Thank you Lex, all I can do is be me and if given a chance all will find
me to be a great guy with nothing but best wishes for all.

tulip

I have been thinking about you

hey ron ((hugs))

ya know, i've read all 8 pages of this...and ..i feel i HAVE to post my
thoughts on this...


this seems to be in regards to one individual only..

when i first got here, back in October, i was quiet on the forum, only a
few bits of my thoughts here and there, and yes..i ran across a few i
REALLY didn't like...their posts were rude, obnoxious, and downright
heartless and uncaring in my opinion.

i could name names...but i really don't see how that would accomplish
anything but open a whole new can of worms.

now, the "eat a d*ck" person happened to be one of 'em, if any of you
would like, im sure you could email him and ask him what it was that i
asked him. it was something along the lines of 'why are you so nice in
emails, but such an a$s on the forum?" his reply? he was only joking,
read more of his posts, and he hoped i'd see that he was indeed only
joking, nothing was said to be offensive...he only says off the wall
stuff for the laughs...he was deeply sorry if i was insulted..(remember
this email spay??)

now, after gettin that email, i did just sit back and read, how he
interacted with others, how others interacted with him. and i
realized..this crazy man only said stuff for shock value.. he's either
crazy, has no common sense, or he was being truthful and honest......he
really isn't the as$ i seriously thought he was...

since then, some of the "older regs" (if you can call us that) have been
annoyed by others too (not implying anyone that came from an
unmentionable site..just 'others') we've had our 'debates' and our
disagreements, and handled them quite well i thought, including my
'disagreement' with sluggo...and let me tell you, that man can get under
my skin easier than i'd like to admit lol

maybe it's just me, but after comin to JSH in October, i've met some
REALLY cool ppl, some i would go hang out with if given the oportunity,
some i'd really rather not, some that i can't wait to see again, and
some that have just touched my life, and i'll never be the same (ty
Lonelyteardrop, CCP, Spay, Shushi, Lily, Txgal, Nascarcutie, Flatlander,
G, Lion, Shadow and Karma [no particular order you guys])..

anyways, eventually everything blows over, everything we held as
'important' at sometime gets shoved to the back burner cuz life happens,
or something in our personal lives becomes more 'important' to us.

i realize, im the type of person to confront the fool that pisses me
off, i asked 'em straight out why they act the way they do. i also
realize that others may not deal with issues the way i do, to each their
own...but...what are YOU puttin on the back burner for this issue??

i think this is prolly one of the most awesome sites i've found, AND
it's free im gonna be forever thankful to Mike and Vanchau.
For those of you who are still upset about this "eat a d*ck" poster,
you've said your piece, you've debated your opinion, you've been heard..

SUMO = shut up, move on

thnx
LG

(this was in no way an attack on anyone, or meant to degrade anyone...
just my thoughts on this issue)

Change is the only thing that is constant. They come and they go. They
come back, leave, go to places unknown. Then, the new bunch arrives, and
it starts over. Change, the only thing constant.

This community is like all others in this universe...the friction and
the love; the good; bad and the ugly; the comings and goings; and each
community whether a website, village town or city has it's own little
unique qualities. I have seen the same things here as in other
communities and I take the attitude of caring, concern, fun and
curiousity and most of all not to take it all too seriously. If a person
attacked me with vulgarity I would say the same as Lex....and then let
it go. We all belong, pure and simply; even the people who are nasty
until they get booted for breaking the ground rule. And to all my new
friends and friends from CS here now; you all are great!! Times a
wastin' make the most of this day!! Oceans is coning to visit me
today........our first meeting!!