1. Be compassionate and understanding - women like men who are
compassionate and understanding, someone who always cares. A woman wants
to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a nice guy." A woman wants a man
to tell her often how important she is to him and to show her that in
his actions and thoughtfulness. Flowers, a gift, a card, or even just a
phone call are an extra touch that tell her she matters.
2. Be polite and complimentary - women like to hear "please" and
"thank you". Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty and that she
has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps and
thanking her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize
that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Respect for her
thoughts and opinions and recognition of her intelligence and strong
points is paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Find
something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
3. Be a good communicator - Listen to her, hear her out, give eye
contact to let her know you are giving full attention. However, you also
need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions and problems. The
communication must be mutual not one-sided. Help give ideas about
possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something
other than what you suggest.
4. For ongoing relationships, just a word of advice - give your woman
the attention and caring she deserves, and be sure she does the same for
you.


No where in this does it say do as I say not as I do!!!!!!!!!!!!

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM


Obedient huh??????????????


Not in this lifetime!!!!!!!!!!


I would say BYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cutelildevilsmom sorry but true
luscious.....

I agree with your boyfriend. The man is always in control and should be
obeyed. The woman should do all the house work, cater to the mans every
need. The woman should also go to work while the man stays at home and
relaxes. He should be treated like a god. Woman should have dog
collars, I always buy girls one for birthday presents.


P.S. Im only joking, I think your boyfriend is an ass.

Sounds like he joined a sect or a cult or something. Or smoking from the
wrong pipe.

You jackass james go back to chatting with my co-worker
or I might be asking if u have and extra room.. I do miss vegas

As you have already heard from me, I think you should leave him
This is not a healthy relationship & it will probably get worse.

Hey James I just heard that you like to give massages?? I am a massage
therapist and REALLY can use a massage got that room clean yet. Na just
joshin' The sad part is I really fell of this guy and now he's pulling
this macho crap..I miss the days when control was who got tied up first

And thank you everyone for your input I do appreciate the advice.

I will obey
I will obey
I will obey






Nah I can't even type it with a straight face!

Definitely control issues that do not bode well.

It is something misinterpreted from another time which they think gives
them the right to treat their women and children like chattel. The
intention got lost.

Were I in your shoes, I'd be gone...

I wish you well!

Sounds like a bad attitude and a selfish one too. But its so charming
how can you resist telling to take a flying leap and the moon. I don't
personally know any women who would tolerate that for long. Still
single? Sounds like time to exercise your singleness a bit before you
succumb to the pressure and become a total obsequious dweeb. Can women
be obsequious dweebs or is it just guys who can do that? Hmmmm.

It can go both ways. I have a friend living under the rule of opression.
They're married with children and he won't leave because of the kids.

I feel for your friend kid, there are not children involved but other
issues that make simply telling him to pound sand not so easy. We moved
into a more expensive, bigger apartment because I wanted too and then he
was saying he moved so I was happy, he has health issues to the point
were I went and got state aid with him covered under my policy because
he didn't qualify alone..Guilt is a *****

I obey....

I am silent...


I am a 'good' woman...







WHEN I CHOOSE TO BE!!!!!

Pushing the will of one on the other...and there's that obligatory
word...'should'...

Soneone says 'You should" directed at me...my defiance disorder comes
screaming to the top..

I will....when I want.


*Insert crossed arms and stamping foot emoticon here*

Jess you will obey me because I'm holding your wombat hostage

Cloudy, you will have to obey me simply because I'm stronger than
you

sounds like someone just got converted to some religion


but hey what do i know

Wanna bet? This ole roo will kick your butt and free the wombat...mind
you if you have some scubland, and some water, and the right climates,
he's probably safer with you...


And obey?


hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahhahhhhhahha

Thanx the advice all, Anyone in the area of bullhead city, AZ have a
room coming up for rent or a cheap apartment/studio

He sounds like a control freak to me. Mutual respect and understanding
are the cornerstones of a good relationship. If he wants complete and
total obedience, he should get a dog.

SheNerd :)