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ty pappa

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Tulip is fairly new....and she is cool as hell. I sincerely mean that,
Tulip.

My point...be new, be cool, have a good time......don't break into a
sweat and end up wetting yourself:

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I only wet myself when i laugh to much but .......oh come an smoke a
peace pipe and **** all this debating crap........

lilly some people , you try to talk to it is like banging head against
wall......


some like to debate rules regulations not about being an individual and
off days and good days....


pew.....smoke mary or smoke a peacepipe and dance with the wolves
naked.......or somethin like that

Lily, you're reading things into my posts that aren't there.

I'm trying to show a parallel between Spay's "greeting" to me, and the
way some of the old-timers are treating some of the newbies.

I'm trying to demonstrate double standards that exist.

How would you react if the first thing someone said to you on the site
was "I think you're a fake, eat a d**k"? You don't know anyone on the
site, you don't know anything about what kind of people are here. And
that's how you get greeted.

What would you think about the site?

Spay NEVER apologized. He has never even spoken to me directly.

That's the reality.

I understand that you consider him a friend.

Fine.

But I am still waiting for someone to explain how "eat a d**k" is an
appropriate comment to make to a newbie on the site. How do you justify
that?

You're right, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and I will
support you 100% on that point.

But if you think "eat a d**k" is an appropriate greeting for a newcomer,
then we are simply never going to agree on that point.

And, once again, I will ask you how you can possibly justify or excuse
that sort of behavior.

AMEN, sister!!

"Here come 'ole flat top he come groovin" up slowly; he got shoo shoo
eyeballs; he got holy roller; he got hair down to his knees. Got to be a
joker he just do what he please. COME TOGETHER, RIGHT NOW OVER ME." J.
Lennon--ABBEY ROAD

I have to agree with Lex
I have met several great and wonderful ppl on JSH,
but some times the new ppl are talked "around"
and when I first signed on I did receive several
emails from someone on here saying they read my
profile and I seem demanding and no wonder I am divorced.
I try to get to know some of the ppl and they ignore me,
but wonderful ppl like Misty, Joshy, Sage, Alpine, etc...
make it worth visiting over and over.

Frankly, I was disappointed a little when I migrated from CS, Lex..

The very first mail I git here was from a very negative person, whom you
have so aptly described..

However, because I an a positive person, I simply used the 'block'
function, and muddled on.

I am glad I did, because, I have met some very interesting and convivial
folks here..

Your thread was refreshing for its honesty..

(signed) *Bibby..

Lex, I can see your point about the effect that 'eat a d#ck' type
comments can have on people. I think some people mis-understand you to
be coming from a place of 'harboring of grudge', when, in fact you are
using your personal experience to illustrate a larger point.

And there are clearly some double standards here at JSH, thought I'm
sure Mike/VC do their best to minimize that.

hey this thread is still here

gotta tell ya somethin

Ahhhhh, yes! The block button!!
You probably don't want to know what my response would have been to "eat
a d*ck".....I have a very sarcastic wit, and would have thoroughly
enjoyed the exchange. I can suggest some witty comments for next time. I
handle things my way....and I usually end up with more friends and
having a really good time.

hey Lex thanks for your support towards the newbys

Lily,

I have a good time because I choose to..

I have seen some of your posts, and, I agree that you
have a well established sense of humour..

That is how I live my life..If we can't laugh, we might as well not
live..

I have also seen scenarios, such as Lex has described..I don't like
going there..

Peace to You and Yours...

(signed) *Bibby..

Very nice to make your acquaintance, Bibby!

every time i see that name...i picture you with a bib tied around your
neck.

sorry, can't help it.

Lily, the context was that I was asking a question about a JSH member
who had emailed me and included some (what I considered to be)
prematurely familiar information. I was looking for some input from the
people on the site as to how I should deal with this. Is it too much to
expect a civil repsonse?

See, because that's the root of this thing. If I can't get a civil
response on the forums here (and how was I to know that the site is full
of good, non-vulgar, non-abusive people at that point?), I might as well
hang out on MySpace.

You want to defend your friend, fine, I would do the same. I'm
suggesting, however, that his actions, in this particular instance,
were, and are, indefensible.

Right or wrong?

Just answer the question please.