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Topic: FWB Question
Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 02/09/09 08:13 AM
Older people fuss less also.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 02/09/09 08:16 AM
Wow! This is too much to comprehend all at once. I'm still trying to decipher my "Health benefits package" at work. One thing at a time here.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:18 AM
Sage~ I agree. Here is my question... I'm involved with a FWB situation. We are friends. Enjoy laughing, hanging out, but primarily sex. It is FANTABULOUSLY AWESOME. It always ends by 2pm the next day... depending on how late we eat breakfast. It has set into a regular Friday night thing, been going on for about a month to six weeks. Last Friday he used the L word.... I don't think he realized he said it, or if he remembers he said it, but I did not respond. It was very late and there was alcohol involved. We went to breakfast and things seemed fine. After I got home I got a text asking me how I felt about italian. Honestly? I thought the text was meant for someone else, a person he made plans with for Saturday night I assumed. I texted back "Italian what"... he replied he was planning on making dinner next week. Last week he had strawberries and champagne.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Mon 02/09/09 08:19 AM
Wow! This is too much to comprehend all at once. I'm still trying to decipher my "Health benefits package" at work. One thing at a time here. Oh god, forget it. I just wait for them to refuse to pay for something which will happen sooner rather than later and try to root around for that clause somewhere amongst page 79 or so.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/09/09 08:20 AM
He used the "Lilith" word???? or Did he mean he loves the activities....?

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Mon 02/09/09 08:21 AM
Sage~ I agree. Here is my question... I'm involved with a FWB situation. We are friends. Enjoy laughing, hanging out, but primarily sex. It is FANTABULOUSLY AWESOME. It always ends by 2pm the next day... depending on how late we eat breakfast. It has set into a regular Friday night thing, been going on for about a month to six weeks. Last Friday he used the L word.... I don't think he realized he said it, or if he remembers he said it, but I did not respond. It was very late and there was alcohol involved. We went to breakfast and things seemed fine. After I got home I got a text asking me how I felt about italian. Honestly? I thought the text was meant for someone else, a person he made plans with for Saturday night I assumed. I texted back "Italian what"... he replied he was planning on making dinner next week. Last week he had strawberries and champagne. Sounds to me like his emotions maybe coming into play. Maybe time to sit down and talk. U need to decide if u want it kept FWB or willin to try it as more. Good Luck

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:22 AM
It was made in bed..... he said, "I'm trying really hard... or I've been trying really hard (one of the two) to keep myself from telling you how much I love you".

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/09/09 08:23 AM
You are just too lovable ......Next!!!! It was made in bed..... he said, "I'm trying really hard... or I've been trying really hard (one of the two) to keep myself from telling you how much I love you".

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:24 AM
Well, I tried to chalk it up to drunken emotional ramblings and did not address it. But then the making dinner thing.... after the champagne and strawberries....plus he picks up for me when I come over.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 02/09/09 08:25 AM
I love you". I think that's defiantly taking it to the next level,

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/09/09 08:25 AM
I don't know anything about FWB's but I do know about FWG.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:26 AM
I love you". I think that's defiantly taking it to the next level, Have you ever said it and did not mean it or remember it? Is that impossible?

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 02/09/09 08:27 AM
sounds like hes emotionally involved

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:27 AM
I don't know anything about FWB's but I do know about FWG. Friends With Guns? Friends With Gonorrehea? Friends With Gonads?

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/09/09 08:28 AM
Does this mean that you are free on Saturdays ???? Sage~ I agree. Here is my question... I'm involved with a FWB situation. We are friends. Enjoy laughing, hanging out, but primarily sex. It is FANTABULOUSLY AWESOME. It always ends by 2pm the next day... depending on how late we eat breakfast. It has set into a regular Friday night thing, been going on for about a month to six weeks. Last Friday he used the L word.... I don't think he realized he said it, or if he remembers he said it, but I did not respond. It was very late and there was alcohol involved. We went to breakfast and things seemed fine. After I got home I got a text asking me how I felt about italian. Honestly? I thought the text was meant for someone else, a person he made plans with for Saturday night I assumed. I texted back "Italian what"... he replied he was planning on making dinner next week. Last week he had strawberries and champagne.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/09/09 08:28 AM
I don't know anything about FWB's but I do know about FWG. Friends With Guns? Friends With Gonorrehea? Friends With Gonads? Fat White Guy

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Mon 02/09/09 08:29 AM
What is your exact question?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 02/09/09 08:30 AM
Does this mean that you are free on Saturdays ???? Only every other Saturday ... my son is with his dad every other weekend and every other Friday overnight. I just got really sick of dating and this seemed like a solution that suited my needs. We dated for a few weeks and it ended up this way, actually because he called off the dating part.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 02/09/09 08:30 AM
Is that impossible? in my eyes, can't accidentally drop the L bomb that's just me thou, maybe you should rethink, turning your fwb, into LTR

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/09/09 08:30 AM
I have gathered.....That Lilith thinks saying "I love you" in a FWB situation may be out of line or at least not the norm.... What is your exact question?