i wish i did, but i'm pretty oblivious when it comes to reading people. i never pick up on a woman's interest until she's left for the evening. after i replay everything i spend the following days/weeks/months kicking myself for being dense.

He snuggles. I am the sexual one. It is why I use the pillow.

Last week, we went to breakfast and I was so full I said I had to lie down before I could drive home. I went upstairs and laid down on the bed. After a few minutes, he came up and was lying down with me, his head on my shoulder.

I instigated. He even commented on my sex drive and how much he enjoyed it. But he seems to be more willing to just cuddle and I ALWAYS take it to a sexual place.

LMAO .. Lilith no wonder we are friends. You sound toooo much like me

it seems like role reversal.
he's the girl and you're the guy.

Men r sooo vindictive when u break up with them!!

Fade~~~Larry (CB) calls me once in a while and I tell him about my dates. He always laughs at me and says I talk about sex and men like I was a guy talking about women.

I am a highly sexual person. If you can't do it at least twice and for at least an hour total... I'm out the door.

This man, he does it for hours, all night and all the next morning. 'Til I cry uncle....once I slid off the bed and said, wait I just need a break.... I actually got kudos from him saying I'm the one person who can really "take it".

You go girlfriend. I'm proud to have you as a fellow chica

No, they are vindictive either way. They are just less passive aggressive about it if it was their idea to break up.

Whew I'm being honest today... and same to you!

Now don't lump us all together.
Men were just taught different & to keep their "macho" image, they have to be the deal breaker.

But what about the pillow thingy?

nothing wrong with that.

Actually I think like a guy quite a bit .. so you are among friends. My former 27 yr old bf said I think about sex wayyyyyyy too much. How is that even possible??????????????????????

its not!!

If he is behind you, he is in control.
Does he roll over & go to sleep, or does he cradle your head in his arm, other arm over your body, poss. cupping your breast & relax/sleep that way. Soft breathing on your neck.
Basically does he display closness, or only wants to be close for the sex.

Close = cares
distance = just sex

People think about all your sexual encounters, this tells alot.


(had to rephrase that)

man, i'd forgive myself the past 14 years if i had a woman like you.

Sage~~~

Hmmmm. Interesting. I have no idea. I will pay attention to that this weekend....

Forgive yourself for what???????????

Drew, surely I cannot be an island. Fade just admitted she is the same way...

women are the same as men, ALL OVER.
Society says if they act like that, it is not good.

B.S., reason ladies likethis scare men away, it makes them question theis masculinity.

We, men were taught wrong, most need re educated.

Long story but KNOW I am right.

being alone

because i am to blame for it.

i'd like to not discuss this further.

this isn't the place for it.