while searching for your mutual match why does 90% 0f the men on here click on a woman pic showing intrest in her & then later on when she reply back or maybe you have e-mailed her showing intrest and then you all the sudden have stoped talking to her with out giving both of you a chance or telling her why you have stoped talking to her when she im's you aand you dont reply back please dont mutual match with a lady if your not for sure about her or because she lives to far away from you it would be better if you didnt lead someone one on and please dont tell a lady what you think she wonts to hear be up front and honestwith your self and her know ahead of time what kind of woman and realtionship you wont before you start e-mailing and matching with the lady's its has happend to me and it very confusing to me and it a waste of people time just be your self and be honest .i was on this site awhile back for few monthe then i resently rejoined again thank's one good hearted woman

I didn't see the question.

i was never good at grammar, but i can see a run-on sentance when i see one.

I'm going to assume this is a problem regarding men that we could easily accuse a lot of women of also doing...

That, and it is way too late to be typing.

It's simple. They lost interest in you and instead of just coming right out and telling you that, they try to spare your feelings and so they just stop talking to you in hopes that you'll get the hint.

I KNOW I AM NOT A GUY but.....
If someone is clicking on your picture, it's just to see the profile. Maybe after reading/seeing it they realize they are not interested. Plus in on your main pic you can't see your face (not an insult...haven't looked yet myself)because it is cut-off. And, the beauty of this site is you really don't have to continue speaking with someone if you choose...no questions asked or at least don't have to be asked or explained. And, "mutual match" doesn't mean they automatically want something or are very interested. We all get those "mutual match" things. It sounds maybe like you may be taking it personally but you really should try not to. Just enjoy and if there is a connection...GREAT...if not...OH WELL...at least that's how I see it. If you expect people to give you certain courtesies and they don't, just be thankful, they aren't doing what you expect and aren't for you. Things like you spoke of happened to me and I also haven't responded back to all...that would be a WASTE of time. How does that saying go, "don't put your eggs all in one basket!" We should all heed that advice.
-Michelle

PS:Just looked at your profile. Maybe you should correct some of the spelling errors. There are lots (pretty bad)! I am not trying to be rude...I know poor grammar/spelling is not attractive to me. I know am not always grammatically correct, so I am NOT trying to stand on a "soapbox" and preach but thought it might help to tell you...

It's because men SUCK!

Here, this might cheer you up:

One period in the wrong place and disjointed thoughts.
Are you bipolar?

Me neither...


OP Welcome to the internet.

Mingle sends you mutual matches, doesn't mean that the man clicked 'yes' on the match thingy..

Women do the same.

I'm not sure about the question? But from what I got out of what you said. these guys are not interested.

I myself, am 98% visually impared...so when I come to the forum and see someone who draws my interest, I click on to their pic so I can see em' better.......and if they happen to raise an eyebrow { or sum-tin else },I'll start writing to em' to start a friendship....you dont have to just write to certain people, heck--write to anyone til ya get blocked...

And every sex is guilty of that...well, I only read Carmen's reply as I can't read the one sentence with double-negatives very well.

Welp. Thanks for coming back to the site. You definately fit in here.

Did anyone see a comma in there ? This is why
pharmaceutical companies are getting sooo damn rich. Blasted legal drug dealers

I have found that a lot of women are not very good at keeping an email conversation going. I do my best to answer every email, even if it's just to say thanks for your note, but I don't think we're a good match.

For example, I'll read in a woman's profile that she likes scuba diving and I'll write her asking about where she thinks the best places to dive are and she'll write back "the lake." That's it! That may sound over the top, but I really got that answer once. How can you talk to someone like that?

found the question

Wow......I thought mutual match was really a " Would you do me?" thing.......did you know that maybe really means yes??? and yes really means maybe???? and No doesnt mean anything because they will hunt you down until you say yes?????