Ok well i'm kinda a jealous girl lol Also i've been hurt in my past so find it hard to trust people although my man is so amazing and perfect to me i still don't beleive he aint gonna hurt me, i'm always ringing him and asking where he is i know this is making him want to be more distant so what should i do?
Anyone with advice or how i should treat him (without making him think he boss) tell me lol
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treat him the way he treats you,,, golden rule is always good

where goin to the strip club right now

Umm....decently?

You just have to trust. If he wants to cheat hes gonna cheat. If hes dosnt want to cheat then he wont.

treat him the way you want to be treated

good luck

That sounds normal to me. Every girl I have ever in a relationship with was inquisitive about my doings. Thats how a gals gotta be.

throw your cell phone away. Your going to make him NUTS!!!

stabbed in the knee with a spork rings a bell

No that will just make him horny!!!

razor blades and lemon juice?

Sounds like you weren't ready to move on from your last relationship, bringing baggage in from the past only hurts the present and leaves you lonely in the future. But if you can't heal yourself you could always duct tape his "tool" to his thigh while he is asleep, you won't have to worry about him straying for a few days! LOL

Jealousy is insecurity i.e. fear on your side. That can drive a wedge between you. Talk openly to him about it and find a way you can agree on what's okay and what's not okay....

If you don't give him some room to breathe, he is going to run far, far away. Trust him until you have a reason not to. If he is so perfect for you, don't you want to hold onto that?

fear is the path to the dark side. fear leads to anger. anger leads to hate. hate leads to suffering. ~ yoda

the tighter you squeeze, the more you will lose. everybody needs their space. if you believe he will hurt you even though he's done nothing to indicate that he would, eventually you will get hurt because your mistrust will hurt him and he will in turn likely leave you.
you have to give him his freedom and respect and if he's a real man, he will see that you trust him and he will respect and want to be with you.

Not all men are alike, so don't judge every man by your past. Just because you got hurt in the past does not mean that every single man is going to hurt you. Until you are over the feeling of comparing everyone...then I feel sorry for the guys you date. Stop comparing them to your past!!!
Obviously he wants to be with you or he would find someone else. Why do you feel the need to keep calling him? Do you think just because you call him, he won't cheat? If he wanted to..a phone call won't change his mind.
I have always been told to treat others like I want to be treated...maybe you should try that? Good Luck

Great advice.

you already knew what everyone would say and you know what you SHOULD do.....he chose YOU for a reason.....just chill and enjoy having each other