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Topic: all that effort
Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 01/26/09 04:32 PM
I wrote you an email. TALK TO ME, DAMMIT!! Read me all of War and Peace while standing on your head and I might deem you worthy. Nope. Way to boring. I just don't like the Russian authors. Ayn Rand would be a little more interesting. Yes, I know she was Russian. But much more interesting to read. Okay, Atlas Shrugged is my all time favorite book anyway. Wait, I have that somewhere. I was gonna read it. What did I do with it? Who stole my BOOOOOOOOK!!!!??????

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 01/26/09 04:32 PM
I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. So then believe that she appreciated the effort. She just wasn't feelin' ya Seriously, I still see no point in getting upset. Unfortunately, most people really don't give a rat's ass about the effort you've put in.

flyace Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 40	Mon 01/26/09 04:41 PM
I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. So then believe that she appreciated the effort. She just wasn't feelin' ya Seriously, I still see no point in getting upset. Unfortunately, most people really don't give a rat's ass about the effort you've put in. I guess I'll just start sending one line emails. like "hey, sup... yo"

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 01/26/09 04:43 PM
I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. So then believe that she appreciated the effort. She just wasn't feelin' ya Seriously, I still see no point in getting upset. Unfortunately, most people really don't give a rat's ass about the effort you've put in. I guess I'll just start sending one line emails. like "hey, sup... yo" You need to get to know people by posting in the forums. It will take time, but so what?

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 01/26/09 04:43 PM
I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. So then believe that she appreciated the effort. She just wasn't feelin' ya Seriously, I still see no point in getting upset. Unfortunately, most people really don't give a rat's ass about the effort you've put in. I guess I'll just start sending one line emails. like "hey, sup... yo" Or don't get upset about the "unappreciated effort......"

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 01/26/09 04:46 PM
I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. So then believe that she appreciated the effort. She just wasn't feelin' ya Seriously, I still see no point in getting upset. Unfortunately, most people really don't give a rat's ass about the effort you've put in. I guess I'll just start sending one line emails. like "hey, sup... yo" Or don't get upset about the "unappreciated effort......" That too

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Mon 01/26/09 04:50 PM
I think everyone is missing my point not that I'm not mad about not getting a response. I just think that women in general expect to be wooed by the initial contact. I think that expectation is ridiculous if all they are going to do is read it. we should just be able to say "Hi I'd like to talk to you." but no that's boring and shows no effort or imagination. if I put that and no response ok so what. but I actually put effort into it. I'm not upset about being rejected by some random person on the internet... I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. Maybe the 'Hi, I'd like to talk to you' is best at first. Why put the effort out if they don't even want to talk to you? And for the record, men do the same thing to women. Blah, blah, blah.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/26/09 05:05 PM
Do what I do and just don't give a damn...makes this site a hell of a lot funner and a lot less stressful. Been on a few dates from this site, so you can get dates...however as experience as my teacher, these dates also come with expectations...don't meet them and you are cut out, meet them and you are cut out. Lose/lose regardless of how hard you try to make it work, so I gave up. LMAO .. welcome to the world of dating .. R/L as well as o/l. If none of us remembers back .. dating SUX. Some things never change Oh it changed, I stopped dating...killed my social life, now I'm a lot more peaceful. ahhhhhhhhh do I sense a bitter attitude NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/26/09 05:07 PM
I think everyone is missing my point not that I'm not mad about not getting a response. I just think that women in general expect to be wooed by the initial contact. I think that expectation is ridiculous if all they are going to do is read it. we should just be able to say "Hi I'd like to talk to you." but no that's boring and shows no effort or imagination. if I put that and no response ok so what. but I actually put effort into it. I'm not upset about being rejected by some random person on the internet... I'm upset about the unappreciated effort. sigh .. hey I answered your email. And it was short. And certainly not woo'ing .. so ya taps fingers on keyboard waiting for response

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 01/26/09 05:09 PM
I will give you the most sound advice on here...post nude pics, get all the chicks

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Mon 01/26/09 05:10 PM
Is this a....NICE GUY thread in the makings or what

downhomechik Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 479	Mon 01/26/09 05:12 PM
It's part of the dance. If she was interested she would have responded. She's not. I do remember one, though, where I sent an incredibly funny and charming email (hush, it was independently verified 'funny') and I got 'crickets'. Nothing. And I was just disappointed because it really was funny and felt it would at least get me a "You're a moron. I've already filed for a restraining order" response. You do kinda look like Jim Carey and its making me laugh....

FireOfThePhoenix Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 14098	Mon 01/26/09 05:12 PM
Store? AWSOME I'll take 4 Moondarks, 4 fireofthephoenix's, and a bottle of dom. Paper or platic you say? I'll take plastic :) Awwwwww you just made my day hon

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/26/09 05:14 PM
Is this a....NICE GUY thread in the makings or what OOOH OOOH I wanna be part of it cuz I NEVAH look for or date nice guys .. BAD BOYS ROCK ON!!!!

flyace Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 40	Mon 01/26/09 05:20 PM
I don't think I really qualify as a "nice guy". and I really wanted to part of that thread.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/26/09 05:29 PM
I don't think I really qualify as a "nice guy". and I really wanted to part of that thread. here you can be part of this one .. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/200145

Roco Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1165	Mon 01/26/09 06:48 PM
..online dating/interaction requires thicker skin..just the nature of the beast.. roco

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/26/09 06:49 PM
..online dating/interaction requires thicker skin..just the nature of the beast.. roco EXACTLY. It's NOT for the weak of heart for sure.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Mon 01/26/09 06:55 PM Edited by scoundrel on Mon 01/26/09 06:56 PM
I cannot--and do not--recall all the times that it took my wife some time to form her response to my well-thought-out communication. Sometimes it takes a while before a woman wants to recall some subject (when she's got her ducks in a row.)

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Mon 01/26/09 07:32 PM
Is there a particular reason you directed me to this thread Mr flyace? It wouldn't be the 1.25 sentence email you sent that I checked from my blackberry on my three second break from work this afternoon would it? My inbox says you sent that email 4 hours ago, and you started this thread at 2:54 pm which is three and a half hours ago for me. Do you think from where I sit now I'm over all happy or unhappy that I didn't respond to you?