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Edited by
grneyedldy1967
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Sun 03/15/09 07:15 AM
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I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! You are right. Very reason I don't have a cam anymore because if you have one even for innocent use guys beg for you to use it for "their benefit". Quite disgusting I think. I bought one at the urging of a guy and he was "nice". SURPRISE!!! Ended up wanting to masterbate for the cam and have me do crap, too. Call a sex line, dude, and stay away from my goodies. It wasn't that fancy that I just couldn't keep my eyes off of it!!! Freakin' egotistical old man!!!  Yeah you think you're talking to a nice guy that just wants to see you on cam then bingo one day he starts asking you to do this that and the other. I would immediately turn the cam off and never talk to the guy again. I know if he is doing that to me then he's gotta be doing it to others as well. Now if asked if I have a cam I say no and that's an immediate red flag for me! 
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Edited by
Giocamo
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Sun 03/15/09 07:25 AM
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I hate to say it...but...it's a rotten combination...trying to remain monogomous...and...having access to a computer...which by the way...has become the ruin of many a relationship...is quite difficult...especially for men...think about it...take the most beautiful women in the world...and...they get cheated on...there's a reason for a different issue of Playboy each month...sexually speaking...most men are never satisfied...and...require variety...monogomy...is not religious or culturally learned...you are not born that way...if you look at the entire male species...they are wired to pro create...remaining faithful is quite difficult...for most men...now lastly...I look at the computer problem this way...if a man is " chatting "..." camming "...online...isn't this the " symptom "...of a more major problem ?...it's very important to have " guidelines "...set up...whenever two people decide...that they are exclusive to one another...chatting and web camming online...is cheating in my opinion...I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! Here comes another generalization. A ton of women like variety, too. Geeeeez!!! Hard wiring for VARIETY is NOT only a man's general trait. It's about respect for your other half, period, if that is part of the couple's arrangement. And there are so many people out there to aid and abet in bad behaviour and make a buck off of it, too. I did say in my respnse...on a few occasions " in my opinion "...this is what I believe...sorry...if you disagree... |
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I've been thru the whole array of emotions. Hurt,betrayal,disgust...I cried,yelled,screamed. Now i'm good...i've told him off and that the end of it! Glad to hear your doing better  Does this mean we get a poem soon? 
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I hate to say it...but...it's a rotten combination...trying to remain monogomous...and...having access to a computer...which by the way...has become the ruin of many a relationship...is quite difficult...especially for men...think about it...take the most beautiful women in the world...and...they get cheated on...there's a reason for a different issue of Playboy each month...sexually speaking...most men are never satisfied...and...require variety...monogomy...is not religious or culturally learned...you are not born that way...if you look at the entire male species...they are wired to pro create...remaining faithful is quite difficult...for most men...now lastly...I look at the computer problem this way...if a man is " chatting "..." camming "...online...isn't this the " symptom "...of a more major problem ?...it's very important to have " guidelines "...set up...whenever two people decide...that they are exclusive to one another...chatting and web camming online...is cheating in my opinion...I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! Here comes another generalization. A ton of women like variety, too. Geeeeez!!! Hard wiring for VARIETY is NOT only a man's general trait. It's about respect for your other half, period, if that is part of the couple's arrangement. And there are so many people out there to aid and abet in bad behaviour and make a buck off of it, too. Here here  (coffee)
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective... Dude your word is your word bottom line you have a problem in a relationship you talk about it. As you get older you'll learn these things  yeah... huh? Sorry this one sliped by me, i just thought you were taking up for the guy, thats all. I hand you, my humble apology
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Well I am not going to say that all men are jerks BUT there are ALOT of them out there, they can't seem to stay on your side of the fence because they think that the grass is greener on the other side and they want thtere cake and eat it too instead of being honest with you he was keeping you while hoping for something else to come along.
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That's like asking why the sky is blue...
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There are reasons why I like my cats
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Just the other day, the 13th, my world came crashin down! My boyfriend and i had been togethere for 6 months! He was good to my kids at christmas, even sent me a dozen roses for valentines day. everything was wonderful. Then things got strange,his texts werer short and he didnt call me honey or baby anymore. I got to wondering what was up when just last weekend we were hangin out and things were great.....so i thought. I started wonderin about what was up, and then i found his secret! i was on the computer and an aduult sex dating site ad poped up. I thought about for a min and said what the hell. so i checked it out and looked him up on the site........Dammit he was on there his profile said single and he was lookin for sex and it said he had a web cam and he had naked pics of himself on there. OMG six f..kin months i gave to him. i was completely honest with him from the start. I showed him my profile here on minmgle and my myspace page. I just dont understand why people do this. I was so hurt but then i was so angry that he took my love for granted First I wanted to say I hate the remarks that show no compassion to your situation like get over it that is how life works! Yes it is but Women who say nothing is wrong with this sort of behavior are the ones who would do it temselves.. (Thats the world) All I can say is look for red flags.. I almost married a guy from church who was involved in the ministry, rode motercyles with the pastor.. has small groups at his home and had a TOTALLY SEPERATE LIFESTYLE of drugs and homosexuality! I was fooled at first because of his knowledge of Gods word and involvment in ministry... Thank God I found out.. Just because you are parked in a garage DOES not mean you are a car! People lie and cheat! Just be careful and smart! p.s. Im sorry that happened to you.. when you just wanted love and honesty. |
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From what I have read on this post sounds to me like you guys like starting your relationships way to fast, and then complain about it when things start moving at a pace you can't catch up too.
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paint the city red with this one,
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ouch... but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. "or maybe you gained weight?"  I think that part could have been left unsaid. Agreed. IF that happened and he no longer enjoyed sex with her he wasn't really into her anyway. That should not a roving eye make if it's love. And women do stupid stuff like this too .. we are not exempt for sure. Also the person who said it was ok to be on that site as single with webcam not making it 'cheating' .. Damn straight it's cheating. Kick his ASS to the curb! Dude's a loser
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I also have to ask in response why are some women liars and cheats. though this is going to spark and on going he said she said debate I had to point out that one sex is not to blame for the entire problem.
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I am sorry to hear about what happened. Just dont mke the mistake people make and judge the male race by some of our worse specimens.... Best wishes to you
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Selfish childish cowards! There are several people in this world Men AND Women who are just simply greedy, selfish, dishonorable, dishonest, cowardly, scum!
Sorry... I had to rant... I feel better now. |
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Thanks for your replies and opinions/insites.
I did talk to him sunday...just wanted closure i guess and for him to just admit to it all. its over of course there is no goin back EVER I just wish i could understand the male mind!!! If thats at all possible Just 6 days before i found him on that site, he invited the kids and i up to camp for the weekend with him,but i had to work sun. and we were makin plans to go out for my bday this weekend. I asked him what changed in so little time...he said he changed I asked him how he changed...and he said he realized he wasent ready for a relationship. WOW only took him 6 months to figure it out.....lol What ever happened to being in a commited relationship? |
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i could never cheat on a women, i'm very faithful! but my friend's are big time cheater's and there married! they can't understand why i'm not like them.
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Thanks for your replies and opinions/insites. I did talk to him sunday...just wanted closure i guess and for him to just admit to it all. its over of course there is no goin back EVER I just wish i could understand the male mind!!! If thats at all possible Just 6 days before i found him on that site, he invited the kids and i up to camp for the weekend with him,but i had to work sun. and we were makin plans to go out for my bday this weekend. I asked him what changed in so little time...he said he changed I asked him how he changed...and he said he realized he wasent ready for a relationship. WOW only took him 6 months to figure it out.....lol What ever happened to being in a commited relationship? this could be the theme question of many a dating site... why is it so difficult to find someone who can stay committed to their partner and still be open, sensitive and caring? i'm sorry to hear about it, jen. hope after some time off that your next one proves to be the sort who can commit and honor your love the way it should always be...
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