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but the BIG question here is...how long has this relationship been going?????
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Jealousy is insecurity i.e. fear on your side. That can drive a wedge between you. Talk openly to him about it and find a way you can agree on what's okay and what's not okay.... i agree. and if you continue being jealous. its going to chase him away big time.. your still young |
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With a small length of chain, a padlock and some duct tape...I can guarantee he will NEVER leave you.
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Ok well i'm kinda a jealous girl lol Also i've been hurt in my past so find it hard to trust people although my man is so amazing and perfect to me i still don't beleive he aint gonna hurt me, i'm always ringing him and asking where he is i know this is making him want to be more distant so what should i do? Anyone with advice or how i should treat him (without making him think he boss) tell me lol XxX Serious relationships are built on trust. If you do not trust him, you will not ever really have a serious relationship. Forget about what other men have done to you. He is not them. Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, trust him. |
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With a small length of chain, a padlock and some duct tape...I can guarantee he will NEVER leave you. glue handcuffs and whips all work well 
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Ok well i'm kinda a jealous girl lol Also i've been hurt in my past so find it hard to trust people although my man is so amazing and perfect to me i still don't beleive he aint gonna hurt me, i'm always ringing him and asking where he is i know this is making him want to be more distant so what should i do? Anyone with advice or how i should treat him (without making him think he boss) tell me lol XxX It's ok to be jealous... it's a natural instinct... but you can't take it out on him unless he gives you reason to. In a relationship you just have to have that trust. you have to be able to trust him to be faithful, and if he really is worth your time. he will be faithful. Yet if you show him you don't trust him by ringing him all the time and asking where he is... it very well could push him away or he may even just go out to somewhere you don't like just to spite you... |
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Ok well i'm kinda a jealous girl lol Also i've been hurt in my past so find it hard to trust people although my man is so amazing and perfect to me i still don't beleive he aint gonna hurt me, i'm always ringing him and asking where he is i know this is making him want to be more distant so what should i do? Anyone with advice or how i should treat him (without making him think he boss) tell me lol XxX Treat your man with respect, but ONLY if he reciprocates. Otherwise, dump his ass. |
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Jealously is not an organic emotion; it's manifested from fear and insecurities.
If you don't trust him, and you don't allow him personal time, he will bolt. No one wants to feel like they have a leash on in a relationship. If he is the type to cheat, he will do it regardless of how you act. Granted, some cheat borne from the idea ... "well, I might as well do what she/he thinks I'm doing" ... Cheating is a pathology within people that has little to do with the other person. Cheating is about one person's insecurities and their need to be wanted, their emptiness, etc. Relax and enjoy him! Don't push him away. To be harsh but in a friendly way -- get over yourself! 
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Jealously is not an organic emotion; it's manifested from fear and insecurities. If you don't trust him, and you don't allow him personal time, he will bolt. No one wants to feel like they have a leash on in a relationship. If he is the type to cheat, he will do it regardless of how you act. Granted, some cheat borne from the idea ... "well, I might as well do what she/he thinks I'm doing" ... Cheating is a pathology within people that has little to do with the other person. Cheating is about one person's insecurities and their need to be wanted, their emptiness, etc. Relax and enjoy him! Don't push him away. To be harsh but in a friendly way -- get over yourself!
Exactly- trust is VERY important in a relationship. You simply can't be in a relationship if you don't trust the other person, nor can you have one if you have no respect for him or her, either. |
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Sounds like it is already understood what to do, but that doing it is difficult. Perhaps keep track of the amount of calls and reduce it by one each day.
Roco |
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Don't live your life worrying it will make you old before your time. If he is going to do something believe me he will find a way to do it. Just trust him as much as you can and give him space. Don't smother!
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i see that you are engaged anyways....so i would hope that you KNOW how to treat a man....otherwise that is gonna be a very messed up marriage
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Ok well i'm kinda a jealous girl lol Also i've been hurt in my past so find it hard to trust people although my man is so amazing and perfect to me i still don't beleive he aint gonna hurt me, i'm always ringing him and asking where he is i know this is making him want to be more distant so what should i do? Anyone with advice or how i should treat him (without making him think he boss) tell me lol XxX Start with the assumption that there is a 100% chance of getting hurt in any relationship. Bring band-aids. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s34b8T44514 |
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With a small length of chain, a padlock and some duct tape...I can guarantee he will NEVER leave you.  
glue handcuffs and whips all work well
Mingle equivalent of Yeow-Yeow Sisterhood? 
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