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| Topic: Why are some men liars and cheat! | |
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For the same reason that some women are.... They have no morals, or scruples!
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ouch... but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. "or maybe you gained weight?"  I think that part could have been left unsaid. sorry but it's the truth. i've done it and i know plenty of other fellas have too. u stop respecting and taking care of yourself and i will too. Fine, if you feel that way, then you end it with the person. Do you really mean to say that there is ANY good reason to do what he did? Sex with random strangers while you are in a relationship is never right, IMO. His actions have absolutely nothing to do with her appearance or otherwise, it has to do with his lack of character. |
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ouch... but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. "or maybe you gained weight?" I think that part could have been left unsaid. sorry but it's the truth. i've done it and i know plenty of other fellas have too. u stop respecting and taking care of yourself and i will too. Respect always comes down to how YOU treat other people, not how you take advantage of someones flaws. taking advantage of someone's flaws? huh? |
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yeah, that's why what he did was wrong. i thought the question was "why" tho...
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective... Dude your word is your word bottom line  you have a problem in a relationship you talk about it. As you get older you'll learn these things 
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Thankfully you caught him in six months and not after six YEARS. I still think the internet has too MANY options for some people. Grrrrr Sorry this has happened to you too.. but you'll pick up the pieces and move on after time.
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective... Dude your word is your word bottom line you have a problem in a relationship you talk about it. As you get older you'll learn these things yeah... huh? |
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I called him friday night when i found the profile.It went straight to voice mail. I basically told him that i found him out and really let him have it. told him to never ever contact me again Heres some sound advice...give him the silent treatment...you see he thinks you will be there for him anytime he wants...but if you put him on IGNORE...then things can change. It works...I've done it! You may be surpriaed how differently you feel when he comes creeping back! Why would she want him back after doing that? My ex did this very same thing. Caught him 3 different times. After that it was OVER! It is a SICKNESS and he will never ever stop. Don't take the creep back ever or you'll just get hurt over and over again!! |
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective... Dude your word is your word bottom line you have a problem in a relationship you talk about it. As you get older you'll learn these things wha? He seemed to be defending the guy |
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I hate to say it...but...it's a rotten combination...trying to remain monogomous...and...having access to a computer...which by the way...has become the ruin of many a relationship...is quite difficult...especially for men...think about it...take the most beautiful women in the world...and...they get cheated on...there's a reason for a different issue of Playboy each month...sexually speaking...most men are never satisfied...and...require variety...monogomy...is not religious or culturally learned...you are not born that way...if you look at the entire male species...they are wired to pro create...remaining faithful is quite difficult...for most men...now lastly...I look at the computer problem this way...if a man is " chatting "..." camming "...online...isn't this the " symptom "...of a more major problem ?...it's very important to have " guidelines "...set up...whenever two people decide...that they are exclusive to one another...chatting and web camming online...is cheating in my opinion...I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !!
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The question is why do SOME men.... as to that hey that's why you try your best to know someone before you let your heart get involved.. ME... I actualy do a background search sounds crazy and distrustful I know. But to be perfectly honest about it. IT HAS SAVED MY BUTT. Sure its probably not an easy thing to do. but...it works .
As for this guy whom was doing this. you have to decide for yourself. He endangered your health and possibly your kids health.. Not just with std's but hepatitis too. .So its best that you run do not walk away.. Any man that would do that and NOT BE honest about it is just a low life in my opinion... and remember this is just my opinion,. |
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jesus, why do i have to explain my answers in this thread?!
i'm not saying what he did is right or that he's justified in his actions. i'm saying there are probably reasons why he did what he did, however irrational, immature or convoluted as they may be. i've been in a situation where you'd rather cause someone the pain of betrayal than go through the headache of a breakup. it's stupid yeah, but that's why i'm giving my opinion. it's all hypothetical anyway. |
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There is no way i would ever take him back.
But at least an acknologement of it all would be nice. Ya know what a jerk. This is why i hate being single. |
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I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! You are right. Very reason I don't have a cam anymore because if you have one even for innocent use guys beg for you to use it for "their benefit". Quite disgusting I think. |
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I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. SOME men don't know how good they have IT....until after your gone.
My hope for you is to be able to move on, to a man who soooo deserves you. I hope that he never forgets how much he HURT you. Sometimes I just don't get it....... |
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I'd drop him like a hot potato...
he has lied if he is on an adult website and saying he is single that's definately a form of cheating in my book... if you can forgive, stay with him if not move on.... |
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I hate to say it...but...it's a rotten combination...trying to remain monogomous...and...having access to a computer...which by the way...has become the ruin of many a relationship...is quite difficult...especially for men...think about it...take the most beautiful women in the world...and...they get cheated on...there's a reason for a different issue of Playboy each month...sexually speaking...most men are never satisfied...and...require variety...monogomy...is not religious or culturally learned...you are not born that way...if you look at the entire male species...they are wired to pro create...remaining faithful is quite difficult...for most men...now lastly...I look at the computer problem this way...if a man is " chatting "..." camming "...online...isn't this the " symptom "...of a more major problem ?...it's very important to have " guidelines "...set up...whenever two people decide...that they are exclusive to one another...chatting and web camming online...is cheating in my opinion...I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! Here comes another generalization. A ton of women like variety, too. Geeeeez!!! Hard wiring for VARIETY is NOT only a man's general trait. It's about respect for your other half, period, if that is part of the couple's arrangement. And there are so many people out there to aid and abet in bad behaviour and make a buck off of it, too. |
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I've been thru the whole array of emotions.
Hurt,betrayal,disgust...I cried,yelled,screamed. Now i'm good...i've told him off and that the end of it! |
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I have always said...I would probably...avoid getting involved with a woman who owns a webcam...I mean...theres only one reason in my opinion that a woman would own a webcam...or a man for that matter....gulp !!...and we know what that is...re-gulp !! You are right. Very reason I don't have a cam anymore because if you have one even for innocent use guys beg for you to use it for "their benefit". Quite disgusting I think. I bought one at the urging of a guy and he was "nice". SURPRISE!!! Ended up wanting to masterbate for the cam and have me do crap, too. Call a sex line, dude, and stay away from my goodies. It wasn't that fancy that I just couldn't keep my eyes off of it!!! Freakin' egotistical old man!!! 
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Seeing this kind of thing happen really makes me wanna invest in a private investigator to investigate any man I even think I'd be interested in.
I can't tell you how sorry I am that you heart has been broken. But, it could have been worse. You exposed him to your children and had he been a child molestor or a murderer or something, you'd be regretting a lot more than a waisted 6 months. Ladies/Men please be careful about exposing your children to folks you haven't known very long. I agree 6 months seems like a long time, but but when you think about how long it takes to really get to know someone, 6 months isn't very long at all. |
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