Sounds like you moved in to quick.
I'd move out the same way, QUICK.
Too many abuse things start this way.
Really doubt he will ever change.

take a hammer, and get his attention. then tell him that you went to
just say hi, and the consensus was you do not have to shut up to be
obedient. then, tell him that when he is sleeping, you are going to give
him an attitude adjustment. So, then he will sleep with one eye kept on
you at all times.
he will rethink what he said to you, i guarantee.
.

Abuse only brings ABUSE.
Violence is always the last step.
Walk away before things get out of control.
If you feel you love him,
Move out & then get counseling for both.
The odds are against you.

YOUR SAFTEY comes first.
All else after that.

“My boyfriend has recently stated that women should be silent and obey
the man, when in a relationship. We have been together for going on 8
months and have lived together four months of that time. This is a new
attidude for him. He said it is written somewhere that this how things
should be. Can anyone tell me where it is written and how to deal with
this change in him???Beside just leaving??”

Since you’re not yet married, I’d just leave. No need to make it ugly
or point fingers. Just say you’re no longer interested in continuing
the relationship period. Nobody’s fault, just GOODBYE!

A relationship that is not based on mutual respect and friendship is
nothing.

Suggestion that your partner been seen but not heard, and only do what
they are told to do is NOT mutual respect and friendship.

You’d be utterly crazy to remain with a person who views you as anything
less than a very best-friend.

More to the point. Why would you want to?

ask him if he understands 2x4 upside of the head

I think he should be tied up in a chair, blindfolded...

Of course you can get him to let you do this if you tell him it's kinky
sex...

And then smear beef gravy on him, upon the front door, call the
neighborhood dogs, grab your bags and leave town!!!

I hear "obey" and it turned into a dare, LMAO!

Sounds like a power trip or what has been mentioned sado-masochism. It
would be unrealistic I think. Discussion would be better a better way of
going about it. I haven't met anyone who has all the answers and if i
did how would I know?

so, did you try the pancho, heels, and bull whip?

Like Arabella's better.
Kinky old man aren't I.
Think of what I can dream up?

so, it's sado-religious-masochist?

LOL!

No just a potentially dangerous old man

I say praise the lord and pass the gravy

Just like old times, Ara and Nene in one thread...its so awesome

WOOT! Allen!

far as the op goes... yup. lived from age 5 to two yrs ago with abuse...

run. get away, and live.

Doesn't matter where it is written........a lot of crap gets written and
it is just that....crap.....you need to leave now or you will be sorry
later!!!!!

Kick him to the curb.... "QUICK"

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


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ALWAYS

OBEY

He read it in a popular book called "Why People Divorce: Men Are
A*holes"
by Emi Anidiot .....




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