Just wanted to explain something here.
What has been going on is confusing and not fair to you and to us who
where here when you came to jsh.
Picture, this

A GROUP OF PEOPLE COME IN TO YOUR HOME, MOST OF THEM DON'T EVEN
INTRODUCE THEM SELF AND JUST WALK IN AND START TALKING TO EACH OTHER
COMPLETELY IGNORING EVERYONE WHO WAS AT THE HOUSE
THEY JUST FIT WELL BECAUSE THEY KNOW EACH OTHER BUT YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHO
THEY ARE, SO YOU TRY TO SAY, HEY WAS UP. BUT THEY JUST SAY HEY, AND
CONTINUE TO FEEL AT HOME AND HAVE A GREAT CONVERSATION, BUT YOU'R JUST
STANDING THERE NOT KNOWING WHAT THE FUK IS GOING ON.

I KNOW THAT THIS IS A STRANGE WAY OF PUTTING IT BUT IT WAS BEST I CAN
DO. AS YOU SEE, SOME OF YOU ARE ON MY FRIENDS LIST BECAUSE I THINK THAT
YOUR COOL,
BUT YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND HOW THE MEMBERS ON JSH FELT WHEN WE WAS BUM
RUSHED BY A BUNCH OF PEOPLE ON THE SAME DAY AT THE SAME TIME, IT FELT
LIKE WE WHERE BEING INVADED.
THIS SITE IS FOR EVERYONE, AND WHEN SOMEONE COMES IN HERE WE ALL TRY TO
MAKE THEM FEEL WELCOME, AND YOU ARE ALL WELCOME.
THIS SITE WILL GET BIGGER AND BIGGER AND THAT WAS THE IDEA,
I POSTED JSH ON OTHER SITES SO THEY CAN JOIN US A WHILE A GO AND HAVE
HAD THE PLEASURE OF SEEN PEOPLE COME IN AND ENJOY THE SITE
THIS IS NOT MY SITE, OR OUR SITE IS EVERYONE SITE, AND WE HAVE MADE
FRIENDS THAT TOOK US A WHILE TO GET TO KNOW AND ESTABLISH A FRIENDSHIP.
LET US GET TO KNOW YOU LIKE EVERYONE WHO COME IN TO JSH.
INTRODUCE YOUR SELF SO WE CAN SEE WHO YOU ARE AND ALSO ESTABLISH A GOOD
FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU,,, SOME OF YOU ARE MY FRIENDS ALREADY AND
IM TRYING TO GET TO KNOW, AND IS A PLEASURE TO ME.
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT NOT EVERYONE IS GONNA LIKE YOU, JUST LIKE IN YOUR
OLD WEBSITE, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO JUST WONT GET ALONG
I HAVE SEEN IT WITH YOUR GROUP AND I KNOW THAT YOU ALL DON'T GET ALONG
AETHER SO LETS JUST ALL TRY TO MAKE THE BEST OF JSH,
AND WOULD LOVE TO SEE MY FRIENDS POSTING AGAIN AND HAVING FUN AS USUAL.
REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE NEW TO US EVEN THO YOU HAVE KNOWLEDGE OF FORUMS
AND DATING SITES.

AND IF WITH THIS POST I OFFEND ANYONE !!


WELCOME TO JUSTSAYHI.COM

thanks well said mo..

Hey morena.... good morning...

Well i posted an introduction of myself the first day i was here.
Didn't get a big warm welcome unfortunately. Don't say much here
usually. Still trying to find friends here. Yeah I have a few old
friends but new friends are nice too. I'm starting to meet a few. Hope
I can start to find some extended family here like i did before. Hate
to see all of us get lumped into this category ur talking about. Stop
by my profile or email. I'll get back to u. Hope I can make some more
friends once everybody calms down.

good morning Pal !!

im not on howlingcat/atdawn 's list

calm aproaching..... nice to meet you music..

sorry I did not see your introduction post
but chic, your welcome and I will email you and we can get to know
eachother

I've had nothing but a good experience in my short time here...I
appreciate the warm welcome I had when I came! Thank you to all of JSH
for making me feel at home

P.S. I don't see how you could have offended anyone with your post,
Morena, it was very tactful

WAY TO GOOOOO MAMITA,YOU TELLL THEM LIKE IT IS AND WJO EVER DONT LIKE IT
CAN GET THE!@#$%^&* OUT .YEAAAAAA

I didnt come from another site-
I dont fit in any catagory
Im a Inbetween lol
Hello-Morena!
Hi Everybody ...

Morena this is how I feeel when I come to this site.Not because of the
new people but the old ones. I can make a ppost and it goes almost un
noticed.you post and it gets responses out the buttocks.If youre not in
the click you dont the response you deserve. So before any of the
*oldies* go say anything,stop and think how you all make some of us that
arent as well known feel.Besides girl,this is the internet.No one will
be hapy all the time..cant lease everyone. no offense meant to
anyone.just how i feel. Ralph

Thank you for your words. It is completely understandable.

I, for one, started a thread the very moment I joined the site, to
introduce my self, very few people from the established crowd came in to
welcome me. They have done so most warmly over the course of days, and
now I feel totally at home.

I posted the following in a different thread today, but it conveys the
same feelings:

Thank you ***********... Once again, a great post, another warm welcome
for us newcomers.

I am still "new" to the site, in terms of having joined more recently
than others. I am new as well, to the world of internet
friendship/dating... I have found many wonderful friends, a lot of
interesting characters that, even though I cannot call my friends, have
my respect, because they are people of integrity and opinions.

Most early members have been most accomodating to the more recent
joiners. But now, we are all in the same cathegory: MEMBERS. It's been
more than 2 weeks since the massive exodus. We were requested to stop
talking about the unmentionable site, and most have complied.

I concur very much with the posts about change. The only sure thing in
life, besides dying, is change. Everything changes constantly, nothing
stays still, everything is ever changing. If it wasn't us coming in
here, something else would have changed this site eventually, for better
or for worse.

Personally, I think that most of the new comers are respectful,
opinionated, intelligent and corteous. And for the most part we have met
with the same; as in any large group, there are the odd rude ones,
obnoxious, embarrasing ones, that thrive on making others life
impossible, and embarras their own and make fools out of themselves.

I, for one, like the site, and the people here. The people in my
"friends" page is mostly those that came with me, for obvious reasons,
but several of the early settlers of this site have requested my
friendship. And that's why I am here for. To make new friends, to learn,
to express myself.
**************

Thank you for making room for us, and for accepting us in... We are a
nice bunch, not from a different species, we will be friends...

Cheers!

Ayira

Ralph, your feeling like this since you joined jsh
and yes you are right, some of the members are ass holes but that is
them, you know I stick around and talk to everybody

good luck to you ralph

Thank you Morena for this post.
I do understand where you are coming from and I appreciate it that
You say it freely.
Some things you said though worked the other way round as well.
I started posting in some threads and was ignored by people that had
been on the site long before me. Not by a lot mind, but still by a good
few.
Would you blame me now for sticking with my old friends?
I hope not because I like the site and I have found my niche here.

Morena I have nothing but good for you dear. I do have people that I
have had problems with and emailed them to no avail. I was just simply
saying the same thing as Alada just in a different way..lol.What really
gets me is you try to make friends add them and they write you or answer
a post a time or two then nothing. I dont try to be something im not.Im
me ..love me or hate me. Either you fall into that click or you dont. Im
not here enough to lknow who the new ones and the old ones are.i
needddddddddddd friends!!!!!

thanks morena. you are the best. exacly how I was feeling. but you know
me I am just a shy girl. well hope the new and the old get to be 1 big
famly like we where before, us and the new ones.

well hope to meet you all and welcome.

Yada,yada,next.

and sorry for being so blunt,but we can't even begin to moderate the
comings and goings to a dating site/forum,would only hope that a weclome
to all was in agreement.

Lite be with ALL!

I'm not an asshole ...

one of the first to jump in and help ....even if it was a
stranger....

am I an asshole now?

Morena, the woman of many faces but you showed your true identity with
this post. you have a heart that is solid gold. You are one cool, oops i
meant hot woman, no I meant both!!! Now I've confused myself.

For Morena