completely exploded because the girl I was seeing was playing me while seeing some other guy, it was awesome, nice "commitment" there huh?

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Tue 01/13/09 07:21 PM
commitment is what we all look for i think. it's all the disappointments that slow down that process. but i do believe it takes a lot of courage for men and women to continue to look for a relationship.

kayarie Joined Tue 01/13/09 Posts: 331	Tue 01/13/09 07:34 PM
yes, I will never understand men. I thought i knew what they wanted. I just left my last husband,All i wanted was what he had to give me. I only married him for his Lego collection. When i found out some of the pieces were missing i just couldn't handle it any longer i had to escape. I filed for divorce and took everything. His Legos, pancake mix and all his staples

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Fri 01/23/09 01:25 AM
why u men have given up commitment? what r u so afraid of? we men? whoa sugar. we men havent given up commitment. we arent just gonna throw commitment at some girl that comes to us begging for it. its a two way street babe. i suggest you keep the personal problems in your diary instead of taking them here. sweetheart , what personal problems? it is just an open question.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 01/23/09 01:33 AM
Scared little boys..........need to grow up!!!

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Fri 01/23/09 01:34 AM
I aint afraid of commitment. but I dont trust relationships nore do I trust most woman.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Fri 01/23/09 01:35 AM
Scared little boys..........need to grow up!!! I don't think the symbol is really going to help the scared situation when it comes to the topic of commitment! BTW: Ever heard of a white lie? I'm sorry, just not ready for commitment MEANS: HELL NO, I'M NOT SETTLING FOR YOU! just saying...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 01/23/09 01:35 AM
I aint afraid of commitment. but I dont trust relationships nore do I trust most woman. WELL...life is a gamble. Do you want to hide forever or open up an take the chance?????

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 01/23/09 01:38 AM
Scared little boys..........need to grow up!!! I don't think the symbol is really going to help the scared situation when it comes to the topic of commitment! BTW: Ever heard of a white lie? I'm sorry, just not ready for commitment MEANS: HELL NO, I'M NOT SETTLING FOR YOU! just saying... Ive never heard that uttered to me before......

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Fri 01/23/09 01:38 AM
I aint afraid of commitment. but I dont trust relationships nore do I trust most woman. WELL...life is a gamble. Do you want to hide forever or open up an take the chance????? I would rather stay single and not worry about it

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 01/23/09 01:40 AM
I aint afraid of commitment. but I dont trust relationships nore do I trust most woman. WELL...life is a gamble. Do you want to hide forever or open up an take the chance????? I would rather stay single and not worry about it fair enough.......I hear ya...........its easier to be single

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Fri 01/23/09 01:43 AM
its not always easier. but you dont get hurt,and that there is worth it.