while searching for your mutual match why does 90% 0f the men on here click on a woman pic showing intrest in her & then later on when she reply back or maybe you have e-mailed her showing intrest and then you all the sudden have stoped talking to her with out giving both of you a chance or telling her why you have stoped talking to her when she im's you aand you dont reply back please dont mutual match with a lady if your not for sure about her or because she lives to far away from you it would be better if you didnt lead someone one on and please dont tell a lady what you think she wonts to hear be up front and honestwith your self and her know ahead of time what kind of woman and realtionship you wont before you start e-mailing and matching with the lady's its has happend to me and it very confusing to me and it a waste of people time just be your self and be honest .i was on this site awhile back for few monthe then i resently rejoined again thank's one good hearted woman